The Ever Argue With A Woman Podcast

Whether it’s moving to a new apartment, across the state, or closer to family out of town, people often want to make a fresh start before the divorce is even final. But depending on your situation, especially if you have kids, this move could have serious legal consequences.

Navigating protective orders can be overwhelming—especially when you're dealing with the trauma of abuse. In this episode, I break down what these legal tools can (and can’t) do, how to qualify, and what kind of evidence you’ll need. We’ll talk about their powers, their limits, and why safety planning beyond the courtroom is essential. Whether you're seeking protection or supporting some...

Military marriages can start fast—and end complicated. From housing and healthcare incentives to legal nuances like the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act and state-specific divorce rules, military families face unique pressures. This episode unpacks what service members and their spouses need to know about marriage, divorce, retirement benefits, and child custody in a system where the usual rules do...

Tired of focusing on red flags? This episode flips the script to spotlight the green flags that signal a healthy, thriving relationship. From chemistry and honest communication to mutual respect and emotional safety, Heather Tessmer explores what makes a partnership truly worth investing in. Learn how to spot signs like feeling free to be yourself, resolving conflict with care, and bringing out th...

How to Choose a Divorce Attorney with Heather Tessmer Navigating a divorce is never easy, but choosing the right attorney can make all the difference. In this episode, we break down the key factors to consider when selecting legal representation based on your unique situation. From simple, uncontested divorces to high-conflict battles, we discuss: When a DIY divorce might work—and when it won’t Th...

The Ever Argue With A Woman Podcast proudly welcomes our FIRST guest! Jacqueline Cisneros, Billing Director and mother of four, is spilling all of her co-parenting secrets...

Heather is here to break down premarital, postmarital, and many other types of marital agreements to protect you and your property!

So... you are telling me prenups are not only meant for rich celebrities?  That's right! Heather is here to break down premarital, postmarital, and many other types of marital agreements to protect you and your property! 

What is a narcissist? What red flags are worth ending a relationship? Heather Tessmer, board-certified family law attorney, reviews some of her top red flags to look out for when dating. Stick around for a special Q&A this episode!

Divorce Attorney, Heather Tessmer, discusses how to find your perfect spouse! Heather touches on good characteristics in a mate, maintaining a healthy sex life, long-distance relationships, and so much more! In this episode, you will hear the love story of Heather and Kevin, a match made in heaven! So... how did this divorce attorney and military hunk fall in love? Listen now!

After 21+ years in the legal industry, Heather Tessmer, owner of Tessmer Law Firm, outlines her new podcast series.  The Ever Argue With A Woman Podcast explores the red flags of potential partners, simplifies the Texas Family Code, and revisits war stories of growing a business as a mother, wife, and full-time attorney.