The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers

We're launching the Foundation for Fathers, and it's going to transform how we support dads navigating divorce. This nonprofit will provide free and low-cost resources, support groups, workshops, and legal education to fathers facing custody challenges—especially those without access to professional services. What makes this announcement truly revolutionary is our partnership with Will B...

Ben Schooley, founder of The Pro Se Coach, pulls back the curtain on self-representation in divorce court, revealing insights from his journey through both an amicable split and a brutal four-year legal battle. His candid discussion transforms our understanding of what's possible when facing the family court system without an attorney. Ben's website: https://prosecoachtx.com/ Join our Si...

The technological landscape of divorce has changed dramatically with the rise of smart home devices and surveillance technology. What happens when your Ring doorbell captures crucial evidence for your custody case? Or when your ex uses recordings against you in court? Family law attorney Sondra Douglas joins us to navigate this complex terrain. Sondra's website: https://steinsperling.com/atto...

Feeling overwhelmed by the competing demands of post-divorce life? You're not alone. In this practical episode, I reveal the game-changing system that transformed my ability to juggle single parenting, career responsibilities, and personal well-being after my divorce. A Practical Example Schedule: 6:00 - 6:30 AM: Morning meditation and journaling (Mental Health) 6:30 - 7:15 AM: Exercise (Phys...

Imagine ending your marriage without destroying your family. That's the promise of divorce mediation when done right, and few know this process better than Joe Dillon. Having watched his parents' bitter litigation end with the last time he ever saw his father at age 15, Dillon transformed personal pain into professional purpose. Now, with a remarkable 98% success rate (far above the indu...

What's the true state of fatherhood in America today? In this milestone 260th episode, Jude assembles a powerful panel of experts to discuss the realities facing modern dads—especially those navigating divorce and family court challenges. Ken Curry (therapist), Kirk Samuels (The Intimacy Incubator), Gordon (divorced dad), and David Pisarra (family law attorney) bring decades of personal and p...

Divorce can feel like a storm that rolls in fast—no forecast, no shelter, no time to prepare. One day, you're a husband, a full-time father, a provider with a plan. The next, you’re staring at an empty home, a fractured schedule with your kids, and a mountain of legal and emotional upheaval. It doesn’t just split assets—it splits your identity. You may find yourself questioning your worth, yo...

Divorced dads: Are you navigating the complex world of parenting plans? From holiday schedules to transportation logistics, our latest episode covers the essential components you need to address. Don't leave your custody arrangement to chance. Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTb Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops &am...

When I tell a dad going through divorce to stay strong , I’m not throwing him a vague motivational cliché. I’m giving him a call to arms—a reminder of what strength looks like when your world is cracking open, when your identity as a father is getting reshaped by custody schedules, courtrooms, and the quiet ache of an empty house. Strength during divorce doesn’t look like keeping a stiff upper lip...

Divorce isn't just emotionally draining—it's a complete financial reset. From supporting two households on the same income to rebuilding credit, the challenges are real. Check out the latest episode on navigating financial strain during divorce for practical solutions. Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTb Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Liv...

Feeling overwhelmed by divorce? You're not alone. The journey through divorce as a dad presents unique challenges that can leave even the most confident men feeling lost and uncertain about the future. Divorce coaching has emerged as a crucial resource for fathers navigating this difficult transition. While attorneys focus solely on legal matters, therapists on emotional healing, and financia...

Modern feminism has moved far beyond equality. Today, it’s about control — and nowhere is that more obvious than in the aftermath of divorce. In custody courts, in legal systems, and in the culture itself, divorced fathers are being systematically pushed aside, not because they’ve failed their children, but because they don’t fit the feminist-approved narrative of what a post-divorce family should...

If you're a divorced or divorcing dad, the idea of a "parental coordinator" (PC) or "decision maker" (DM) might feel like another loss of control. Courts sometimes assign one when parents are high-conflict or consistently stuck on big issues. It's normal to feel suspicious or defensive. But like everything in divorce, there's a mix of positives and negatives you...

Jude is joined by the author of Love Hacks: Ten Skills For Making Your Relationships More Life Giving and pastor of Restoration Church in Denver, CO, Ron Johnson. They discuss how divorced dads can have a healthier relationship after divorce by learning what they want in a woman and relationship as well as how to create a deeper attachment the second time around. Let’s break it down—what you can c...

Divorce can feel like your life is spinning out of control—and in many ways, it is. You’re not just splitting up a relationship. You’re restructuring your family, finances, home life, and daily routines. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos, trying to manage everything, fix everything, and control the uncontrollable. But here’s the truth: mastering the art of losing control is how you survive t...

If you're a divorced dad navigating custody or support issues, your attorney is one of your most important allies. But they’re not a mind reader. To get the best possible results, you need to communicate clearly, efficiently, and with purpose. Here’s how to make that happen—and why it matters. Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTb Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community -...

Dating after divorce is a different game, especially when you're a father. You have more at stake than just your personal happiness—you need to think about how a new relationship will impact your children, your stability, and your future. The woman you choose to date should not only align with your personal goals but also integrate well into your family. Here’s a breakdown of the types of wom...

Divorce is tough. There’s no sugarcoating it. It’s a process that shakes the very foundation of your life, leaving you to navigate a storm of emotions, legal complexities, financial strains, and, most importantly, your relationship with your children. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re failing, you’re not alone. And here’s the truth: you don’t have to be perfect. The reality...

David Pissarro, attorney and founder of Union of Dads, shares powerful insights on navigating custody battles, challenging family court biases, and fighting for father's rights. Through his 26 years of legal experience and personal advocacy, David provides essential strategies for dads facing the often unfair family court system. • Family courts often favor mothers despite laws being theoreti...

Creating a stable, welcoming environment after divorce isn't just about interior design—it's about healing, comfort, and establishing a foundation for your family's new chapter. When children shuttle between homes, the spaces they inhabit profoundly affect their ability to process and adjust to their new reality. Interior designer Molly Anderson discovered this truth through persona...

In today's parenting landscape, we often hear about the importance of involved parents. But did you know that fathers bring a unique set of parenting skills to the table? In his book "The Boy Crisis," Dr. Warren Farrell explores how dads parent differently from moms, and why these differences are crucial for child development, especially for boys. Let's dive into six key ways f...

In this episode, we share valuable strategies to support children through the turbulent waters of divorce. Discover how consistency and openness can anchor a child’s world, from recognizing emotional and behavioral changes to fostering a stable environment. We introduce the engaging "Rose Thorn Bud" dinner-time game as a tool to nurture open communication, and stress the need for healthy...

This episode addresses the pressing concerns of divorced fathers regarding their children's safety in the wake of a mother’s new romantic partner. It explores the psychological and biological underpinnings that explain why women often move on quickly after divorce and the increased risks associated with introducing a non-biological male figure into the home. • Insights on hypergamy and post-d...

What if you could become the CEO of your own divorce, steering your life towards a future that truly aligns with your values and desires? Join us for a compelling conversation with Bill Miles co-founder of Best Self Magazine and the Best Self Intuitive Divorce Coaching program, as he shares his transformative journey through difficult divorces. Learn how his experiences led him to develop tools an...

Divorced dads often face an uphill battle—not just in the courtroom, but in the court of public opinion. The narrative surrounding fathers post-divorce is frequently negative, portraying them as absent, irresponsible, or unfit parents. Society, fueled by media, Hollywood, advertising, sitcoms, and corporate policies, often reinforces the notion that fathers are secondary caregivers or mere visitor...