The Crown And Canvas Podcast

What happens when success stops feeling like freedom… and starts feeling like obligation? In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks , we unpack “The Black Debt” the unspoken emotional and financial pressure placed on successful Black children who grow up to become the primary provider for their families. From first generation college graduates to athletes, entrepreneurs, and creators, we’re talking...

Subscribe to our Patreon for early access and exclusive content:  patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork What happens when love turns into labor and sacrifice turns into expectation? In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks we unpack The Caregiver’s Debt and the complicated reality of balancing sacrifice romance and identity when one partner becomes a full time caregiver. We explore what it means to...

Subscribe to our Patreon for early access and exclusive content:  patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork In this episode we unpack the growing trend of dating someone until you hate them and why resentment has become a socially acceptable exit strategy in modern relationships. We talk about the pressure to stay and work on it the need for a justified breakup and how boredom emotional neglect and quie...

Subscribe to our Patreon for early access and exclusive content Patreon link patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork Everyone suddenly became an expert on Desmond and Kristy’s marriage. In this episode we break down the fallout and use it as a case study to examine the internet’s obsession with blueprint relationships and think piece culture. We talk about why this breakup hit so hard why people feel...

In this episode of The Fupas And Flapjacks Podcast, Tré and Jay break down Kai Cenat’s recent breakup and offer real advice from men who’ve been through it. We dive into the details of his relationship fallout and share what we wish we’d known in our early 20s when navigating our own worst heartbreaks. As guys in our 30s, we give Kai (and anyone going through it) practical guidance on how to lock...

In this episode we are joined by Nat (@Nat_Torious) as we revisit our viral spouse versus child debate and get Nat’s honest reaction before diving into the main conversation. We break down the nonsense around the women can’t handle male baddies narrative and talk about why men keep trying to imitate women instead of embracing who they truly are. Confidence authenticity and self awareness matter mo...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork🎉 HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🎉Start 2026 right with the most inspiring episode yet! Jay and Tre reflect on their incredible journey of personal growth, financial success, and mindset transformation over the past 12 months. This isn’t just another New Year’s resolution episode - this is REAL TALK about the changes tha...

First of all Merry Christmas. We hope you are enjoying your holiday and thank you for starting it with us. Sit back relax and enjoy this episode. In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks we dive into a serious and necessary conversation about false allegations against men following the discussion surrounding Tylil. We talk about why false accusations are damaging harmful and evil and how they hurt...

What does it look like when a good man is done not loud not cheating not toxic just quietly checked out? In this episode of Fupas & Flapjacks we have a raw and uncomfortable conversation about when good men quit in relationships. We break down the subtle signs a man is emotionally exhausted disconnected and mentally preparing to walk away often long before the breakup actually happens. Jay and...

We kick things off with some chaos (as usual) — joking about how Jay is now a “new criminal” after getting arrested over a suspended license he didn’t even know existed. Don’t worry… he’s out, he’s free, and he’s still talking his talk. 😭🔥 Once the clownery settles, we dive into a real conversation about male-centerness and woman-centerness in friendships and relationships — and how gender expec...

We’re back with another chaotic, hilarious, and surprisingly deep episode of Fupas & Flapjacks — and today we’re diving into the viral article asking the question: “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing?” From social media toxicity to unrealistic dating standards, we break down why some people treat relationships like a PR statement, why everyone thinks they’re “too cool” for love, and how the in...

We’re back from our little hiatus — and we’re coming in HOT. Love Island dominated the summer and now the winter drama is already giving what it needs to give. In this episode, we break down why some friendships within our own community still fail to love and respect us, inspired by the recent Huda and Olandria situation (and yes, we are very pro-Olandria here). We talk colorism, selective loyalty...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork 🔥 COMEDY GOLD EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 Jay and Tre dive headfirst into the world of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) with their signature blend of curiosity, confusion, and COUNTLESS jokes! From imagining themselves in poly relationships to creating the most ridiculous scenarios possible, this episode will have y...

We Are Back. From Vacation.. Happy Belated Birthday to Tre and Jay Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork 🔥 IMPORTANT CONVERSATION ON FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 In this thought-provoking episode, Jay and Tre tackle one of the most complex topics in modern Black identity: navigating the differences and similarities within the Black diaspora. From American descendants of sl...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork 🔥 IMPORTANT EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 In this vulnerable and educational episode, Jay and Tre get brutally honest about sexual health, sharing their own past scares and the hard lessons they've learned about being careless with their sexual wellness. This isn't just entertainment—it's a life-saving conversatio...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥We've ALL been tempted to text that ex at 2AM, but why is "spinning the block" so irresistible even when we KNOW it's a bad idea? In this deeply honest episode, Jay and Tre break down the psychology behind returning to past relationships and share their own hard-learned lessons about re...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork 🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 Dating apps promised to make finding love easier, but have they actually made it MORE exhausting? In this hilarious and all-too-relatable episode, Jay and Tre share their wildest dating app experiences, including the AWKWARD time they discovered they had matched with THE SAME WOMAN! T...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork 🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 Starting with a heartfelt birthday shoutout to Jay's son Nazareth turning 6 (#BlackDads), we dive deep into one of today's most CONTROVERSIAL topics: Why are successful men so afraid to settle down? Using Shannon Sharpe's current headline-making situation as a prime example, we break...

Subscribe to our Patreon page: patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥We start breaking down the ESSENTIAL skills of being a top-tier wingman/wingwoman, but things quickly go OFF THE RAILS when Tre exposes Jay's continued LIES about not being a ladies man! And just when you think it couldn't get juicier—Jay's celebrity crush gets REVEALED to t...

Subscribe to our Patreon:patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 It's time to get REAL about those subtle "icks" that evolve into relationship-destroying red flags! In this no-filter episode, we break down the dating, friendship, AND business icks that we've all experienced but rarely talk about. But that's not all—Jay finally makes a MAJOR statement about...

Subscribe to the "Derosier Media Network" Patreon for EXCLUSIVE uncensored content: https://www.patreon.com/JayDerosierMediaNetwork?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator 🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 Things get WILD as Jay and Tre take the infamous Purity Test, answering 100 revealing questions about their past that they've NEVER shared before! From shocking sexual conf...

🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 In this powerful conversation, we're joined by the incredible Oliver Twixt (@heisolivertwixt) for a no-holds-barred discussion about identity, community, and finding your authentic voice! Oliver opens up about: His journey growing up in the church and reconciling faith with identity Raw struggles and triumphs as a Black gay man in today's society Beh...

🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥For the FIRST TIME EVER, our mysterious "voice in the sky" Podcast Doctor Phil steps in front of the camera! In this special episode, we're getting REAL about those "friends" who might actually be holding you back! In this must-watch episode, we break down:The 5 shocking signs your friend is actually toxic (number 4 will surprise you)Podcast Doctor Ph...

**NEED TAX ADVICE OR TAX HELP? Text "TAX" to 407-258-1119 to connect with Steph!*** 🔥 BRAND NEW EPISODE OF FUPAS AND FLAPJACKS! 🔥 Today we're joined by the incredible @StephSquaredTV as they pull back the curtain on balancing marriage while building their viral social media empire! Steph and Stephanie break down: ​ The exact strategy they used to develop their unique personal brand ​ How they na...

The Fupas & Flapjacks Podcast gets candid as Jay Derosier & Tre Hale face off in an entertaining game of "This or That" focused on dating and character preferences. In this lively episode, the guys make tough choices that reveal surprising insights about what they truly value in relationships. In this episode, we explore:Deal-breakers vs. negotiables in potential partnersPhysical attractio...