The DOM Life

Send us Fan Mail The DOM Life continues to interview Ashley.  Master Nick and Lady Dee question Ashley about her experience navigating kink/BDSM as a single.  Where does she find her dates? When does she tell her partner that she is looking for a Dom? How does she explain about the swinger’s lifestyle and BDSM?  Check out www.thedomlife.com to see additional info including pictures. Support the sh...

Send us Fan Mail First off, Happy Father's Day!!!  Master Nick and Lady Dee sit down with Ashley, who we have talked about throughout several episodes, to discuss navigating kink as a single female. In this episode they spend a little time letting you get to know Ashley and her personality through shared experiences and stories with mutual friends. Check out www.thedomlife.com to see addition...

Send us Fan Mail Join Master Nick and Lady Dee as they discuss what they want to cover in Season 2. While Season 1 was full of a variety of topics, there is still so much more to discover. Maybe one of you can help with their research and be a guest on the show. They also have prepared a few questions for each other to find out some of their own fantasies.   Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee have been recording the podcast for one year. They use this episode to review their podcast including the top 5 episodes, the growth over the past year with the podcast, themselves, and their community.    Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss etiquette in the lifestyle as well as BDSM.  They touch upon topics such as communication, ghosting, posting images, dungeons, touching others and even the right and wrong way to DM. Their bottom line is to be respectful of others and take the high road.  Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee give a breakdown of their demonstrations for the Swingers Society Club Takeover.  Friday night they had a shockingly fun night using the electric wand, while Saturday night it was the Kinkiest Show on Earth - Three Ring Demo.  The three performances on Saturday were a blindfolded, self-tie with rope suspension by Snapped Ginger (monitored by Apollo); a wax...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss community and what it means to them.  With their upcoming demonstrations of the electric wand and then the kinkiest show on earth the 3-ring demo, they wanted to explain how each and every demonstration required their community of friends to make it happen. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss a topic which is very controversial where opinions are widely split and highly divisive. They try to provide information on the concerns, safety issues, triggers as well as way to mitigate them. This episode is not to agree or disagree with it, but to provide some education on CNC. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this ep...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee had a number of laughs with Grey and Evie in the third and final installment of their interview. Discussions delved into how Grey and Evie include BDSM into other aspects of the lifestyle as they tell various stories about recent experiences, how mistakes have happened and been addressed, and how they handle emotions through open and honest communication....

Send us Fan Mail Join Master Nick and Lady Dee as they explore the Lifestyle with Grey and Evie. There is in depth discussions on where they started and how far they have come.  They talk about their levels of trust and how they developed from what they might do, to what they have done and even some hints to things they want to do in the future.   Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode we sit down with Grey and Evie to discuss their long running relationship. They have been married over 20 years, but just recently found the BDSM and Swinger Lifestyle. Sit back and enjoy the great stories they have to share with us. Also, take note on how they introduced the lifestyle into their lives through trust and communication. Check out www.thedomlife.com f...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee interview Shaun from Eye of the Steiger Photography. They discuss their first meeting at the opening of Ex Libris. Shaun has a way of putting others at ease, using his humor which is on full display during this interview.  Listen in to hear Lady Dee get schooled on the proper (or I guess improper) way to transition segments.  Check out www.thedomlife.com f...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee complete the final negotiations and discussions on their updated BDSM contract. During the episode, they openly air concerns and come to agreement with each of the change requests. Some areas requiring Indepth explanations for why changes might be needed and what, in fact, they hope to achieve. This is the final episode on their BDSM contract renegotiation...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss and negotiate their updated contract, adding where things may have been missing and adjusting and removing things not needed in their current relationship. They discuss all the changes on what will be incorporated and reasons for the changes.  Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail As Master Nick and Lady Dee renegotiate their contract, this is the perfect time to discuss contracts what they are, what belongs in it and ways to create it. While they are subjective and very personal, there are some general guidelines that you can follow when creating your first contract or, as we are actively doing, negotiating as part of an update to an existing contract. Che...

Send us Fan Mail As Master Nick and Lady Dee renegotiate their contract, the first important step is to review their existing contract which they do in this episode. Their discussions include an overall contract discussion as well as an in depth look at sections and wording. This lets you see what was important in the beginning and what has become important as their relationship developed.  Check...

Send us Fan Mail Sadly the time has come... We have discussed all the topics that we wanted to when we started this mini-series. Now it is time to move back into full length episodes pertaining to a more specific topic each week. We have so much lined up, that won't fit into a bite sized episode, and can not wait to share with you all. This episode is available on all the normal streaming ser...

Send us Fan Mail In preparation of their contract negotiation, Master Nick and Lady Dee will be discussing negotiation in BDSM in this episode. Negotiation is a theme within BDSM since you need to set expectations and boundaries in order to successfully navigate meetings or meet ups, dungeon or private scenes, expected dynamics in a possible relationship, as well as long term contracts in existing...

Send us Fan Mail It can be very easy to get distracted with all the sexiness that is around. In this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee remind you to remember who you came with when attending BDSM events or lifestyle clubs. With strong communication, discussing rules and boundaries you will find it much easier for both of you to enjoy your night outs at these events. This is part of our Back-to-Bas...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee continue the interview with Jade and after getting to know her last episode, we immediately begin discussing the topics of sub-space, sub-drop and aftercare. Her experiences are with tops who do not live with her providing insight from a completely different perspective.  Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode. Support the...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee interview Jade who is a submissive in order to discuss the topics of sub-space, sub-drop and aftercare from a perspective different than Lady Dee. Of course, we want to know more about how she started out in the kink world and what she enjoys. We are so happy that she opens up about her experiences.  Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regard...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their upcoming Valentine’s Day romantic evening plans with a few of their closest friends at Club Tempted. It’s a night of sensations with a sensory play demonstration.  Valentine’s day is a Dom’s playground.  Join us for all the fun.  Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about submitting even when it’s hard. He gives her a couple of scenarios which she explains what may be going on in her mind as she submits. Listen all the way to the end where Master Nick throws an educational curve ball to Lady Dee. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outsid...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee recap their deeper dive into Domination series. We discuss the differences between the dominants, their relationships and style. While listening to our episodes will give you some information, finding your community is key so we delve a little into online community versus real life community.    Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding t...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Lady Dee discusses how to be a good submissive in less-than-ideal times and situations. Master Nick is in the supporting role this week.  This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more infor...