The Female Dating Strategy

Melissa Hobley, Global Chief Marketing Officer of OkCupid visits the pod to answer all the most pressing and controversial questions about dating apps from the FDS users.  How do they measure success for their users? What happens when you report bad behavior from men on the apps? Are men and women at odds as consumers? What about the infamous 80/20 study that the incel movement cites? And mor...

Savannah's back! And she's coming back swinging on Johnny Depp fans with a historical overview of his abusive behavior and an explanation of the UK defamation trial, which he lost.    Thanks to our sponsors!!! TheDonut.co - nonpartisan, fun daily news! https://thedonut.co/FDS   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https...

FDS gets named dropped in a new article from The Atlantic titled "What Do Female Incels Really Want"? for distancing ourselves from femcels. Through discussion of the article, we detail what a femcel is, how their issues manifest into feminism (tradfemcels, libfemcels, and radfemcels), and why ultimately they couldn't stay on FDS. Important conversations on the racial and political intersectionali...

Enjoy this epic roast of bald men from our Patreon!  Maxim Magazine publishes bald propaganda: https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/bald-men-are-sexier-2017-1/?fbclid=IwAR09TDf0pujwWcce4o3cwNCXWHQRN1_o4J8YsakFirfXYdooPhTyyhoZ454   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https:/...

The cybersecurity researchers from the up and coming HerHax Podcast clarify the mechanisms behind AirTag security and dispel some myths about stalking prevention techniques that were spread on the FDS Subreddit (some of which can leave women *more* vulnerable!) Further discussion on the tech industry's blind spots when it comes to women's safety.   Christine & Rebecca's AMA thread: https:...

One month since FDS left our scrote ex Reddit in the dust, The Queens analyze how the fallout paralleled leaving an abusive relationship, acknowledge common user criticisms, provide additional insight on the behind the scenes struggles, and discuss what FDS is doing to solve them going forward.  Part 2 on Patreon on Friday, featuring insight into FDS' future. Subreddit Stats: https://subreddi...

Another classic FDS post! Practical useful tips on how to take care of your physical, mental, and emotional health after a breakup.  https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ffkux4/withdrawal_survival_guide/   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://w...

Elle fills in for Savannah in this discussion about the merits and dynamics of Female-Led Relationships, the polar opposite of the power dynamics present in traditional relationships, and how to vet for "biddable" men.    Thanks to our sponsors!!! PODCORN.COM Explore sponsorship opportunities and start monetizing your podcast by signing up here: https://www. Podcorn.com/podcasters  ...

The Queens intro with some housekeeping issues and then dig deep in the FDS vault to talk about the importance of setting high standards during the initial dating phases, as well as the difference between boundaries and standards. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d9t6c0/know_what_your_standards_are_and_stick_to_them/   Thanks to our sponsors!!! PODCORN.COM Explore sponso...

Reddit Admins are pedo-supporting, anti-lesbian, terrorist enabling, racist, misogynist, violent porn-peddling, bald faced liars who invite & ignore harrassment and abuse of female users and silence dissent. We reject their recent disingenuous attempt to do public damage control ahead of their IPO and we refuse to subject ourselves to their nonsense any further.  Discussion on Website: ht...

Man spends 40 years in a coomer stupor. Here is his story. https://www.reddit.com/r/NEET/comments/ifcblr/today_i_became_a_40_year_old_virgin_neet_some/   Thanks to our sponsors!!! ANA LUISA JEWELRY Go to shop.analuisa.com/femaledating make Mom's Day and treat her to new jewelry pieces with Ana Luisa's Buy One, Get One 40% OFF sale! One piece for her, and one piece for you https://shop.analuis...

The Queens are weighing in on the fallout from "The Slap" at the Oscars! Lilith and Savannah Debate - "Is Male Violence Ever the Answer?" Additionally, Reaux does a deep dive into the marriage of Will Smith & Jada Pinkett, Jada's entanglements with Tupac, and the History of  Chris Rock vs. The Smiths.    3:24 – Tommy Davidson/ Jada Pinkett Will Smith fight https://www.youtube.co...

The Queens dig up a 1997 academic paper that details 36 questions that can "make you fall in love with anyone".  Part 1. (Part 2 on Patreon!) SOURCE: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/jan/14/love-is-getting-answers-right-to-36-questions https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/jan/14/very-scientific-romance-36-questions-make-you-fall-in-love   Thanks to our sponsors!!! A...

We catch up on 4 Roast-A-Scrote stories from our Patreon subbies!  Featuring possibly the biggest case of Male Pattern Delusion we've gotten thus far.    Thanks to our sponsors!!! PODCORN.COM Explore sponsorship opportunities and start monetizing your podcast by signing up here: https://www. Podcorn.com/podcasters DAVY PIPER https://www.davypiper.com/ Get 20% off your purchase of Su...

A Male FDS Patreon subbie wonders if he would be a scrote if he pursued a relationship with a woman he's currently friends with now that she's single. The Queens tackle the age old conundrum of male-female friendships and present various scenarios when platonic friendships can work and when they're likely to blow up in your face.  Just say no to Pu$$y Scavengers.    Thanks to our sp...

Is saving on rent worth the potential drawbacks? Should we all be doing it Oprah Style? The Queens discuss the pros and cons of co-habitation with a man.    Thanks to our sponsors!!! DAVY PIPER https://www.davypiper.com/ Get 20% off your purchase of Super Soft Wire Free Bras with code 'FDS' Check out Female Political Strategy Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/female-politica...

Reaux spills some (alleged! alleged!) behind the scenes tea... and The Queens catch up on the fates of Shake the Colonized, Shaina the SALTY, Kyle the Clueless, Sal the Shady, Jarrett the Sneaky, Natalie the Neg Queen, and Shayne, well... Honestly, did any of these couples EVER actually have a chance? Tea Thread: https://twitter.com/Reaux_FDS/status/1498107219300151296?s=20&t=HmTLKlvCjXqq45Wsp...

The Queens welcome Chartered Psychologist and radical feminist author Dr. Jessica Taylor. She describes her inspiring journey from being sex trafficked as a teen mom to best selling author and J.K. Rowling mentee. She is the author of 2020's Why Women are Blamed for Everything: Exposing the Culture of Victim Blaming and her upcoming release  Sexy But Psycho: How The Patriarchy Uses Women's Tr...

Is Shayne a narcissist? How TF did Jarrett get stabbed? Did Iyanna trauma dump too early? Should Shaina's religious beliefs be a dealbreaker? The Queens dissect the relationship dynamics of the contestants in season 2 of Netflix's Love is Blind based on the first 5 episodes.  A whole buncha narcissism, colorism, & pick-meism galore and, of course, red flags. Check out the Forensic Tales p...

We break down all the red flags and vetting strategies Pernilla & Cecilie missed in Netflix's Tinder Swindler.  Also, on a totally unrelated note, FDS needs you to send us $75,000 on our patreon. Our enemies...   Check out Female Political Strategy: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/female-political-strategy/id1589098742     Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord...

We go through the next12 points in the most popular post on the website "37 Lies You Were Taught About Men".  It gets heavy.... Part 3 - is on our PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/posts/37-lies-you-were-62440254?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copy_to_clipboard&utm_campaign=postshare   https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/37-lies-you-were-taught-about-men   Chec...

We go through the first 12 points in the most popular post on the website "37 Lies You Were Taught About Men".  JUST SAY THE THING! All Hail Princess Bebe the Queen.  https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/37-lies-you-were-taught-about-men   Check out True Crime in the 50! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-in-the-50/id1548172017     Follow us! Weekly B...

The Queens discuss their strategies on how to deal with jealous, competitive, and high-conflict women. Lilith tells us how she wins at office politics. Savannah flexes on a toxic former boss. Reaux discusses the merits of working from home and staying above all the drama. Defeat toxic political pickmes by being a benevolent Queen, not a tyrant.   Thank you to our sponsors!! Lets Get Checked -...

Savannah discusses the dangers, warning signs, and origins of racial fetishization. Lilith lays out her plan to defeat colorism and racial fetishization. Reaux gives a shout out to White Mikes everywhere. Make their pockets hurt.    Thank you to our sponsors!! Lets Get Checked - Confidential  At-Home STD Testing https://www.letsgetchecked.com 30% Off Code : STRATEGY!    Si...

We break our "Female - Only" Rule for the man who wrote THE bestselling book on abusive men, Lundy Bancroft, author of the oft-cited and highlighted "Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry & Controlling Men". Lundy provides insight on how cultural forces help create abusive men, why its concerning to call all abusers "narcissists",  and how the legal system is rigged against moth...