The Divorce Devil Podcast

MEGA DISCLAIMER!!!  .... as of July 4th, 2023 Our guest TODD DEAN has now been reported by WSMV Channel 4 in Nashville as the "Selfie Scammer'.   It has come to our attention that Todd has been ACCUSED of swindling quite a few women out of money with false promises.  We're not a fan of that possible behavior.  But, we decided to leave the podcast episode up with this disclaimer in hopes of reachin...

Welcome, Armin to the mic.  We met over Facebook.  He messaged me about divorce and I gave him the link to The Sex and Love Mansplained Podcast.  Armin gave us some really nice feedback on Episode #005.  We chatted about his Facebook Group ‘Social Matrix’ and his views on texting communication with women.  Right then I know he was perfect for the podcast.  You can feel his enthusiasm about his abi...

This is a continuation of DD 032.  The second part has a mind of its own.  Booty lockdown, being friends after a breakup, make that change, two tubes of sand, hammer that love language, and dating for my son, don't hold other people accountable for your past relationships, peeing in the bushes, cut bait faster, being lazy, and when to introduce the kids are all touched on here.  I look forward to...

I was a guest on OOH, ALL THE FEELS PODCAST hosted by Andra Collins.  I was directed to her by a mutual friend.  I have to say that it was a blast.  It was a little give and go, with Andra and I both asking and answering questions.  Subjects of love languages, unrealistic expectations, kids and consequences, chicken heads, and an element of luck in dating are broached along with a host of others. ...

Joan reached out to me earlier in the year about being on the podcast and I finally responded and we hooked up to do this podcast.   RED FLAG:  the internet connection during the zoom meeting was spotty at best, so you may have to extrapolate the context - but still it was a great podcast.  Don't know if it was a Boston or Colorado Springs thing...... There is a lot of information here about onlin...

Welcome Tom to the mic.  We’ve been friends for a few years now, meeting when I facilitated Divorce Recovery Workshop a few years ago.  He drops his knowledge and frankness on his amicable divorce.   The hows, whys, and the whens all play a part in his divorce journey.  The honesty of his path is refreshing.  Topics of relying on your friends, keeping a sense of humor, killer rabbits, keep a routi...

Allen stayed after CLATN 050 and helped me tackle the subject of Divorce – a second chance at happiness. He was extremely forthcoming with his thoughts and experiences on the subject. We must love and be happy with ourselves before we can be happy with others.  Hoping others can benefit from this podcast, we only express what works for us and hopefully can stir something in others. Take a listen,...

We have a nubie on the mic - welcome Stacey.  She was excited to discuss divorce from a woman's point of view.  It was refreshing to get tidbits from the 'other side' and hear that some divorces potentially  can be caring, civil and relatively smooth sailing.  Topics of using the kids as weapons, communication, live your truth, front deraillerus, dating your counselor and working on other people s...

Marianne is back for one more podcast before heading back home to Holland.  She contacted me a few days ago with the subject of self-pity.  I did a little research and I was definitely game.  Subjects of consequences, chasing your tail, enabling people, destructive depression and self-reflection are touched upon during this episode.  I'm going to check into recording podcasts through the Facebook...

Marianne comes back to the show almost a year to the day after moving to Holland over 8 months ago.  Moving away for her was part of the healing process and she states she has no regrets.  Making the choice to change, you are where you are supposed to be at all times, don't move my cheese, more of a collective and settling are discussed in the podcast.  Once again, Marianne does not disappoint wit...

Pete stops by for an interesting podcast.  Now that we both have years of being divorced under our belts, I want us to reflect back and see what we could have done differently in our divorces.  Looking back can also help us move ahead.  Getting out of your funk, do what makes you happy, figuring out when enough is enough and just wanting it to be over are some of the areas touched on.  As usual, P...

Welcome first timers Marcy and Loretta.  They bring the subject of the stages of divorce: pre, during and post.  The topics are too many to list here, for they are all important.  Take a listen and see what you think.  Both almost being divorced twice, they have endless knowledge and perception with advice on the art of divorce. Contact Divorce Devil Podcast -tweet us at @divorcedevilpodcast -Face...

Since it was so close to Father's Day, I decided to do a Father's Day Show.  But we put a little spin on it.  Welcome Jody to the mic for the first time.  Our topic: the infamous absentee sperm donor dad.  I seem the hear more and more about these guys and frankly can't even fathom thinking about becoming one.  Jody is very forthcoming in her story of her life with her donor.  This episode will ma...

One of my best buds finally graced our studio with his presence.  I have been trying to get him on the show since its inception.  With me being busy and him being busy, we were not able to connect until now.  And, he did not let me down.  You can hear he is the music to my Tasmanian Devil.  Curtis makes some valid points about the process of divorce.  Listen up..... Contact Divorce Devil Podcast -...

Barb and Sue finally relented to doing a podcast with me and actually enjoyed the heck out of themselves.  They were on point with their discussions of support groups, self-pity, and my favorite - you can choose to go through your divorce or choose to grow through your divorce.  I appreciate their time and efforts to convey to anyone else out there in a stage of divorce.  Gonna get them back for s...

What a treat to have Steve brave the snow storm and come do a podcast.  As usual, his high levels of astuteness and shrewdness shine in the show.  He does not disappoint.  Touching on subjects such as bossy women, the key to staying married, getting married again, bald and/or hairy and training wheels really get the conversation going.  We look forward to having Steve on the show again.  He does s...

Marianne is new to the podcasting world.  Having an education in sociology with a minor in women's ethnic studies with a focus on identity, she is perfect for this talk.  Her views on identity and divorce were very revealing.  Sleeping with Italian food, badges you wear, drive from the front seat, stigmas, a sense of positive self-esteem/self-image and labeling all are discussed on this show.  We...

Jeff and Ed stayed for another podcast on Divorce Devil.  This time they lend their thoughts on dating after divorce.  The shortest podcast I have done yet, it produces a slam dunk concerning if you are ready and what to put on your online profile.  There is no doubt what the three of us want when looking at a profile picture online.  Touching on leaving your pets out. SSR, coaxing out crazy, heal...

Welcome back Jeff and newcomer Ed.  Man, we had a few takes to start to the point I finally left some of them in.  So, enjoy.  Their advice and history can hopefully help someone there in the divorce realm.   Jeff and Ed were a little hesitant, but after football, beer and pizza, I told them they owed me and ended up having a blast.  These two were instrumental in my stomach crunches during the sh...

Brenda stayed for a second podcast, the three stages of divorce.  Her insights on the process are informational.  Anyone currently […] Contact Divorce Devil Podcast -tweet us at @divorcedevilpodcast -Facebook us at @divorcedevil -Website: www.divorcedevil.net Want to talk to us, send us an audio message: PODINBOX We'd love to hear from you. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more inf...

After pork steaks and scrambled eggs, Pete and I are replenished with podcasting wisdom.  The subject this time: rebound.  Since […] Contact Divorce Devil Podcast -tweet us at @divorcedevilpodcast -Facebook us at @divorcedevil -Website: www.divorcedevil.net Want to talk to us, send us an audio message: PODINBOX We'd love to hear from you. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more infor...

We’re excited to have Pete back in the house.  He and I vibe so well on a vast variety of subjects.  Our topic today; the three stages of divorce, takes us on an interesting podcasting journey.  Scary that we think so much alike.  Maybe brothers from different mothers back in the day.  A binding contract, rent me for Valentines Day, we are all mammals, no self-identity and comparing people to our...

We are lucky to get Denise back on the mic.  We have missed her sense of deep thought.  Her views on just starting or even thinking about divorce are very interesting.  We both give people in that situation things to really think about.  Learn from some of our mistakes.  Be informed and prepared before you pull that trigger.  It can’t hurt.  Being products of a Divorce Recovery Class, we have seen...

Denise and Jeff are together with me for the first time.  Talking about a subject near and dear to all three of our hearts, DRW.  Divorce Recovery Workshop is where we all three met.  Debating the importance of healing, dating people in your group, and everyone has a story relevant to them all are broached in this podcast.  We don’t have all the answers - buy we can probably start a conversation a...

Elizabeth and Darryl are back on the mic and hitting the subject of dating after divorce hard. A difference of opinion is the flavor for the day.  From the definition of dating to the choice of options, the conversation warms up.  You can even hear Napoleon in the background once again.  Both Elizabeth and Darryl stick to their guns on this one.  I can see some merits in both of their views.  Take...