The Divorce Devil Podcast

We kinda struggled with a topic for today.  We were initially going to talk about the effects on kids after divorce and positive ways to combat the negativity.  But we changed to don’t listen to all the haters and be careful of what advice you listen to and accept.  Topics of you’re the keynote speaker, going to Home Depot aisle three by the wood section, falling in love with the first person you...

We want to thank ‘Angela’, Rachel’s friend that is currently going through a divorce, for her courage and forthcomings in being on this podcast and providing our listeners a different aspect of a divorce.  In the trenches, ‘Angela’ discusses her in’s and out’s of online dating.  Rachel did slip up and say her real name but we did edit that out.  You know when it happens because we all are laughing...

It’s another wild and crazy podcast with one of our favorite subjects - sex after divorce.  This subject is loaded with ideas, hangups, theories, lotions and potions, toys, reading materials, and alike.  Topics of tacos and sausages, first encounters, women are more mental, the sex section in the library, the importance of the hoe phase, and two dates in one day.  Another fun podcast, we hope to r...

Fresh from a Raisin Canes podcast last week, Marianne ventures back to the studio to talk about her expertise with identity and its relationship to those who are divorcing or divorced.   I didn’t realize how much you and the mechanism for changing your identity goes through in the cycle of divorce.  Change, challenge, and growth are all ways to realize and seek your identity.  Accepting the failur...

Rachel is fresh just back from a trip back home in Jersey.  Specifics about her trip tested her forgiveness and the ability to give no F^cks.  We did discuss that being intentional with your life definitely progresses the healing after a devastating divorce.  Subjects of ex-mother-in-law, reunions, rewriting your story, one day, task and thought at a time, spending the rest of your life with you,...

Happy 2022.  In their quest to help others during and after divorces, Rachel and David stumbled on the topic of mindfulness.  They decided to devote Episode 055 to the relationship between mindfulness and divorce and see how they interacted with each other.  Subjects of grape Kool-Aid, the Hoe phase, being selfish, creating a new routine, knowing your value, owning your sh!!, and cutting the dog i...

It’s kind of ironic that Rachel and I both belong to female and male Divorce Facebook Groups respectively.  We discuss seeing some of the identical posts from both groups.  It shows the pain and hurt from divorce is real.  Hanging on even after the divorce is over and actually caring what they are doing with their lives - i.e. who they are dating, what friends they got in the end, and so on.   We...

Welcome newcomer Kelly to the mic.  And she brought presents!  She is a racy romance author as well as being a sexual health and wellness professional.  We’ll put her website and contact info below this.  Well, this podcast is a little all over the place.  We started with the 5 love languages, moved on to self-care, and morphed into vibrators for men and women.  Topics of giving people a safe spac...

The Divorce Devil Podcast is in full effect.  And it’s a doozy!   What about your friends?  They can sometimes help and/or hurt concerning divorces.  Rachel and David discuss topics of speaker-listener technique, don’t settle, Fire Marshall Bill, what to do if you don’t have a tribe, every flake has sugar, know your worth, and one again - communication.  While they mean well, they can project the...

We have heard his name mentioned on almost every Divorce Devil Podcast since Rachel joined us.. Welcome, Lance to the mic.  Rachel could hardly contain herself.  It was fun to watch.  Subjects of: I failed as a wife but I’m a winner in life, not used to hitting rock bottom alone, people love your divorce drama, Harmit is Hermit’s cousin, iTunes gift cards sent to Ukraine, record the quiet and the...

A sort of a continuation of DD 049 - Things to do to Heal, Rachel and David take a stab at some of the correct attitudes needed for healing (from their point of view),  Talks of granny panties and sweatpants, arrow in the middle, patience needed with healing, walk away from the people that don’t value you, go through the pain to find yourself, and the world does not rest on your shoulders.  A posi...

Rachel and David continue with the thing to heal from episodes 046 and 048.  It gets a little deeper with topics like sucking on toes, no pigs in the hood, 27 dollars in the bank is more than zero, know your finances, there’s no fairness in divorce, and don’t sit in your sadness and guilt.  A little all over the place, they even touch on some things to do when you are just contemplating a divorce....

Once again Rachel and David push the limits of a divorce podcast with the subject of pain, blame and hurt.  Sometimes interchangeable, they all have distinct meanings.  Topics of serial dating, the first kiss, cry/laugh, vaginosis from dry humping and blame is a wasted emotion are all discussed during the podcast.  They didn’t think they could top ‘no f*&cks’  debate from Divorce Devil Podcast...

Wow… This podcast is pretty in your face and brutal.  Definitely, Rachel and David differ in the need for forgiveness after divorce.  New Jersey ‘no f&^ks’ has many levels which only touch the surface of forgiveness.  One of the wildest podcasts in the Divorce Devil Podcast family, it does not disappoint in providing two distinctly different points of view concerning forgiveness.  You be the j...

Episode 46 - now one of my favorites.  A subject people in the storm don’t really think about as the winds are swirling.  Rachel and I discuss important points enabling a person the grow through it instead of just going through the motions.  Getting surfacy, rebounding, Molly Ringwald, communication, and no one will ever love me are tossed into the podcast ring.  Stay tuned…. Contact Divorce Devil...

Rachel and David get together for another informative post-divorce podcast.  Diving into getting your mojo back and dating after divorce, Subjects of working around red flags, stepping out of your comfort zone, fighting your demons and women having the power (Armando - Sex and Love Mansplained Podcast Episode #005).  It’s gets a little crazy, as usual, but that’s what makes this podcast so differe...

Another episode of Divorce Devil Podcast with Rachel and David discussing some of the things you are not prepared for in divorce. We are all over the place with examples of who gets the dog, transitions from each parent’s house, every day is Christmas, triggers that remind you of your ex and lots of neighbors have been coveted!  This is our second attempt, and better, which in turn spreads our wor...

Rachel and I continue to keep it real while talking about divorce discussing things that may get you and got us through the hard times of divorce.  When you are in the storm, sometimes it’s hard to set on solid ground and keep yourself focused on the tasks at hand.  We know there are and were so many things to consider and think about during that most difficult time.  Being honest and sincere, we...

Rachel stops by for a quick podcast about family dynamics and divorce.  We were toying around with a few topics before it came to the forefront.  And once again, never, never and I mean never stay for the kids.  Choking out an 80-year-old, go big or go home, parents don’t have a favorite, take you out of the will, and this is not the midwest all contribute to the conversation.  We might have to do...

Rachel stops in the studio for a Divorce Devil Podcast.  Our topic concerns itself with the interesting tips, tricks, hacks, and other ways to set yourself for positive healing after divorce.  This is definitely going to be spread out into a part two podcast.  Too many ways to heal for one episode.  Tips to start doing things that you like, dating, Italian food, friend zone, is Tik Tok your genera...

Since we got such crazy responses on SALMP 0015, we decided to keep the flow moving with part 3 of 20 questions.  Divorced people can benefit from some of the information also.  We also had a special guest, my son David Jr.  His face was pretty shocked a few times.  Talks about communication, have your own hobbies, one less than 70, why are blowjobs so special? point by point instructions and go w...

Of course, Rachel and Peggy are back for another insightful and interesting podcast.  We began with some pre-podcast banter.    Starting off with funny and unique first dates, it morphed into what you are looking for in a mate to why we got divorced.  This chaos/freshness is what this podcast is all about.  Diving into topics of dating is figuring out what you don’t like, say I love you when I’m d...

Jeff and Pete stop by for some breakfast on Sunday morning.  What a great time for a podcast about dating after divorce on full stomachs.  They weren’t ready but rose to the occasion as soon as I turned on the mics.  Other topics of my elevator speech, a list of 15 things, organic dating, watch out for the big booty, and conformational bias are mentioned in this podcast.  The guys did not let me d...

Peggy and Rachel came by for another podcast.  Once again, we really miss Armando.  Staying in relationships too long was the topic of discussion today.  The podcast took off like a rocket.  They both had quite a bit to say.  Subjects of it’s familiar, I’m probably just hungry, reading women’s minds, sex in the dressing room, and the fear of the unknown are all brought up in the podcast.  We cover...

Rachel and Peggy are back on the mic and they are on fire.  We did miss Armando this time.  He’ll be back soon.  I learned so many things men do wrong on a dating app from their profile wording, profile pic, texting, to crazy happenings on the first date.  These ladies womansplained me on the Mansplained Podcast.  Topics include but are not limited to - Tic Tok and the Attorney General, you appare...