The Connected Life

This week we're having an unscheduled interruption. Since the world is already topsy-turvy why not? Not to fret though, next week you'll get part two of our two-part episode, Shattering the Secrets that Shame Us. Hope is one of the most valuable commodities necessary to find life in the midst of watching everything crumble to pieces. We are at a moment in history where we need a fresh reminder of...

Secrets have a way of trapping us in pain. However, often times we believe that it's more painful to share our experiences, than having to to get real and honest about them. Unfortunately, this only leads to a life of isolation, separated from love. In part two of this two-part episode, Justin's friend, Jeremy, shares the final pieces of his lowest point before finding life altering freedom throug...

We all have our secrets. Behind those secrets, no matter how big or small, lurks the voice of shaming accusation. The singular goal of this voice is to suffocate our humanity until the essence of a life fully lived is no more. Surviving a childhood of normalized abuse is often just that, survival. In this riveting two part episode, Justin sits down and chats with his friend, Jeremy, to talk about...

For many of us, the world has gone topsy turvy. Fear and panic rule the news and social media. Uncertainty about jobs and future plans are all up in the air. Kids are out of school and ruining our routines. Toilet paper shortages are leaving many of us having to shower multiple times a day! Yeah it's a wild time and we're living through a historic moment. But fear not! Abi and Justin are on the sc...

All of us go through seasons of life where we feel like we got knocked down, and some times knocked out. Many times we can feel as though we lost our fight along the way. But what if we can get that fight back? In this final episode of this four part series Abi and Justin talk about their struggles with faith through their suffering, how they reconciled a good God in a broken world, and how they f...

Suffering and sadness are an unavoidable part of the human experience. The gift of suffering is that it illuminates humanity in a unique and special way. Although no one can truly understand the full suffering of another, or the impact of that suffering, they can accept our journey, stand with us, and learn to hold space for our process. In part three of this series we dive into Justin's perspecti...

We have two options when we go through hard things; see the pain as an invitation into wholeness, or get stuck in hopelessness, fear, and heart ache. For part two of this four part series, Justin and Abi discuss the revelations Abi had through the last year of sickness. Abi's health issues forced her into a world of deeper vulnerability, and gave space for grief to surface that produced healing in...

We've all gone through valleys of despair or suffered painful seasons. Those of us who choose to ignore it and push forward are often praised for being strong. Unfortunately, ignored pain, buried deep within, eventually finds a way of erupting until we pay attention and get the necessary healing. In this tremendously vulnerable series, Abi and Justin invite you to be part of a very exposing piece...

Man's best friend is supposedly a dog, but what if it could be another human being? Humanity gets a bum wrap because often times we don't understand ourselves, others, or the friendship process. Many of us have had bad experiences with friendships, leaving us jaded and shut down. But what if it didn't have to be that way? In this episode, Justin is booted to the curb as Abi and her best friend, Pi...

In-Laws, whether we love 'em, hate 'em, or fall somewhere in between, as long as we're married, they're here to stay. We can all become immune to our own family's deficiencies. Sometimes it takes an outsider to notice the crazy that we spent our entire lives thinking was "normal". Join Just and Abi as they pull from their own personal histories of dealing with each others dysfunctional family syst...

Do you want to get married? Get ready to date! But believe it or not, the goal of dating isn't marriage, it's for us to become who we were made to be and learn how to treat humans the best we can. In part two of this two part episode Abi and Justin are joined again by their good friend Megan as she shares candidly about overcoming rejection in the dating world, how she learned the art of pacing, a...

The days of arranged marriage and courtship are a thing of the past. If you want to get married in todays world you have to date. With the age of the internet and phone apps, dating has progressively evolved. With that evolution has come a myriad of complications in an area of relational experiences that is already difficult and scary for many people. In this two-part exploration of online dating,...

In order to truly feel alive and happy, friendships are a vital part of life. Unfortunately, there's not many "how to" guides on friendship. We definitely know when we don't feel like someone is being a good friend, but do we know what it is to BE a good friend? In this episode Abi and Justin break down fundamental keys to becoming a great friend. They share vital ways to love others and help to e...

In a world saturated with self-help books, finding strategy on how to cast vision for your dreams is amply easy. And that's a good thing, because without vision our life gradually wastes away. Often times, however, vision casting is around external achievements; generating wealth, getting married, owning a home, traveling the world, or having an experience. In this episode Justin and Abi talk abou...

We all want to feel connected to the world around us. The desire for connection is encoded into the fabric of human existence. We can deny that we have this desire to ourselves, and to everyone else, but that won't make the fundamental design disappear, so why not embrace it? In this episode Abi and Justin discuss fundamental barriers that get in the way of connection, how to tear them down, and w...

Every year is marked by the unexpected. Some years are filled with the celebration of babies, marriages, adventures, and opportunities we've never dreamed of. Some years are filled with   sickness, tragedy, and loss that we couldn't plan for. It's easy to think back on the year and only see the immense victories or the devastatingly low points. For most of us, however, pain is the loudest part of...

We've said it before and we'll say it again, holidays can be messy! It's easy to get disconnected, frustrated, and overwhelmed during the holidays. This time of year stirs up all kinds of emotions. Even the healthiest and happiest of us are subject to being around someone during the holidays that isn't healthy or happy. That's why becoming loving and powerful is a vital key to having a successful...

Leadership is messy! For both those leading and those following. It can be a rough ride on each side of the coin and we've all had our fair share of aches, pains, and problems no matter which side you land on. In part two, of this two-part episode, Justin and Abi discuss some things that leaders should definitely NOT do, as well as things we should not be expecting our leaders to be doing for us....

We've all had people with authority and influence over our lives, whether it's bosses, pastors, coaches, or leaders in general. As children we learn that we can either submit or rebel to this authority. Unfortunately, this two-mode response system often carries over into adulthood. If we're hurt by, or disagree with the leaders in our world, we respond with judgment and condescension. On the flip...

Tis the season for generosity! Generosity is contagious and in any book, or teaching, on success and wealth, generosity is foundational and fundamental. Generosity comes in many different forms far beyond financial. In order to truly "feel wealthy," we have to learn how to express generosity. Understanding multiple expressions helps us find ways of doing just that. Join Justin and Abi as they shar...

The holidays can be filled with all kinds of emotions and unexpected experiences. For some, the holidays are full of fond memories, for others, they're a time we want to forget all together. The day we call Thanksgiving is meant to be a reminder of what we're thankful for. For many of us, we've forgotten that it's more than a tradition, and we're in necessary need of making it a lifestyle. Join Ab...

Breakups and betrayals can be brutal! As humans we've all had these experiences, whether it's with our parents, siblings, extended family, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse. The pain is real clear, but the process of healing and moving forward isn't always that clear. In this episode, Abi and Justin dive in to the affects of the betrayals and breakups in their own lives and lay out a road...

In part one of this two part episode, Justin and Abi took an honest look at the hurdles Joey and Kelley Feste faced in their formative years of marriage. Here, in part two, we jump back in where we left off as Joey and Kelley dive into their sex life and share the details of what makes it work. After 32 years, Joey doesn't need viagra and Kelley wants sex more than ever before! Things are about to...

We all have varying experiences of marriage. For many of us, we didn't have the best examples growing up. For others, marriage looked like land of the happy people where nothing was ever wrong. No matter what side of the pendulum you're on, one thing is for certain, today's society is progressively reluctant to walk down the aisle and say, "I do." In this two part episode Justin and Abi are joined...

We've all been through tough seasons of life that felt like they would never end. Many of us are terrified we'll get stuck, or even worse, that the best seasons will end as quickly as they started. We can find ourselves getting bitter, depressed, or burnt out if we don't have the tools to identify which season we're in. The good news is that there is a beginning and an end to every season. In this...