The Director's Playbook

For most funeral homes, aftercare stops at a sympathy card or a phone call. But what happens when you actually help families navigate what comes after the funeral? In this episode, host Paul Lovelace sits down with Matt Van Drimmelen to talk about how service-based aftercare can set your funeral home apart and drive real growth. Matt shares how helping families with estate closings builds the kind...

Did you know that roughly half of all deaths in the U.S. involve hospice care? That means the relationship you have with hospice providers directly impacts how families learn about your funeral home and how prepared they are when they see you. In this episode, host Paul Lovelace sits down with Melissa Luton to talk about how your funeral home can strengthen its relationship with hospice providers....

How long could your funeral home survive without a single at-need call? With an active preneed program, it’s longer than you think. In this episode, host Paul Lovelace and Tom Antram sit down to talk about how preneed can protect your funeral home’s future. They explore strategies for aligning your at-need and preneed teams, choosing the partners and providers, and using technology to improve your...

The rise in cremation is undeniable, but the real question is: how are you adapting? In this episode, host Paul Lovelace welcomes Billy Eaton to the podcast for a conversation on adapting to the rise in cremation. Billy shares how technology-driven arrangement conferences can increase average revenue, why personalized jewelry and artisan glass are resonating with families, and how strategic mercha...

Funeral home marketing looks different today than it did 20 years ago. With so much change, you may feel overwhelmed. But you aren’t alone. In this episode of The Director’s Playbook, Kasi shares her expertise on modern funeral home marketing and tips for digital adaptation. From strengthening your website and offering online arrangements to investing in community relationships and pet services, l...

What do families remember most about a funeral home? Usually, it’s the way you made them feel. And that’s where hospitality comes in. In this episode, host Paul Lovelace sits down with Tracey Brumley to talk about what true hospitality looks like in funeral service. Tracey shares how to elevate your service without overcomplicating your operations through intentional training, gathering feedback,...

Are you overlooking numbers that can make or break your business? Host Paul Lovelace welcomes Ian Seekins to the podcast to tackle funeral home financials. Ian shares the financial metrics every funeral home owner should track, why these numbers matter, and how they impact your funeral home. If you’re looking to better understand or improve your finances, this episode is for you! About Ian Seekins...

Natural organic reduction is more than a trend. And with consumer demand growing, it’s crucial for funeral professionals to be proactive. In this episode, host Paul Lovelace sits down with Katrina Spade to unpack the science, ceremony, and consumer demand behind natural organic reduction. To learn about how natural organic reduction works, the value it provides to families, and where funeral homes...

What keeps most funeral home owners up at night? According to guest Robbie Hume, three concerns stand out: technology, succession planning, and staffing. In this episode, Robbie and host Paul Lovelace unpack each concern and share practical insights. From embracing digital tools to preparing for transition, this conversation offers clarity in an increasingly complex landscape. If you’re thinking a...

It’s no secret that families' preferences are changing. The question is: How are you adapting to that change? In this episode of The Director’s Playbook, host Paul Lovelace and Matt Bailey talk about how to educate “no‑service” families, use celebrant‑led services to create meaning, and use technology to extend your reach. Matt also shares how you can drive referrals and grow market share through...

Feeling the pressure of consolidation, staffing shortages, and families' changing preferences? Host Paul Lovelace sits down with Miki Tufto to unpack the major shifts shaping the funeral profession. They discuss alternative burial methods, succession planning, the growing role of women in the profession, and what these trends mean for your funeral home. For practical strategies and valuable takeaw...

What does it take for an independently owned funeral home to not only survive? But to thrive, too? Host Paul Lovelace welcomes Rob Paterkiewicz to the podcast for a conversation on independent funeral homes and the challenges they face. From staffing and retention to culture and business opportunities, Rob shares insights that will help you overcome obstacles and strengthen your business. If you’r...

What if every obstacle you faced in your funeral home was a growth opportunity? Host Paul Lovelace welcomes Chris Johnson for a thought-provoking episode of The Director’s Playbook. The two talk about servant leadership, having an abundance mentality, and the importance of viewing challenges as opportunities. For new ways to grow your business, tune in! About Chris Johnson: Chris Johnson is the Co...

What happens when a 130-year-old cemetery combines innovation with tradition and legacy? In this episode, host Paul Lovelace welcomes Bob Gordon to the podcast. The two discuss the importance of understanding consumers' needs, innovative approaches to service, and future trends that focus on personalization and community engagement. About Bob Gordon: Bob Gordon is a fourth-generation funeral direc...

In this episode of The Director's Playbook, I sit down with Walker Posey, managing director of Posey Funeral Directors, a fourth-generation funeral home owner from South Carolina. We delve into the evolution of leadership within the funeral service, exploring the balance between tradition and innovation. Walker shares invaluable insights on the importance of community service, the changing dynamic...

According to the American Board of Funeral Service Education, over 75% of the students enrolled in funeral service education programs in the U.S. in 2022 were women. Those numbers have continued to rise as more women are entering the funeral profession than ever before. In this episode, host Paul Lovelace welcomes Lisa Baue for a conversation about growth, leadership, and women in the funeral prof...

What does it take to run a successful, family-owned funeral home across generations? In this episode of The Director’s Playbook, host Paul Lovelace welcomes retired funeral home owner Tim Hoff and his children, Ashley Hoff-Czaplewski and Tyler Hoff, who are also funeral professionals. The group discusses working with family, the importance of succession planning, and the power of community connect...

Description: What if artificial intelligence could help you serve families better and make your funeral home more efficient? In this episode of the Director’s Playbook, host Paul Lovelace huddles up with Curtis Funk, CEO of Tukios, and Kelly Gilgenbach, VP of Sales at Funeral Directors Life and Passare, for a game-changing conversation on how AI is impacting funeral service. Curtis and Kelly share...

What if one staff member could boost your revenue, strengthen your team, and give families the peace of mind they need? In this episode, host Paul Lovelace sits down with Macy Lane, a licensed funeral director turned preneed specialist, to reveal how she's helped many funeral homes in her area. Macy shares how a dedicated sales professional can drive your preneed program, reduce staff stress, and...

In a 2023 survey, the National Funeral Directors Association found that nearly 60% of all funeral professionals planned to retire by 2028. How will that impact the funeral profession? In this episode of The Director’s Playbook, host Paul Lovelace is joined by Cody Walker, Dean of Assessment at Pierce Colleges of Funeral Service. They explore what’s being done to prepare the next generation of fune...

Technology is changing the way funeral homes operate. But for many funeral professionals, that shift can bring uncertainty. Will technology replace funeral professionals? Is it possible to utilize technology without losing human connection? Host Paul Lovelace sits down with FDL’s very own Josh McQueen, VP of Marketing and Product, and Kyle Swearingen, VP of Development, to tackle those questions h...

You believe in the value of funerals. Now, it’s time to learn how to share that value with families. In part two of their conversation, host Paul Lovelace and renowned grief counselor, author, and speaker Dr. Alan Wolfelt move beyond the “why” of funeral education and dive into the “how.” This episode challenges you to rethink old habits, embrace your role as a teacher, and confidently lead famili...

Are you giving families what they want or what they need? Many families don't know how to create a healing and meaningful funeral. You can change that - if you're willing to educate families. Host Paul Lovelace welcomes renowned grief counselor, author, and speaker Dr. Alan Wolfelt to the podcast to discuss why funeral professionals need to be teachers and experts for families. The two explore why...

Advance planning seminars have long been a great way to grow a funeral home’s preneed program. But the value of these seminars goes beyond securing appointments. They also build trust with your families. In this episode of The Director’s Playbook, host Paul Lovelace and Patrick Zalusky, Owner of Laker Planning Service, discuss how these events can generate leads and be the first step in building r...

What if the key to growing your funeral home was the voices of the families you serve? To protect your level of care today and increase your market share and profitability tomorrow, you need an honest picture of how families view your funeral home. Surveys can provide that invaluable insight. Episode 4 welcomes George Owens, President and Founder of Fortitude Research & Marketing. Along with host...