The Female Dating Strategy

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Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. Talk to us at:contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

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Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity 11.06.2025 41:01

The Queens are once again joined by renowned author and domestic abuse expert, Lundy Bancroft, whose groundbreaking work Why Does He Do That? has helped millions of women recognize the patterns of coercive control and emotional abuse in intimate relationships, to discuss toxic masculinity.    Lundy Bancroft's first FDS appearance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IH7Y0rJ8Kkw   🎙️ Epi...

The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward 04.06.2025 40:52

The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged.  Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558     Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handboo...

Gaslight, Deflect, Repeat: The Logical Fallacies Used to Derail Women's Standards 28.05.2025 37:07

Originally a bonus episode for our Patreon Queens, this  deep dive is now unlocked for the public! In this episode, the Bonus Queens break down the most common logical fallacies men and society at large use to dismiss women’s boundaries, dodge accountability, and manipulate the dating narrative in their favour. https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/   Download the FDS Handbook for free here:...

Safety First! Non-Negotiables for Smart Dating 21.05.2025 46:39

The Queens discuss how you can keep yourself safe when dating. Safety first! Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html  Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat  Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy   Website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com ...

Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity 14.05.2025 43:35

Renowned feminist Dr. Gail Dines (re) joins the Queens for another deep-dive into the devastating effects of the porn industry on modern masculinity and women.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat    Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  http...

Being Hot and Having Fun With Amber Akilla 07.05.2025 54:08

The Queens are joined by special guest Amber Akilla to discuss the ins and outs of how to live your best life. Follow Amber: https://amberakilla.com/     Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat    Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  https://www.p...

Dating, Trolls, and Male Loneliness 30.04.2025 55:18

The Queens are joined by Lisa from the AudaciTea podcast, where they serve the tea on origin stories, being a Swiftie, online trolls, male loneliness and, of course, having sky high standards. Follow Lisa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edit?lang=en   Check out the AudaciTea podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788     Download the FDS Han...

Clocking Out of Toxic Jobs and Toxic Men with Fleeksie 23.04.2025 49:37

Diana is joined by joined by the ever-fabulous Fleeksie to dive into the parallels between toxic workplaces and toxic relationships.   Follow the Fleekazoid podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2Y8Pkk3pUZUVHCKbXbN6ef and Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/fleekazoid/id1566006317     Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v1...

Nap Queen Energy: Why Rest is a Revolutionary Act 16.04.2025 50:48

The Queens unpack the importance of reclaiming your time, energy and sanity in a hustle-obsessed culture that glorifies burnout.   Savannah's appearance on the Audaci-Tea podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3SAa1bz70A&list=PLmy-GF0YwC9rHYPhGZmL4NYdIAKbLA8dH&index=4     Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html ...

Grief, Growth, and the Dead Dad's Club 09.04.2025 1:02:42

The Queens get real about loss, legacy, and what it means to navigate life (and the dating world) after losing a father.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html    FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy   Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat  Follo...

Dickmatization Detox 02.04.2025 50:01

The queens break down the science (and scam ) behind why women keep going back to subpar partners and how to break free from the dopamine-fueled delusion.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat    Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: &...

Lights, Camera, Misogyny: The Hollywood Roast-a-Scrote 26.03.2025 44:45

The Roast-a-Scrote is back and this time Hollywood is on the FDS BBQ.  Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat    Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon...

Memory Lane is a Dead End: Why Queens Don't Look Back 19.03.2025 47:17

The Queens unpack the seductive pull of nostalgia and why romanticising the past is a losing game.   Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat    Follow us! Weekly Bonus Co...

What Women Can Learn from Male Entitlement 12.03.2025 45:35

The Queens break down audacity of male entitlement—when it’s reckless, when it’s strategic, and how women can borrow just enough of that confidence to level up their own lives.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html  FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy  Paypal: https:/...

Levelling Up in 2025 05.03.2025 57:50

The Queens discuss their plans for levelling up in 2025 and how you can too.   Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html  FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy  Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat  Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: &nbsp...

No Is a Full Sentence 26.02.2025 44:45

The Queens discuss the importance of having and maintaining your boundaries.   Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy   Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon:&nb...

Whose Business Is It? The Power of Selective Vulnerability 19.02.2025 54:10

The Queens break down the myth that women must be endlessly open and emotionally available to be "worthy" of love, and practical ways to vet whether a man is emotionally safe before opening up.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: ht...

Putting the Woo Back in Wooing: Courtship, Nature, and the Art of Wooing Yourself 12.02.2025 53:51

The Queens dive into the natural order of courtship and discuss how you can and should get into the habit of wooing yourself.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly B...

Doomsday Dating: Surviving & Thriving in the Modern Romance Wasteland 05.02.2025 55:36

The Queens tackle the grim reality of today’s dating landscape—what they call Doomsday Dating .     Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on...

Astrology and Dating Pt. 2: Separating the Stars from the Scrotes 02.02.2025 1:03:12

The queens are back for a second deep dive into astrology and its impact on dating.   Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patr...

Astrology & Dating Pt. 2: Separating the Stars from the Scrotes 29.01.2025 27:59

FDS & Astrology Pt. 1: Cosmic Insights or Celestial Red Flags? 22.01.2025 1:00:01

The queens dive into the world of astrology and its role in modern dating.   Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/T...

Anatomy of a Divorce with Kate Anthony 15.01.2025 56:27

The queens are joined by former actress and renowned divorce coach Kate Anthony to discuss the realities of divorce and how women can navigate it with strength and dignity.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/...

The State of Men: Navigating Dating with FDS Vetting Strategies 18.12.2024 1:00:31

The queens take a deep dive into the current state of men in contemporary society, and share practical, no-nonsense vetting strategies to help women spot red flags and low value behaviour.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https:/...

The FDS Handbook Part 2: The First Dates 11.12.2024 1:02:21

The queens are back with the second instalment of their deep dive into the FDS Handbook, where they discuss strategies for vetting men during the dating phase stage.    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalm...