The Chronicles of Choices: OPOJU Yes or No

Welcome to the end of 2025! What a year! But in all things we should be grateful . Grateful for our families, health, career, friends, mentors, mentees just to mention a few. Kindly look back, assess the year and find at least something to be grateful for. Remember it could have been worse. I personally thank you for your support this year 2025. Thank you for your feedbacks, thank you for sharing...

In this episode, I explore the true meaning of resilience—what it looks like in everyday life, why it matters, and how we can cultivate it in the face of setbacks. Resilience isn’t about avoiding challenges; it’s about learning to adapt, grow, and rise stronger each time life knocks us down. You’ll discover: What resilience really means beyond just “toughing it out.” Practical strategies to streng...

This episode speaks to the importance of truthfulness nd honesty, relationship between honesty and mental wellbeing, the need for honesty in relationship building whether its personal, romantic, professional or social relationship. I mentioned how to nurture honesty in our children and young adult, honesty as a cornerstone of ethical behaviors and the role of honesty and truthfulness in giving fee...

Kindness is a universal language. Kindness is the ability to treat others and oneself with compassion, empathy and respect . There are some core qualities of kindness and few examples of what kindness feels like that is detailed in this episode. Your input and comments are welcome. Just be kind!

Your chosen core values , speaks to how you identify your core values, the impact of your core values on others and personal reflection on how your core values shape your live and determine how others interact and build relationship with you. This is a life-long process.

This episode speaks to how we can build our X-Factor relationships such as our blended family . The complexity of blended family and how to embrace the differences within the blended family, building expectations and managing them approprately. Enjoy this tea and listen moment Subscribe , Share and Like.  Also join my mailing list.https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/968385/134922276697016231/sh...

This episode, "The Unchosen Relative"; uncles, aunties, etc. speaks to how we can embrace our extended family by overlooking their imperfection so that we can love them regardless. Enjoy this tea and listen moment . Subscribe , share and Like. Also join my mailing: list.https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/968385/134922276697016231/share Thank you Dr. Tee

The Unchosen Sibling episode speaks to how we can navigate sibling relationships, personal reflection on sibling dynamics, the role of parents in sibling relationships and how to nurture sibling bonds. Enjoy this tea and listen moment . Subscribe , share and Like. Also join my mailing list.https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/968385/134922276697016231/share Thank you Dr. Tee

This Episode talks about our unchosen parents . The choices we make when it comes to how we relate with them and how to embrace them regardless of our expectations and how to build good relationship with our unchosen parent,

This episode speaks to the choices we make in the process of building expectations and managing outcomes when it comes to our unchosen children.

As an unchosen family member, meaning, a member of a blood line family that you did not choose to belong such as grandparents, parents and children, the power and the ability to stay connected by embracing your family, appreciating your family, and loving them regardless is within you . Therefore, use it. 

Welcome to the chronicles of choices: Opoju Yes and No This podcast speaks to our decision-making process that leads to the choices we make. It’s all about what we relinquish for what we have and the impact of such choices. It also touches the choices others make on our behalf and the choices we make on behalf of others. Whether we make these choices, others make these choices for us or we make th...