The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast

Many parents come to Family Court thinking the Judge will focus on every complaint they have about the other parent. In reality, Judges are usually looking at something very different. In this episode of The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast, Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald discuss what Judges look for in parenting cases and why the Court’s focus is not on scorin...

Many people assume that once they file in the Family Court, a judge will simply hear both sides and make a decision.   The reality is very different.   In this episode of The Ex-Files – The Divorce and Separation Podcast , Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald explain what actually happens after court proceedings begin and walk through the Family Court process from start to finish...

Many people think the hard part of a property settlement is reaching an agreement. In reality, reaching an agreement is often only the beginning.   In this episode of The Ex-Files – The Divorce and Separation Podcast , Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald discuss what happens after the negotiations end and why properly formalising a property settlement is one of the most importan...

Many of the most expensive mistakes in family law happen after people think they have already reached an agreement.   In this episode of The Ex-Files – The Divorce and Separation Podcast, Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald discuss the biggest property settlement mistakes people make after separation and how those mistakes can affect their financial future.   They explain why in...

One of the biggest myths in family law is that property settlements are automatically divided 50/50 after separation. In this episode of The Ex-Files – The Divorce and Separation Podcast , Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald explain how property settlement actually works in Australia and why every case is different. They break down the four-step process used by the Family Court,...

Separation can feel overwhelming — especially in the first few weeks when emotions, parenting concerns, finances and practical decisions all collide at once.   In this new episode of The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast, Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald discuss the most important things to focus on in the first 30 days after separation.   They cover practical saf...

In Part 2 of this deep dive into Property Settlements , Alex and Liza explore the cases that drag on... and on… and on. From high-conflict couples and judicial missteps to multi-jurisdictional property battles and sham trusts, this episode is a guided tour of what not to do if you want to settle your property dispute efficiently. Topics include: The real timeline of a property case (hint: it's rar...

Property settlements can be slow, frustrating, and emotionally exhausting, but they don’t have to be. In this episode, Alex and Liza dive into the most common delays, mistakes, and pain points that get in the way of a fast and fair outcome, and how you can avoid them. Whether you're dealing with hidden assets, emotional roadblocks, or just waiting in the court queue, this episode gives you the ins...

In this special episode of The Ex Files , Alex takes the reins to walk Dads through the Top 10 Tips for Surviving Divorce and Separation . Joined by producer Matt, Alex shares personal insights and a bit of humour as he lays out the roadmap for dads navigating the emotional and legal complexities of family breakdowns. In this episode, Alex covers: Put Your Oxygen Mask On First: Why looking after y...

In this powerful episode of The Ex Files , Alex and Liza dive headfirst into the often-ignored emotional minefield of toxic positivity during separation and divorce. When everyone says “stay amicable” or “just be the bigger person,” what happens to the very real, very raw feelings of anger, grief, and betrayal? Together, they unpack how suppressing those emotions, especially under pressure from pr...

In this solo episode of The Ex Files , Liza explores the world of co-parenting in the digital age. With a healthy dose of humour, personal anecdotes, and practical tips, she explains how technology and social media are reshaping communication between separated parents and not always for the better! Joined by producer Matt, Liza shares insights on: How social media and messaging apps can fuel confl...

In this solo episode, Alex teams up with producer Matt to dive into one of the most emotionally charged topics in family law: "Revenge" . Whether it’s smashing antiques, posting online rants, sabotaging parenting arrangements, or even the dark world of revenge porn, Alex explores the many ways people try to “get even” after separation—and why it almost always backfires. With legal insight, persona...

In one of the most personal and powerful episodes of The Ex Files , Liza shares her perspective on the emotional toll of separation and how mental health plays a critical role in custody battles. Joined by producer Matt, this candid conversation explores the silent struggles many parents, especially dads, face when navigating parenting arrangements after separation. With humour, empathy, and lived...

In this episode of The Ex Files , Alex and Liza discuss a few recent and important family law cases, explaining what they mean for people going through separation or parenting disputes. The episode is packed with insight, practical guidance, and the usual laughs, covering topics such as mental health conditions and parenting orders, real estate valuations, and the latest on Binding Financial Agree...

In this powerful and timely episode of The Ex Files , Alex and Liza explore the complex intersection between property settlement and domestic violence in family law. Proposed reforms will reshape how courts consider the impact of violence on financial matters, and the hosts explain what this means for separating couples and their legal teams. Tune in as they discuss: The leading case of Kennon v K...

Mediation can be the key to resolving property disputes quickly, cost-effectively, and on your terms. But how do you prepare for it? In this episode, Alex and Liza break down the property mediation process , from getting ready to the day itself, so you can approach it with confidence. In this episode, they cover: ✅ Why mediation is often better than going to court – saving you time and money ✅ H...

Back by popular demand, Alex and Liza return with another Mythbusters episode, separating fact from fiction in family law! From property settlements to de facto relationships, they tackle some of the biggest myths that continue to confuse separating couples. In this episode, Alex and Liza break down myths such as: "Property is always divided 50/50 in a long relationship." "You have to live togethe...

There’s a lot of misinformation floating around about family law, and in this special Mythbusters episode, Alex and Liza take on some of the biggest myths surrounding separation and divorce. From dodgy advice at the pub to outdated beliefs, they set the record straight on what really happens in family law. In this episode, Alex and Liza bust myths like: "The court always favours the mother (or fat...

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," Liza takes the lead to explore family law and separation through a female lens. With producer Matt joining the conversation, Liza provides insight into how women experience separation, including common frustrations, communication breakdowns, and how emotional buildup can lead to leaving a relationship. Topics include: Why wome...

In this episode, Alex takes centre stage to tackle family law from a male perspective, shedding light on the unique challenges that dads and husbands face during separation and divorce. Joined by producer Matt, the conversation dives into the emotional, practical, and legal aspects of navigating family law as a man. Topics include: Why men often feel blindsided by separation and how to cope with t...

Welcome to the first episode of the new year! Alex and Liza are back with an essential guide to complying with court orders in family law. Whether you’re navigating enforcement, understanding directions, or dealing with contraventions, this episode is packed with practical insights to help you stay on the right side of the law. Join Alex and Liza as they discuss: Orders, Directions, and Notations:...

In the year's final episode, Alex and Liza answer the most frequently asked questions about family law, covering everything from divorce and de facto relationships to pets, lottery wins, and what to do if your ex won’t let you see the kids. This comprehensive Q&A session is the perfect way to wrap up 2024 and start the new year informed and prepared. Join Alex and Liza as they tackle: What is...

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," Alex and Liza explore the unique challenges of "Silver Divorce" — the term for couples over 55 navigating separation. With retirement, adult children, and financial considerations at play, these cases bring distinct complexities compared to younger couples. Join Alex and Liza as they discuss: Financial Implications: Dividing a...

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," Alex and Liza explore the role of third parties in family law disputes. From grandparents and new partners to financial stakeholders, third parties can significantly impact the outcome of family law cases. Join Alex and Liza as they discuss: Who Are Third Parties? A look at who qualifies as a third party in family law, includi...

In the latest episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," Alex and Liza tackle one of the most challenging times of the year for separated families: the holidays. From disputes over travel plans to balancing meaningful time with both parents, this episode explores how family law addresses the complexities of holiday arrangements. Join Alex and Liza as they discuss: School Holid...