The Gorgeous Ginger Lawyer

After illness, I'm back and reflecting hard on this one since I have clothing and a professional career I'm looking at where changes should be made. This is the first evening dress I got and I wore it to my sorority chapter's Installation banquet. Debating on whether to keep that or not.

Who hates when someone offers you something, you take it and then your acceptance is thrown back in your face? Is it a difference between dog people and cat people? Random Gideon Bible here since God sides with me on this topic.

I've pondered this for years and still don't have an answer. Also, life updates. For those unfamiliar, this is the old 5 Pointz in Queens. It was destroyed by bureaucracy and the problem I'm mentioning here.

Musings about the recent CEO shooting in NYC and the sudden concern of Jordan Neely's family in light of the Daniel Penny trial. I saw this at a weekend flea market and it sums up the sentiment around the recent CEO shooting even though that guy killed him vs. just kicking his butt.

In light of recent death affecting me and having dealt with it a lot before, I figured now was the time to do that episode. This is Grim from "The Grim Adventures of Billy and Mandy," a great show you should see if you can. Grim has a Jamaican accent and, of course, he's the Grim Reaper so only fitting that he be the pic here.

Unless you like creating drama or have a death wish, you don't do this. I have a sister and if you dated her, I'm not dating you. No exceptions. Random Subway artwork that sums it up nicely.

I got a new mic so trying out a video format with some musings. Next week, I'll be having a guest and hopefully you won't be seeing my cat's butt on camera.

This realization was shocking to me. I was also testing out my wireless mic and the cat jumped on me so pardon any audio messiness. Pic is from the Judge Jerry set. I still maintain he'd have been a great president but more on that in a future episode.

The age old issue of long lines at the ladies room died with the transgender people (particularly women) getting to use the ladies rooms. What's good for the goose and all that. Saw this street artwork at random one day. Anyone got a comment or ideas on that one?

The term "drama" is very subjective when it comes to relationships but I finally figured out what that means for me. Pic is a Bob Ross Pop doll. His passing involves a LOT of drama; check out the Netflix documentary on that one.

They will. I just learned about the concept of rage rooms this week. The pic is what the inside of the trampoline park I went to looked like (but not the same place I went--I found this image at random).

It's an age old topic but I bring a nuanced take and a recent event (recorded Sunday so "last night" refers to Saturday night). These are unstuffed peppers I made for me at home. This is the type of cooking skill I have that makes me a rarity in NYC.

Interview with Ray Johnson, author of the new book "Conspiracy Ignited" which you can learn more about here: https://raymondpauljohnson.com/conspiracy-ignited/

I recently participated in a karaoke contest and found myself in a fundamental disagreement over how one should approach singing for an audience. The next episode will likely be another interview so check it out once that's done. Got this pic on a Yelp Elite outing to Blue Lounge. I believe it was in February 2020, the last event I went to before NYC officially went to Pandemic Hell.

I got a new job in the nick of time and comment on how to effectively approach women. Took this pic in the subway ages ago and holding firm to this is how I've managed to make it in life.

My experience with road tripping and how to do it right. This is a pic I took of the Arkansas border, as that is part of the road trip I took with my friend to CA. I was in a better position to get those pics in that one.

With all the recent documentaries, I'm seriously left with that question and feel it's a strong argument for the presence of general/in-house counsel in entertainment companies. This pic is of a street in LA I traveled on while on a road trip with a friend of mine in 2019.

Recorded this on Easter so I figured it was a good time to speak on an article I read about whether it's okay to drink coffee in church or not. Pic is of an actual church with pews and the books visitors can use to participate in services

Just read a story about people outsourcing their online dating, which I find unethical and more job woes I hope a reverse recruiter will solve. Pic is a random sign I saw in NYC that also is accurate

A very busy week and finding yet another rejection in the law firm world has led to a major epiphany: get away from the law firm set and the 80% of jerks within it. Took this pic one day at the courthouse and it sums up what many people, including some lawyers, think of the legal industry itself (including the experience of going to court).

Lots of life updates and unexpected events. I took this pic at a casino in Atlantic City when I was on a top deck. It feels like my life is the ocean and I'm looking at it from this vantage.

I've been super busy lately and definitely trying to focus on gratitude, what I do have and so forth. This is a pic of one side of my vision board. By the way, they DO work.

Getting flowers from an undesirable source, celebrating your friend's birthday and why you don't give mixed signals to people. These are the flowers I mention. Also, the bell ringing is my cat's collar.

The changing perceptions of being on public assistance & some of what that experience is like. This pic is of a damaged car I saw in the neighborhood I lived in when I was married. It feels like a fitting metaphor for this episode.

I saw this question in a group I'm part of and had to really think of an answer but I figured it out. This is a random stock pic but it feels accurate to my state and what the future holds.