The Girl Defined Show

Send a text Ep. 159 - Marrying a man of godly character sounds great...but how can you know if he's ACTUALLY a godly man?  You need answers to questions like, “What kind of character does this guy have?” “Where is his heart in regard to what God’s Word teaches?” “Does he genuinely love the Lord, and is this evident in his actions?” “Does he uphold God’s Word as the greatest authority in his l...

Send a text Ep. 158 - It's easy to be a fearless Christian woman around people who agree with you. But, what about those settings where people disagree? Are you willing  to stand up for God's design at work, school, and on social media? Are you truly willing to live an unashamed life of the gospel of Jesus? It's time to link arms and live bold and courageous lives for Jesus. Let&apo...

Send a text Ep. 157 - Enjoy this important replay. Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment. "You're enough." "Your turn is next!" "You'll get that baby soon." "Marriage is in your future." "Good things are coming your...

Send a text Ep. 156 - We surveyed hundreds of single women for our book Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart. The answers were unanimous. Single women desperately need help, guidance and mentorship. They shared their struggles with porn, erotica, masturbation and said that they don't know who or where to turn for help. Married Christian women should be the FIRST ones to reach o...

Send a text Ep. 155 - Enjoy this replay. The word identity has become one of the biggest buzz words of our day. Our modern culture is passionate about spreading the message that our truest identity can be found within ourselves. We’re told that who we are has nothing to do with God, but everything to do with us. As we live in the midst of this popular narrative, we need to remind ourselves that ou...

Send a text Ep 154 - Is it okay to want to be married? Is there anything a single woman can do to make marriage happen? Candice Watters gives women permission to want Christian marriage and encourages them to believe it's possible. In today's conversation, we're giving you practical steps you can take to make marriage a more likely part of your future. FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Te...

Send a text Ep. 153 -  We hope you enjoy this replay. Have you ever wondered anything like this: “How will I know when I meet my future husband?” Or, “How will I know if he’s the one I should marry?” Or, “What signs should I look for to figure out who the one is?!” These are popular questions. Chances are, you’ve probably asked some of them yourself. Trying to “figure out the ONE” is something we’...

Send a text Ep. 152 - The booty pics. The cleavage pics. The showcasing the feminine form pics. We've all seen them. We may have even posted them. Some of us have even attached a Bible verse as the caption. The seductive selfie has become a staple for many women's social media feeds. These pics get the likes. They get the attention. It's no wonder many women love to post them.  Shou...

Send a text Ep 151 - The surrogacy industry has boomed over the past decade. The rich and famous have started to rent out the wombs of other women in order to maintain their bodies and fast paced lifestyle. Why carry your own baby when another woman can do it for you? There are some serious concerns about this new way of bringing babies into the world. The dark side of "womb renting" isn...

Send a text Ep. 150 - When Kristen heard that Zack drank a beer while they were dating her jaw hit the floor. She was a staunch "no alcohol" girl and thought Zack was too (only a staunch no guy). This brought up some intense conversations and forced both of them to take a deep dive on what the Bible actually says about this subject. Let's discuss how we as Christian women should app...

Send a text Ep 149. - Do all men actually crave sex ALL of the time? Is a man UNHEALTHY if he doesn't want sex? Is it true that a woman's sex drive tanks after she gets married? The questions about sex and hormones are endless. That's why we brought on the "hormone whisperer" to help sort through all of the cultural stereotypes and assumptions about men and women. In today...

Send a text Ep. 148 - Modesty put Girl Defined on the map way back in the day when we first launched this ministry. Girls went crazy for our posts and videos on this topic. We ended up creating an ebook "Project Modesty" and hundreds of you bought it.  Fast forward a few years and all of our old modesty content has been removed (by us) and we've ghosted you on the topic. We're...

Send a text When it comes to LGBTQ people and conversations, how often do you engage as a Christian? The truth is, most of us have NO IDEA how to engage in these crucial conversations in a way that's loving, thoughtful, Biblical, and truthful. And so we don't. Our guest today is here to HELP US. Andrew T. Walker is the author of the book, "God and the Transgender Debate: What Does t...

Send a text Ep. 146 - Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much? In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for...

Send a text Ep 145 - Do evil men exist? Yes. Are all men toxic? No. We live in a society that actually hates strong men. "Toxic manhood" has become a buzzword that now encompasses all forms of male strength, leadership, and masculinity. The feminist movement promoted this mindset by declaring men as the primary source of women's oppression and unhappiness. And the battle rages today...

Send a text Ep 144 - Enjoy part two of this replay series. The history of "the birth control pill" is something most women are not familiar with. Most women simply listen to their Dr. (without question) when they're told to get on the pill for one reason or other.  Oral contraception has become the go-to for preventing pregnancy with little understanding of the potential negative he...

Send a text Ep. 143 - Enjoy this replay episode. It was so good we had to bring it back. Have safe sex. Don't get pregnant. And build your career. That's the mantra women have been told from the time they were teen girls. Birth control is the go-to prescription to assist in this process of raising career minded women who put family on the back burner. This entire way of thinking needs to...

Send a text Ep. 142 - Motherhood is a beautiful blessing and an incredible challenge all at the same time. Kristen opens up and shares about the past two years since adopting her boys from Ukraine.  She shares the practical things she does on a daily basis to disciple her boys in the Word and show them the love of Christ every single day. Motherhood has its hard moments and having a deep relations...

Send a text Ep 141 - Sexual struggles are rampant amongst christian women. Sadly, women are often left to fend for themselves and figure it out with google. The shame and embarrassment of feeling like she is "the only one" is not helping either. Women need answers. They need help. They need freedom. In today's episode, Kristen gets raw and real about her own past struggle with mastu...

Send a text Ep 140 - What does it mean to be a woman? Some have answered this question with a simple "an adult human female." Is that sufficient though? You were created to be uniquely different from a man. Every fiber in your body speaks to that reality.  You were made female on purpose and for a great purpose. Your gender speaks to God's beautiful calling in your life. Let's...

Send a text Ep. 139 - Porn is rampant and destroying peoples lives. It can be extremely uncomfortable to discuss the topic of porn. Many wives don't want to know if their husband is struggling. It feels too big and too hard to deal with. Today's conversation is filled with guidance and direction from a husband who once found himself enslaved with sexual addiction. His story of freedom in...

Send a text Ep. 138 - Barbie has overtaken the world with her pink outfits, blonde hair, and handsome low commitment fragile blonde boyfriend. The trailers and teasers captivated the world causing the movie to explode opening weekend. The movie was definitely packed with surprises...and not good ones. The movie had a strong agenda and basically used barbie to get its message across. It was less ab...

Send a text Ep. 137 - Loneliness is a huge problem for thousands of christian women across the world. Have you ever felt left out, alone, forgotten or just excluded because of your beliefs? We live in a  world that is overly connected through the internet and under connect in real life. Christian women need in-person relationships and community to thrive in God's design. God made us to live w...

Send a text Ep. 136 - One the most unique aspects of women all around the world is her uterus. This aspect of our anatomy sets us apart from men in a very clear way. We're reminded of this piece of our womanhood every single month when we're greeted by 5-7ish days of bleeding. Have you ever wondered why God created you with a period? In today's episode we're taking a theologica...

Send a text Ep. 135 - Can you imagine being honored and rewarded for LIMITING the amount of children you have? This is the reality in America. Get this, "Prince Harry told British Vogue in 2019 that he and Meghan Markle would have two children maximum. Harry said it was an environmental choice, which was recognized by charity Population Matters. The couple were awarded $695 to give to a chari...