The Death of a Dream

to all my middle-class friends i get you. we have been worked into a system that is hard to escape. and the reason well honestly it isn't bad why would you need to leave. WE. ARE. FINE. said over and over until we die. it is fine. it is good in fact. this is just who we are supposed to be. just get a little better every generation. no one escapes...we are perfectly set up to do great things and ye...

i know how criptic. but seriously this weekend i read something that struck deep in my soul. it can never be unread. i will forever carry it in my memory and i can never be the same. dreams will never mislead you. fear will every time. so what are you leading with. check out more at www.nussinc.com

i find the hardest part of dreaming is doing so appropriate to your soul's call. a ton of us willingly back down because of well about 100 million factors most of which are the reality of the life you live currently. specifically, as a woman you are called to dream in tamed spaces and so you do not call out the beauty you want to see only live where you are. you can make all things a reality, no m...

stop it. yes they can and they absolutely must. i thought for a long time that words are not enough. that i am not enough. whatever your call you are enough. you have everything you need start moving forward. whatever it is you will change the world. check out more the death of a dream at www.nussinc.com

i know it seems like it would be counter intuitive right. love on yourself even more than other people. sounds selfish. sounds like something you can't do right. we are built to love others over self. well it is not so. it takes you loving yourself to be able to love and support others the way they need. also showing the example of you loving yourself enough to chase your own goals with create and...

how many things in our life seem impossible and then we do it. the possibility is you. you are the common denominator other people are not. in a world where everything is possible what are you willing to sacrifice to get to your goal. yes, it may cause extreme discomfort.

you do not get it back. keep showing up for you and as you. show up as the best you possible and TAKE PICTURES!

not going to lie this pandemic...sucks. i do not have better words at this point. i am not on a coronacation. i am not pandemic prosperous. i am living in the suck. i want to be more for all of you but i am not. as a bright spot...i do enjoy all the social distancing. i shall deem myself a social distance expert having had this title before it was cool. it may be the only good thing to come of all...

there is a pretty big chance that your story will look different. be ok with that. be proud of that. keep going until you write the story you want to write. it is good to challenge the status quo. it is good to have a life you actually want to live.

seriously. think about how every situation is building you for what is meant for your life. your story is just that. yours. how you react to situations is what leads you down the path of heroism. you get to chose.

you were made for more. stop showing up for anything short of what you want. i get it. the world will call for you to settle the world generally calls for less and you can write it different. you call the shots in your life. and i get it. i too was showing up for less. and we can write a different ending.

we are keeping things light today. hopefully you enjoy a little humor and poor noise quality. i have been working some overtime lately and haven't had time with my family so here is how i chose to spend my morning since they were up anyways. enjoy the first death of a dream podcast interview with my two kids.

in this time it is ok to struggle. it is ok to admit fault. it is ok to be in low. come back up give yourself space and time. ask for help if you need it. i know it is hard right now. you don't have to be fearless right now. find space and ask for help.

the world is changing every single second these days. i have seen some amazing examples of grace and love. look for the helpers they are everywhere. the people running into the fire to figure this out. also acknowledging that not everyone wants to run into the fire and that is ok. find space and grant grace because we do not know. take care of the things in your control today and be sure to watch...

you owe it to yourself to show up how you want in this life. pick something that you want to grow in during this downtime and show up there. learn everything you can. stop only showing up for the game of no accountability for your life and what has happened. you can choose. you can choose to show up and move past the things that "held" you back. show up bigger. show up with the fierceness you dese...

i know, trust me. i wanted to just post the photo. i wanted to just do the workout and find followers based on thier belief that i was just better. i wanted everyone to love me because of all of these things but this wasn't really me. this was a part of who i was but not the whole picture. the real stuff. the starting over and chasing new stuff that is who i really am.

no matter what that call is. i am requesting that you show up great for your life. promote yourself into the vibe you want to feel. stop pushing your focus on others and look inward. you are the best answer there will ever be. seriously no one else could or would ever have what you have and that is awesome! if you do not promote yourself no one else will. practice grounding yourself in greatness.

i always thought those low moments were the ones to hide. the ones that broke you and did not build you. but now i realize those moments are what make us. instead of covering them up i talk about them EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. why? because those are building you as the person you were meant to be. you can avoid them or include them. including them means you are going to show up every day for the hard. t...

reckoning = the action or process of calculating or estimating something. that is where we are. no doubt in my mind. women all over the world are starting to realize we are the answer and starting to deal with the voices of inadequacy that are holding us back. calculating their next move. if all we have to do is shut down this voice to reach our dreams our gray-haired self is going to be livid tha...

this is the thing. for the most part, i am terrible at hiding my reactions to situations (RBF's in the house shout out). you will instantly know if i am into any situation or not because it is likely written on my forehead wrinkle. its a thing. what i did not realize before today was that i have all kinds of feelings and i am really good as covering them up to the point where i explode six months...

we all have those moments. yes even you karen. where we feel lost and confused and like the entire world is caving in. been there and in those moments like maybe you freaked out and punched a wall or knocked a child's toy violently into the wall (seems oddly specific) anyways what you reacted to maybe wasn't the real issue. because my moment like this was deeply ingrained in this journey. in this...

so i had to cus in the title. it was neccessary. how are we showing up for ourselves. seriously. what is the head space you are up against because that is holding all of us back. we have to start shutting that voice down like we would a hater...GIRL BYE. For more the death of a dream head over to www.nussinc.com.

you can hold out. patience is the act of adults. not everything is going to have the immediate payoff we are looking for and you can keep showing up. YOU CAN!!

keep going until you get what you need. what is trending may not serve you but that does not mean you stop. embrace that you are different and that you have needs that may not fit what everyone else needs and that is ok. we are built to break a mold. life is not one size fits all. Check out more the death of a dream at www.nussinc.com

we have all been there, right? teams get headed in all kinds of directions. i believe the intentionality we put behind how we talk about things is what takes teams from good to GREAT. Check out more on the death of a dream and for opportunities to work one on one with the host, be a guest on the podcast or be featured check out: www.nussinc.com