The Grace Fueled Wife | Communication, Intimacy, Separation, Reconciliation, Christian Marriage

Someone has done something to offend you. More than offense you’re probably angry, hurt, and starting to feel resentful.  Perhaps you know you SHOULD forgive that person but are struggling with the how. Perhaps you feel resentful of the idea that you “should” forgive this person but don’t think they deserve it or you are struggling to trust them again.  In this episode, we discuss a 5 step process...

It can be really difficult to connect in your marriage if one or both of you aren’t communicating well. Here are three reasons why your husband might not be communicating and some tips to try.    Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!   Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work...

Are you going through a season of anxiety or a tough time? When we’re faced with these seasons we often find it hard to keep the faith or sometimes even to have the motivation to get through the day.  Whether you’ve been going through a hard time or not you may want to save this episode to learn how to fight for your marriage, kids, or finances God’s way, and learn how to keep the faith when you’r...

There are many mixed opinions on this issue mostly because they say it will confuse you or your husband. In some cases, however,  it can heal the marriage.    Here are some tips and arguments for each side to help you decide what’s best for you.    Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community...

Way back in episode 1, I said I would talk about the things that I did which led to my separation. In the excitement of the new show, the start of the pandemic, and recording episode after episode of all the mistakes we make as wives, I forgot to add my 3 biggest mistakes!  Let’s be clear, I’ve made so many more mistakes. Most of which I’ve talked about in other episodes, but these three are the b...

No matter where you are in your marriage, whether you’re on the brink of separation or you are just looking to reconnect, this episode will help you to visualize and achieve the marriage of your dreams.  For some of you, the dream will be as big as "I want to win my husband back" for others, you just want to be intimate again.  We start off with some journal prompts and end with 5 steps to partner...

I see you out there trying to increase intimacy and connection in your marriage. You want to prioritize date night but don’t have child care.    Here is a quick tip for you to make it happen THIS WEEK!   Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!   Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready...

Is it ever okay to give your husband the silent treatment?   I’m sure you’ve wanted to before. Who hasn’t? Although anger and resentment may cause you to want to give your husband the silent treatment, healthy marriages have strong communication and high intimacy levels.   So what do we do when we’re not feeling those things? In this week’s episode, we learn how and when it might be appropriate to...

Are you looking for more intimacy in your marriage? Whether you want more sex or just more meaningful conversation the state of your bedroom could be to blame for the disconnection you’re feeling. This episode will give you three questions to ponder to identify how making some changes to your bedroom can lead to major changes in your marriage.    Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can...

If you are looking for books on marriage whether your marriage is struggling or faces normal struggles like everyone else, this episode is for you. I give you my top 3 books to read for the next three months to improve and restore your marriage.    Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!   Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: htt...

Ever wonder why your husband is so grumpy? Learn why AND help your cranky husband come around with these 5 quick tips.  Remember, since we probably aren’t going to divorce over moodiness it's more of a tension to be managed rather than a problem to be solved!    Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!   Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marria...

If you’ve ever gotten frustrated because your apology wasn’t accepted or perhaps your husband’s apology didn’t feel genuine for you, this episode is for you! You'll learn why your husband might not believe your apology or why you might not believe his.  Also, here is the link to my previous episode referenced talking about How to craft an effective apology.    Apple Podcasts: E47// How to craft an...

You may not be able to change your husband but you can influence him!!!! Here are a few ways you can influence your husband WITHOUT manipulating him!   1 - with your actions.  Model the behavior you want Listen without interruption (help him to feel seen and heard) Act with integrity - do what you say you will do 2- Your silence  Don't criticize. “If you want to gather honey” don’t kick over the b...

I’m sure at one time or another you and your husband have fought over finances. It is one of the #1 fights couples have and is actually the 2nd leading cause of divorce after infidelity.  But just because you may be fighting about money now, doesn’t mean you have to continue that way. In this episode, we talk about 4 things you can do to stop fighting over money, start communicating about it more...

Has your husband told you that he doesn’t love you anymore and wants out? That he no longer wants to be in the marriage? That he is tired of trying to make it work? That the issues are mostly yours and he doesn’t believe they will change?    You are not alone. These were some of the exact words from 5 different listeners this month. There may still be hope for your marriage but you have to start b...

Hey mama, are you tired?  Are you tired of feeling like you have a disconnected and loveless marriage?  Are you tired of feeling like your husband is more of a roommate than a spouse?  Are you tired of feeling like your marriage is over and there is very little hope because your husband walked out and you are now left alone?  Are you tired of all the marriage resources for Christian women either n...

We’ve all heard about couples who “grow apart.” It’s what happens when they become so disconnected and far away that they have trouble getting back to the passion and love they once shared. This “growing apart” usually starts off with roommate syndrome. You know, that feeling that your husband is more of a roommate than a soulmate…   Here is the truth, just because your marriage may feel like that...

Are you wondering what God says about you, your marriage, the plans you have in life? In this episode, we discuss 3 tips to start hearing God’s voice today as taught by Priscilla Shirer in her book Discerning the Voice of God.     Let me know what you think!! Let’s connect!    Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!   Work with me: The Grac...

Are you feeling insecure in your marriage? A few weeks ago we talked about how insecurity is hurting your marriage, in this episode, we learn 3 tips (plus a bonus 😉) for how to overcome that insecurity, improve your connection, and reduce resentment for your husband.    Let me know what you think!! Let’s connect!    Wait!!! Before you go!  Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part...

As we enter into this second month of the year many of us are looking at the goals or resolutions we’ve made - or broken so far and either thinking about how to recommit to them or how we can make new goals.    So often, however, we make goals for our health, business, faith, motherhood, and we DON’T make goals for our marriage yet God’s word says very clearly, “without vision the people will peri...

We can all feel unappreciated in marriage at times.  Here are three ways to reduce your resentment and increase intimacy in your marriage rather than creating resentment and anger.  Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! ht...

Your husband cheated. Now What? How do you go on? How do you forgive him when you are filled with such anger and pain. You’re feeling heartbroken but you want to forgive him, or at least you know that God has called you to forgive but are not sure what to do.    I pray this episode is a blessing to you and if it isn’t relevant, please share it with someone whom you think may need to hear it.  Here...

Do you think you might be insecure in your marriage and are wondering how to change it? Perhaps you aren’t sure if you have a right to feel this way. Perhaps you don’t feel insecure at all.    The truth is we ALL have some insecurities, it’s just that some people are better at managing them and not allowing them to hurt their relationships.  In this episode, we will talk about 3 ways your insecuri...

Ever wonder why your husband says such hurtful things? In this episode, we explore 3 reasons why he might be saying mean things lately. We also learn the difference between mean and moody.    These three things will help you to problem-solve and communicate with your husband with a deeper understanding. Try them out and let us know in the Facebook group how it went!   Wait!!! Before you go!  Here...

Wives, I see you out there - trying as best you can to hold the family together. Trying to maintain an image of a respectable family - which you have, except that your husband shows up much less than you let on. I see you, making excuses for him when he doesn’t show up to church, a family event, or an invitation to a friends house. I see you. searching for community, trying, what it seems like - a...