The DOM Life

Send us Fan Mail Lady Dee starts with a quick update on her health and treatment. Then Master Nick dives into a listener’s requested topic on how to be a better DOM using recent discussions with friends to guide the episode. The discussion is how to be a good DOM in situations related to new relationships, poly relationship and existing relationships that are starting to include other aspects of B...

Send us Fan Mail The DOM Life sets up at Kinktasia 2025 to talk to people in attendance, and they did not disappoint! Master Nick and Lady Dee were very happy to meet everyone and learn more about them. Poor Lady Dee had to leave early due to her injuries, but Master Nick was still there asking all the questions. Take notice in all the similarities people say when they are asked to give advice to...

Send us Fan Mail In the second part of Kinktasia 2025, Master Nick leads the discussion on all things Day 2 at the event.  He revisits Day 1 to explain how Eve Riot did an amazing but cringe-worthy performance using legos as a base for many of their interactions while on stage. Cringe-worthy due to the imagined pain they HAD to have felt. Sadly, due to Lady Dee’s accident Master Nick and Lady Dee...

Send us Fan Mail In the beginning of this episode, Lady Dee gives an update on her health before Master Nick takes a moment to wish all the listeners a Happy Thanksgiving. This is the long awaited Kinktasia 2025 breakdown of events. Master Nick mentions the resignation of a key figure in the event before focusing on Day 1 where he discusses being a vendor, a breakdown of products available by othe...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee continue to discuss some unusual and obscure fetishes and practices recognizing they are barely scratching the surface of this topic.  Master Nick clarifies at the beginning of this episode that he had all the various body fluids on him based on his history as a Firefighter/EMT. When it comes to bodily fluids, there are some kinks they both can relate to,...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit their vendor booth where there will be some Dom Life products as well as podcast equipment on Friday (11/14). Listen in as they discuss obsc...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick appreciated this at the beginning of their relationship and why as a Dom sometimes paying attention to this will allow you to be a better...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as it could have a greater implication than just forgetfulness. Master Nick questions why submissives might choose to not use a safe word even...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis.  Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and products available at the event, as well as the dungeon play.  Lady Dee and Master Nick explain how the class on clothespins and clamps led to an eye-...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outside forces impact your D/s Dynamic.  Lady Dee is back in her chair for The DOM Life podcast where she talks about what happened during the w...

Send us Fan Mail Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues during the time sensitive interview with Sparkle Moonbeam, aka Shannon, from LiNK, Inc. discussing Kinktasia 2025.  Shannon tells all, okay almost all, to The DOM Life on the plans in the works for Kinktasia in Louisville, KY and how it expanded to a...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into their kinky lives which include Shibari, open and poly relationships, performances, exhibitionism, voyeurism, birthday spankings, trust, sub-space, D/s relationships, outdoor kink and, of course, they circle back around to where it all began and where...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee are so excited to have the second performer from the Kinktasia 2024 Burlesque performance, Erratic Eros on the show. We take a step back in time to episode 16 where Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about the amazing performance from Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros. The only thing about that episode, we didn't know them!!! After meeting Dan at a comedy eve...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktasia 2024. Lady Dee selected his burlesque performance as her favorite. In this episode of The Dom Life, Dan will fill you in on how and where to learn Burlesque dancing in the Louisville area.  He discusses that in his mind he is at the French Vani...

Send us Fan Mail In Part 2, Master Nick and Lady Dee hear details on some of the national Spankos events including educational classes which have included soaping, strapping 101, negotiations, role playing and even rope. KentuckyGirl talks about an event called Court where there is a “Judge” and how to bring court cases against each other – fun cases. There is a schoolgirl social event for middles...

Send us Fan Mail In this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos.  KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard tools used as a Spanker to include hair brushes, spoons, belts, paddles, and don’t forget the ever-favorite - hands. She provides insight to the Spankos mentality and how it differs from BDSM. Lady Dee was surprised to hear that penetration was not...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss a common meeting set up by local kink and BDSM communities which are called a slosh or munch. Slosh is when alcohol is involved and it is typically at a bar, while a munch is at restaurants. This is an opportunity to meet other like-minded individuals at a safe, public space.  In this episode, they discuss attending an LNK (Louisville Network of Ki...

Send us Fan Mail As a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness to show all listeners what it’s really like living with her. Still discussing Day 1 from the A Frayed Knot 3-day Self-Tying Summit, the final two classes with RedHoneyRopes and Dirt Queen were detailed out.  RedHoneyRopes instructed the class on a c...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick wakes up from his nap and engages with Lilith, Mika and Lady Dee who finish the introduction of the Share Bears including how daddy issues, family issues and other trauma brought them into the kink world before moving onto the topic of the day – AFK 3-day Self-tying Summit. Together they walk through some of the classes from the first day before running out of time (ag...

Send us Fan Mail This episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on the job. Lilith & Mika are queer platonic partners, who live life strongly in the kink and BDSM world. Lilith & Mika are both submissives, but Lilith is exploring her switch side. Lilith, a sadomasochist, can take a ton of pain and says she...

Send us Fan Mail After leaving you hanging last week from Master Nick's question, Sir Dante explains his reasoning for not using his dominance to end a relationship disagreement. Together they discuss what they feel are the best ways to solve miscommunication and misunderstanding while still being in a Dom/submissive relationship. Master Nick and Sir Dante discuss their past experiences with...

Send us Fan Mail Do you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding personal knowledge and understand different perspectives. A good Dom should always ask questions, gathering as much information as possible. Today, Master Nick and Sir Dante kick of the first episode of Dom Discussions. The discussion covers what makes a go...

Send us Fan Mail Master Nick and Lady Dee take a moment to discuss their new Social Media/Marketing Manager Jess, and improvements to The DOM Life podcast which include finding content, camera upgrades, and event attendance.  They discuss the A Frayed Knot (AFK) 3-day self-tying summit’s five amazing rope performances which were split with 3 on Friday and 2 on Saturday night. While not a play-by-p...

Send us Fan Mail In Part 2, Lady Dee and Zorra spend a hot minute during The DOM Life podcast getting into their past BDSM relationships and the differences between each. They discuss how being in a 24/7 dynamic while in a relationship versus a purely D/S dynamic sometimes impacts the actual power exchange. Lady Dee opens up on how she failed as a full-time Dominant, while Zorra discusses how her...

Send us Fan Mail Lady Dee and Zorra sit down for an intimate discussion on their past relationships that involved BDSM and how it helped and sometimes hindered their current relationship. The end goal is by reflecting on their pasts they might strengthen and improve their understanding of their current relationships.   Check out https://www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episod...