The Fairy Elephant Effect

Send us Fan Mail Starting Late, but Starting: My 65th Birthday Reflections” In this heartfelt episode, Elysabeth reflects on turning 65 and realizing that life is far from winding down — it’s expanding. She shares what it means to move into a bigger home in just ten days, reopen her art studio, begin teaching again, and keep writing and coaching from a place of joy, alignment, and purpose. This ep...

Send us Fan Mail Buzzsprout Summary: In this uplifting episode, Elysabeth Wolter explores the timeless wisdom of The Pollyanna Game — a gratitude practice that turns everyday moments into powerful mindset shifts. Discover how changing your focus from negativity to gratitude can rewire your brain, calm anxiety, and strengthen emotional resilience. Elysabeth shares her personal memory of discovering...

Send us Fan Mail In this deeply personal episode, Elysabeth shares her journey through a major dental procedure — having all her bottom teeth removed and a denture fitted — and how fear transformed into empowerment through the use of EFT tapping, visualisation, affirmations, and nervous system regulation. From a past experience marked by weeks of pain and panic to a present filled with ease, fast...

Send us Fan Mail  "Aligning Identity with Your True End Goals” In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect , I explore how identity can quietly shape our goals — and how aligning who you are with what you truly want transforms everything. We talk about the difference between means goals and end goals , why chasing the wrong ones leads to exhaustion, and how to return to right action service...

Send us Fan Mail Today, I want to share something really personal with you — my phobia of flying.  For years, that fear held me back. It wasn’t just about the plane — it was about control, surrender, and trust. Every time I even thought about flying, my body would react before my mind had a chance to reason with it.  But here’s the thing — I faced it.  This past weekend, I got on a plane and flew...

Send us Fan Mail  A Conversation with Renee Ormond — an Empowerment Coach, Ultimate Cycle Breaker, and 9D Breathwork Facilitator based in Tūrangi. Renee guides women to release outdated money stories so they can create new, abundant realities. What inspires her most is the transformation from old self to new, and in this conversation, we dive into that powerful shift.    email: rewriteyourriches@o...

Send us Fan Mail The small things are never small. ✨   The arguments, frustrations, and breakdowns don’t happen in one moment — they’re built in all the little choices that came before. The silent resentments. The words we speak behind someone’s back. The thoughts we rehearse again and again.   But here’s the beauty: it also works the other way. The laughter of our grandchildren. Catching up with...

Send us Fan Mail Brandy R. Graham, known as the Legacy Liberator™ and Identity Coach, helps women break free from old patterns of self-sabotage and step into a new legacy of worth. She’s created the Safe to Become™ space where the nervous system is calm, the self feels safe, and the future opens wide. I’m Elysabeth Wolter from Lizzie’s Insights Coaching, supporting women to release old stories and...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, I share the first time I used EFT tapping during a panic attack—while sitting in the car with my kids. For the first time in years, I didn’t have to get out and walk around to calm myself. EFT gave me a tool to shift the fear in real time and drive home with peace of mind. We explore what EFT really is, how it works with the amygdala a...

Send us Fan Mail Boundaries are not walls. They are bridges back to your own self-connection. In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, we go deeper into the real meaning of boundaries and how to set them without guilt. You’ll hear why boundaries are not rejection, how they keep you on your side of the street emotionally, and why guilt is simply an old story we no longer need to live by. We’ll...

Send us Fan Mail Elysabeth Wolter explores how language can become a powerful portal to transformation. Building on last week’s shift from “I have to” into “I get to,” this episode dives deeper into how the words we choose shape our energy, intention, and reality. Elysabeth shares practical tools including affirmations, visualization, EFT tapping, mindfulness, power statements, and morning pages —...

Send us Fan Mail This week on The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth Wolter explores the power of a two-word shift that can transform your energy and your life. Moving from “I have to” into “I get to” changes how you approach everyday tasks, turning obligation into gratitude and heaviness into lightness.   In this episode, Elysabeth unpacks why our words carry vibration, how energy shapes our experi...

Send us Fan Mail   This week on The Fairy Elephant Effect , Elysabeth explores the cost of scattering your energy into other people’s lives and how to bring it back to you. Building on last week’s conversation about boundaries and guilt, this episode dives into the concept of staying in your lane, recognising energy leaks, and redirecting your focus to strengthen your life’s foundation. You’ll lea...

Send us Fan Mail Building on last week’s conversation about empaths and emotional hypervigilance, this episode explores what happens when we overgive, overfunction, and lose ourselves in the needs of others. Elysabeth unpacks the “martyr loop,” why guilt shows up when we try to prioritize ourselves, and how setting just 30 minutes aside each day can radically shift your energy, self-worth, and ide...

Send us Fan Mail : Elysabeth Wolter | Lizzie’s Insights Coaching   Website : lizziesinsightscoaching.com Book : The Fairy Elephant Effect – Available now on Amazon YouTube Tapping Video : “Staying on Your Side of the Street Emotionally” Episode Summary : In this week’s powerful episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect , Elysabeth dives into a topic that’s often misunderstood — the label of empath . Wh...

Send us Fan Mail In this week’s episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth dives into a powerful topic: how fear, control, and perfectionism can block our growth — and how to finally get out of our own way.   She shares behind-the-scenes reflections from launching her new workshop (Love Languages & EFT Tapping for Classroom Calm) and offers tangible tools for moving beyond anxiety and out...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever paused long enough to imagine your perfect day—not someday, but today? In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect , Elysabeth Wolter invites you into a powerful and gentle practice that can shift your habits, your emotions, and your entire life trajectory. With warmth and clarity, she introduces the Perfect Day Interrupter —a two-to-five-minute daily practice that...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes we wake up feeling softer, slower, and less ready to push through. But what if that’s not a problem — what if it’s a portal? In this episode, Elysabeth Wolter invites you to explore those quiet, tender mornings as opportunities for deeper connection and self-trust. This isn’t about laziness or avoidance. It’s about honouring your rhythm, shifting from outcome-driven urge...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect , I’m talking about what’s truly possible when we stop agreeing with decline — physically, emotionally, and mentally — and start redefining what our body can do. I share my own story of recovery after spinal surgery, how muscle and protein have become part of my healing path, and why the decision to keep moving forward matters more than...

Send us Fan Mail In this heart-led episode, Elysabeth Wolter shares why she believes teaching love languages to children—and activating them in ourselves—can transform classrooms, emotional literacy, and personal connection. She explores the five love languages not as labels, but as tools for safety, emotional regulation, and deeper self-awareness. Elysabeth explains how understanding and using th...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect , Elysabeth explores the ripple effect of our habitual thoughts and how they shape our emotional lives, relationships, and future. She unpacks why we’re often programmed to focus on what’s wrong, how that becomes our default thinking, and what happens when we start choosing different thoughts on purpose. Let me offer you some replacemen...

Send us Fan Mail In this raw and real conversation, I’m joined by Candice Dorsey , the dynamic founder of Hey BOSS Ladies! — a community dedicated to uplifting women entrepreneurs through connection, collaboration, and visibility. Candice shares her own Fairy Elephant Effect moment — a powerful realization that changed the way she shows up in business and in life. We talk about: Why intentional co...

Send us Fan Mail In Episode 27 of The Fairy Elephant Effect , we delve into the transformative power of saying "no" as a profound expression of self-love. Discover how setting boundaries can enhance your emotional resilience, protect your energy, and lead to more authentic relationships. Tune in to learn practical strategies for embracing "no" with confidence and compassion. As...

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Send us Fan Mail Episode 25: The Power of Self-Love In this week’s episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect , Elysabeth dives into one of the most transformational forces we have: self-love. Drawing on a powerful excerpt from her book, she explores what happens when we begin to show up for ourselves with intention and care. This episode is a gentle but powerful reminder that you are the author of your...