The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

There's no worse feeling than discovering your worst fear has come true and that the man you promised to love, honor and cherish has done the unspeakable. It's crushing. If most people knew what he did, they would tell you "He doesn't deserve you." Which feels validating because what he did was low and wrong, and you don't deserve that. But no one else can decide for you what's best for you. Women...

My guest Robyn was doing life by herself, lonely and disconnected from her emotionally unavailable husband. But then she did something that made her stop crying and made the arguments stop. Today she feels cherished and is her husband's "chooky" again. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too! On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we're talking about the secrets of ma...

For years, my guest Tilly's husband threatened her with divorce. They argued constantly and she was living in fear. Then she started doing some experiments, and the results were so positive that she says she has no fear because her marriage is now peaceful and strong. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.  On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we're talking about w...

My guest Anne was separated for over two years, and her husband started seeing another woman. When Anne started with the Intimacy Skills, he responded very negatively. But today their marriage is passionate, loving, romantic, fun, goofy, supportive and better than ever. How did she do it? She's going to tell us so you can do it too! Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming...

Looking for a good marriage support group is so smart because we humans are social creatures who tend to do what we see others doing. If someone you know is getting divorced, that puts pressure on your relationship. But if you're spending time with people who are not only staying married but also talking about how they're improving their marriages, even if they're facing big challenges, that stren...

If you're trying to fathom how you could ever rebuild the trust in your marriage, it means you've had it broken in a big way. That's so painful and scary because it seems permanent! If he let you down, you may feel like you'd be a sucker to trust him again. Whether he lied, cheated or spent money recklessly, it's completely natural to feel like vigilance, not trust, would be the smarter route.  Or...

If you and I have been hanging out together for a while on this podcast, then you already know how I feel now about marriage canceling, I mean marriage counseling. So don't even get me started! Who even approved this topic for the podcast anyway? But there is one very specific kind of marriage counseling that I believe can help, which I'll tell you about. If you're wondering whether marriage couns...

I'm on a mission to end world divorce and know that you're with me! Now imagine how great it will be when the social norm is that couples stay together. I don't mean they suck it up and stay together in separate rooms for the kids. No, I mean they stay together because there's a culture that when you're going through a rough time, feeling lonely, discouraged, or unloved, there is also a stand for...

Being married to an angry man is scary because it's unpredictable. It's only natural to make like a turtle and retreat into your shell because it can really hurt to get the brunt of his anger. Your brain works overtime thinking of ways to protect yourself, which is exhausting and stressful. It can also make you feel like you need to figure out how to keep him from getting angry. Or that you need t...

When you're struggling in your marriage because you're getting hurt, neglected or criticized, it's so discouraging and draining. Maybe your husband has a big character defect that you don't see ever changing, so it doesn't seem possible to become a ridiculously happy wife. If you've been practicing the Six Intimacy Skills™ and they're just not working, you might feel like your situation is hopeles...

If only getting married made your finances as cinchy as economists make it sound. Sharing the rent or mortgage, grocery bills and utilities saves so much money, there should be less financial strain on you both, not more. Study after study shows that married couples are at the top of the financial heap for net worth and earning. But somehow money is also one of the top subjects couples fight about...

Getting married and expecting it to look a certain way then getting let down when it's not is so discouraging. It can even put your marriage at risk. These are the top 3 expectations I had in my marriage that STILL come up for me sometimes and for many of our students too. So see if you also identify with having these unrealistic expectations. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we'r...

If your husband is saying it's over or he's more interested in someone else, that's terrifying and painful. It's tempting to believe that it's not up to you whether your marriage will last. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we're talking about the top 5 signs your marriage won't last. I'll share the REAL question to ask if your marriage seems hopeless.  My guest Laura was ready to...

When you discover that your husband watches porn, it can feel really bad, disrespectful even. Here you're his only partner in the bedroom, but he's watching other women do nasty things on his phone. It's so disappointing, and so revolting. It can also make you feel pretty unspecial knowing that your husband watches an endless parade of strange women on the Internet. You wonder if he's even a decen...

When there's no passion in your marriage, it's a huge disappointment because that's a big part of the allure of marriage. You vowed to love in sickness and in health partly because you felt so irresistible when he made bedroom eyes or swept you into his arms and told you how beautiful you are. But when that stopped, it made you wonder if you were not attractive anymore, which feels terrible! Or ma...

I first taught the Six Intimacy Skills™ to women in my living room. When there were too many of us to fit in the room, I started offering workshops at hotel meeting rooms, community centers, conference centers, churches, and a mosque a few times, across the U.S. Women often traveled a long way just to be at these in-person events. I taught lots of workshops, but there were always more women who wa...

Physical abuse is one of the scariest things you can experience. If you're not safe with your own husband, then when are you ever safe? Everyone who knows you and loves you may get scared too and say you have to get out of that relationship. Then it seems pretty hopeless and even foolish to try to fix a marriage after there's been hitting, kicking, shaking or choking. That's what I thought too. Bu...

Last week my guest Suzette mentioned she had come across my blog on what your husband really wants for Valentine's Day and experimented with those suggestions and they worked! I asked her to go into detail about what it said, and neither of us could remember. Since it's the week before Valentine's Day, I got inspired to share this here again because it is probably not what you think. Your husband...

When I first interviewed happily married women on their secrets, they said these crazy things that made no sense to me. But I was desperate enough to try what they said, and that's when I got my miracle. My husband showed up like the man who had wooed me, the one I'd fallen in love with. And he's been showing up that same way ever since. So their crazy ideas were actually the things that worked to...

Brian is not a student but rather the husband of a podcast guest and Laura Doyle certified relationship coach. He generously agreed to be part of our Man Panel series, and today I'm going to get his perspective on the changes in his family as a result of his wife using the Connection Framework and the Six Intimacy Skills™. You'll hear the male perspective on what makes a man attracted to his wife...

Dwight is not a student but rather the husband of a podcast guest and coach trainee. He generously agreed to be part of our Man Panel series, and today I'm going to get his perspective on the changes in his family as a result of his wife using the Connection Framework and the Six Intimacy Skills™. You'll hear the male perspective on what makes a man attracted to his wife and want to be her hero. D...

My guest, Samuel, is not a student but rather the husband of a podcast guest and coach trainee. He generously agreed to be part of our Man Panel series, and today I'm going to get his perspective on the changes in his family as a result of his wife using the Connection Framework and the Six Intimacy Skills™. You'll hear the male perspective on what makes a man attracted to his wife and want to be...

If you've been listening to the podcast for a while, then you have heard a thing or two about The Six Intimacy Skills™. Well, I have a confession. When I first heard about the Skills, I thought they sounded stupid. I remember thinking, "I am NOT going to do THAAAAT!" I thought they were old-fashioned and just plain yucky. I thought if I apologized for being disrespectful, that would be a step back...

When your kids leave home to spread their wings, it's exciting! And bittersweet. It's exactly what you raised them to do but also a letdown because you won't get to see them as much and they no longer need you as much—which is great but can leave you feeling empty. If co-parenting was a big part of the glue that kept your marriage together, then the new quiet in the house can feel sad, especially...

As you already know if you or your husband has chronic pain, it can put a big strain on a marriage! When one of you is always hurting, it's an ever present challenge to emotional and physical intimacy. Just like when you're sick, it's very hard to be at your best when you're going "ouch ouch ouch" all day. It can also interfere with receiving or giving physical affection, which is frustrating and...