The Encourage Over Everything Show

Who have you been choosing? I will never forget being at a crossroads in life and looking around wondering who have I been choosing? It most certainly wasn’t me! This is a kind reminder to choose you! Pay attention to how this makes you feel in your body. Does even the thought of it feel uncomfortable? Do you doubt there’s enough reason to do it? Does it feel hard, scary or even impossible? These...

You really want a relationship that leads to marriage yet, somehow you keep finding yourself with the ones who end up on the fence. So, why are you still entertaining that? You know you really want someone who treats you like a queen, yet you’re with someone who does that for the most part, but also really puts you down in other ways. Does the good really outweigh the bad? Will he really change? M...

You’ve been looking for love, but are you ready for love? When love shows up, what is it walking into? Ooooooh, I asked a client this and let me tell you the conversation got deep! What is love walking into? You’ve got the list of everything you want in a partner, but are they getting the same when they step into your world? This isn’t about being perfect or completely healed; perfection is not wh...

My love story is as not your typical fairytale we were told. I’ve yet to see a fairytale with a twenty something divorced single mom with a baby on each hip. Needless to say I was just as surprised as you when I looked around and found myself there. Luckily that wasn’t the end of my story nor is it yours. Looking at my dating stats - I needed some work!! When I realized where my work was and actua...

We all hit some unfavorable circumstances at some point in time of our lives. That heartbreak, loss of job, divorce or failed relationships or even along the way to getting to wherever it is you’re trying to go. Those dreams can seem like they’re only meant to remain a dream. That same story you’re telling yourself about why you can’t make it or haven’t made it will someday be your success story....

Building strong, loving relationships is wanted by many, but do you have a solid foundation already built to welcome in and maintain your relationships? No, this isn’t another talk about being perfect in order to find or have the perfect relationship. The key to the relationships you seek starts from the relationship you have with you. Let’s face it, you bring you with you everywhere you go and wh...

Underneath the broken pieces is a wholeness about you. Heartbreak can leave you feeling as if the broken pieces will never be mended. When in fact those very pieces have been broken for you to more easily pick them up to get to the whole of you. When you carry the weight of burdens, disappointments and hurts of the past, it’s hard to get from underneath them. By taking out what no longer serves yo...

Surface level dating is no fun and neither are surface level relationships. Miss me on the how about the weather conversations, we all crave more deep and meaningful relationships. It’s hard to have those when you’re showing up as your representative. You know the one that’s repping for you so you don’t get hurt or you gage if the other person is worth getting to know the real you. They show up on...

It doesn’t matter if you’re looking for love or in a relationship, you deserve love. The question is: are you giving yourself the love you deserve. It’s hard to get love from anyone else when you aren’t giving it to yourself. This can often leave you feeling powerless, unappreciated and unwanted. You can’t sit around in that kind of energy of lack and expect to cultivate love. So, I’m sharing how...

“You never get it done” - I’ve heard Abraham Hicks say this over and over again. And I can instantly hear my granny saying “what are you in such a rush for?” The pace of the world will have you feeling all kinds of behind, but what if you give yourself grace for your pace and enjoyed being all up in this place? As someone who spent so much time focusing on the outcome and feeling like the end was...

Has anyone ever said to you “don’t get your hopes up?” To an encourager, that is some cringe worthy advice. So you mean to tell me you want me keep my hopes down? Sorry, not sorry because I want the alternative. While they may not be in a position to encourage you, don’t stop there. When life has smacked you around, it’s easy to get discouraged. I’m talking to the hopeful heart and getting your ho...

I cannot tell you how many times I e fallen in love with love. I used to go out on dates and be so focused on the checklist and making sure he had met all my criteria only later to wind up wondering who dis fool was in front of me?? Have you ever been there? Well we’re going to explore the illusion of love. In the beginning everybody seems compatible! But, over time as you get to know them and the...

In the quest for love and connection it’s so easy to focus on what they bring. That checklist mentality of what do they bring to the table will only get you so far. To have deeper, more meaningful connections you have to be willing to go deeper towards something way more profound: what a potential partner brings out in you. Do they bring out the best or worst in you? We going deep and I’m giving t...

There comes a time in dating life when you’ve had it and you feel like you’re done with terrible dates that lead to nowhere. Believe it or not this is a great place to be! It means you’re ready to get to the real-real and finally get over why you keep getting the bottom of the dating barrel. I’m giving the behind-the-scenes on the shift that changed my dating life forever! Yes, you peeped the titl...

Cher once asked: do you believe in love after love? Which makes me wonder what’s your relationship with love? Are you looking for something you believe in or does it seem like more of a mythical unicorn? I’m here to remind you of what’s already here. Possibility! Let’s get into a good relationship with love. Be encouraged and inspired to let love in. Tag me on Instagram (@encourageovereverything)...

Who says your love story can't be as magical as the ones in fairy tales? Well, with a sprinkle of self-love and a dash of sparkle, you're on your way to scripting your own swoon-worthy romance. If your story has been riddled with bad dating experiences and revolving doors of nope, that ain’t it either. It can leave you feeling like the love story is only in the books. Such self-doubt can manifest...

Love, an emotion as old as time, often finds itself tangled in the complex webs of our beliefs and experiences. You may or may not even be aware of what you believe and how it’s the total opposite of what you want. If you've ever felt disheartened or lost faith in love, you're not alone. But here's the good news: it's never too late to reshape your perspective and embrace love with a renewed vigor...

Whether you’re looking for love or already in it, don’t we all want to know the secret to love? HECK YEAH!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 I’m giving you the secret right here and right now! I’m even giving it to you in the beginning of the episode! So, tune in now and listen all the way through to find out the key is closer than you think. Tag me on Instagram (@encourageovereverything) with your favorite quote and don...

If you’ve been putting off your dreams waiting for the right time, things to calm down or get better, these few minutes of fire will get you pumped up and excited to start now! Not just now but right now! You don’t need a new year, new month or even a new day to get started. All you even need is the decision and get moving to ready set take off! No more waiting for a spark of excitement to set goa...

This is an Encore of episode 95: The REMIX of EP40 and EP77 serving some encouragement over your fear! Enjoy this mashup and don’t forget to check out the original episodes! Fear has a way of increasing doubt in others and unfortunately even in ourselves. Fear can keep you playing small and more concerned about who will judge you instead of who you will justify. You could be the example someone is...

Here’s an Encore of episode 6!! I have a t-shirt that says “Fear is nothing more than a state of mind”. I wish I was wearing it the day I decided to jump into the ocean where it was about 100 feet deep! Find out how a friend and kind stranger encouraged me to conquer my fear! I wish I had that stroke of bravery while we were only 30 feet deep, but I’m extra like that! 🙃😉 Listen in and let’s conq...

This is an Encore of episode 99: The REMIX of EP20 and EP48 serving up some real talk about self care! Enjoy this mashup and don’t forget to check out the original episodes! I’m talking to anyone who is a parent, caregiver, clerk or anyone who is serving others. When you’re wearing all the hats, expected to have all the answers with solutions on tap, you’re expected to fill every need that arises....

YASSSSSSSS for the Encore! Bringing back EP26! We’re talking about time because its all or nothing and everything in between especially when you’re working on something you love and you know what you’re putting into it and then you start thinking ‘by this time I’d be further along’. Tony Robbins tells us “most people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year and underestimate what they can a...

Hey goal getter! Enjoy this REMIX of EP16 and EP72 is serving up encouragement to love your body! For even more insights check out the original episodes! You’ve got dreams and they’re just waiting on you to make them come true. If you’ve been playing small because of what’s on the exterior, I want to have an intimate, up close and personal, loving conversation with you. I’m afraid you may not be c...

Encourager! This episode is a remix of EP61 and EP80 serving up a key to confidence! Enjoy this mashup and don’t forget to check out the original episodes! Running low on confidence? Did you have it and loose it or did you even have any to begin with? Can you use more of it in your life? Then you are in the right place! Confidence isn’t something you just have all the time and even those who appea...