The Derelict Podcast

In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis delve into the unique challenges men face in seeking help and support. They discuss the importance of community, intentional challenges, and the societal expectations that often prevent men from reaching out for assistance. Kristal shares insights from her book, “Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for th...

Discover a powerful conversation on masculinity in this episode as Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni sits down with Brent Dowlen to redefine what it truly means to be a man in today’s world. They delve into the crisis of masculinity, exploring how humility, gentleness, presence, and calmness are essential qualities for modern men. Learn why true strength isn’t about physical dominance but lies in discipl...

Third time’s the charm for religion, right?!?! Well, we’ll see. In this episode, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discusses his journey of self-discovery with religion post a traumatic event- his divorce! Have you experienced a traumatic event that has shaken your religious beliefs? If so, welcome! Come listen to his failures and how he felt abandoned and failed by religion! He explores the process...

Religion, take 2! In this episode, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni delves into his experience with religion as a young man. The time where our childhood religious beliefs are challenged can be difficult- even into adulthood! Tune in for more failures and lessons and we continue to dive deep into being authentic, vulnerable, and awesome derelicts! Listen in and let us know what you think! Email us:...

Were you raised in a religious household? What's your spiritual journey look like now? In this episode, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni opens up about his journey with religion as a kid and the many failures along the way! Do you relate?   Listen in and let us know what you think! Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz   Resources: South Park, Purity Ring: https://youtu.be/0pSTQBAKnsg?feature=shared  ...

Kevin Palmieri from @NextLevelUniversity chats with Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni about his journey of self-belief and self-worth, and how external success can sometimes trigger internal turmoil. He shares personal experiences of facing fear and self-doubt, and the importance of pushing through and taking action. Kevin emphasizes the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive and like-minded...

In this episode of the Derelict Podcast, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and guest Cory Desimone discuss the topic of being true to oneself. They explore the challenges men face in being authentic and the limiting beliefs that hold them back. They also discuss the importance of solitude and self-reflection in discovering one's true self. The conversation highlights the need to let go of external valida...

In this conversation, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni reflects on the concept of getting away from it all and the struggle of escaping oneself. He discusses his recent travels and the experiences that have led him to question the display of manhood in the world. Josh explores the opening ceremony of the Paris Olympics and raises questions about the true masculinity exhibited by the men involved. He emp...

WILL THE REAL MEN PLEASE STAND UP!?!? This is a call to the derelict men out there that want and need to rediscover their true masculinity! There is a CRISIS in true masculinity today! We are told that masculinity is “toxic”, “chauvinistic”, “aggressive”, and “evil”. In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni reflects on the importance of healthy masculinity and the need for men to rediscover it....

Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni interviews Nicky Billou, genius behind www.sovereignman.ca! The conversation explores the topics of masculinity, the challenges faced by men in society, and the influence of external forces on shaping masculinity. It delves into the concept of toxic masculinity, healthy masculinity, and the impact of societal attitudes on men and women. The conversation also touches on t...

So, after last week, do you choose to be a victim or a victor? In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discusses the benefits of being a victim and whether it’s worth it or not! He discusses how to transition from “victim” to “victor”. He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and not blaming others or institutions for our problems. Josh encourages listeners to fo...

In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni explores the concept of victimhood versus victor mentality. He questions whether being a victim means avoiding failure and discusses the balance between victimhood in our heads versus reality. Josh encourages listeners to change their mindset from victim to victor and asks if they are willing to put in the work. He also emphasizes the importance of takin...

Ruth Poniarski (https://ruthponiarski.com) shares her journey of mental illness. She discusses her experiences of living a double life, feeling isolated, and the impact of her husband's family history during World War II. Ruth talks about her multiple breakdowns and the patterns of psychosis that developed. She also shares how she found the right medication and therapy to manage her mental health,...

We have the special privilege to welcome Mike Oppenheim to the show today! Sign up for his newsletter at www.mikeyopp.com! We covered a range of topics today including inner peace, metaphysics, failure, and the challenges of being a dad in the 21st century. But, most importantly, how to listen to your intuition, your gut, your god. Mike emphasizes the significance of listening to one's intuitive v...

Talia Carner, a successful author and activist, joins Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and the Derelict Podcast to discuss redefining success and failure. Check her out at https://taliacarner.com. Talia shares her personal definition of success, which is not necessarily tied to money but to satisfaction. She talks about her career transition from marketing and advertising to writing, and how she found f...

Since we killed Version 1.0 of ourselves last week, it’s time to try on Version 2.0! Let’s focus on what we can do right now! As always, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discusses failures and being vulnerable, especially as a guy! Who knew the Serenity Prayer was the perfect tool for moving on to 2.0?!? Curious how that works? Listen in and let us know what you think! Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz...

Are you ready for a shift? Is “Version 1.0” holding you back? If so, this episode is for you! In this episode, I, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni, discuss my own failures transitioning from “Version 1.0” to “Version 2.0”. I share personal experiences of failure and the challenges I faced- even in launching this podcast! I explore limiting beliefs and insecurities that hold us back from reaching our ful...

How hard is it for you to stay emotionally present? What would your special person say? Well, come listen to host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni talk to his girlfriend Sarah Jade as she tells the world how he's doing- eeks! Come listen as we talk about our failures real-time! In this episode, we discuss staying emotionally present when dealing with difficult emotions. We explore unhealthy ways of deal...

Last week host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discussed his failure to launch this podcast through the lens of grief- this week he tackles fear! So scary! (Get it?) Ever been afraid of failure? Or afraid of success? Josh tackles both and shares some failures along the way! Listen in for a few ideas of how to deal with fear- we’re in this together, you derelict! Shoot us a note and let us know what you...

In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni opens up about his experience of failure and the stages of grief he went through after his podcast partner decided to quit. He gets raw and vulnerable about the stages of grief and the importance of accepting and embracing new opportunities that arise from failure. Looking forward to hearing your stories as well! Listen in and let us know what you think:...

Holy sh**- she’s back! Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs are so happy Veronica Darling is joining us again for more parenting fails! Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about…how we talk about sex with our kids?!?! Eeks! We all have such different experiences of this growing up, how do we even begin? Listen in and let us know what you think! Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz   Resources...

I guess not just men fail at parenting- women do too?!? Who knew?!?! Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs are honored and privileged to have Veronica Darling join us in the "studio" today- what a blessing! She has more parenting experience than the two of us combined! Listen in for parenting fails and the core job description of us as parents. We share recent failures and reflect on being mo...

Ever feel like a failure as a parent? Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs sure do, we might just lead the charge! Unintentionally, of course. But, as they say, we’re all just doing “the best we can”. Nope. That’s bull. Let’s get real instead. Let’s learn how to set realistic expectations and not be too hard on ourselves. Come listen to many parenting failures and the lessons we've learned-...

Ever feel like an imposter? Hosts Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs sure do! Maybe it’s at work or school- or maybe it’s as a friend or a lover or a parent? Did you know that imposter syndrome can’t really happen unless you’re doing something right? In this episode we explore how we’ve both failed at imposter syndrome and how failure always can be used as a learning opportunity! We talk a...

And….we’re back with MORE DATING FAILS! Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs just couldn’t get enough of the conversation last week- we’re gluttons for punishment, we suppose! We aren’t needy, but you might be feeling claustrophobic…well, guess what- so are we! Listen in as we talk about relationships, self-deprecating humor, actions vs. intentions, the challenges of breakups, the awkwardnes...