The Christian Bachelorette

Episode 13: Online Dating: It Can Work (Finding a Needle in a Haystack) | The Christian BacheloretteIn Episode 13 of The Christian Bachelorette, host Jayme shares how online dating can work after enduring heartbreak from "guy number 50" and taking time to heal and reset. She explains that in order to get married, you have to date, even when you feel tired and discouraged, and describes h...

Episode 12: Heartbreak, Second Chances, and Trusting That Sinking Feeling | The Christian BacheloretteIn Episode 12 of The Christian Bachelorette, host Jayme talks about heartbreak and the damage that comes from “whiplash” in relationships, emphasizing the importance of seeking support from God and others. She shares how she gave “guy number 50” a second chance after he left her at the airport, on...

Whiplash: When Your “Suddenly” Disappears | The Christian Bachelorette (Ep. 11)Jayme, host of The Christian Bachelorette, shares how her “suddenly” relationship with dating guy number 50—full of feeling adored and making detailed plans to finally meet—ended abruptly when he got cold feet right as she was headed to the airport, leaving her confused, broken, and sad. She parallels this emotional whi...

In Episode 10 of The Christian Bachelorette, host Jayme follows up on last week’s “quiet season” by sharing how God can move “suddenly” in dating. Around New Year’s Eve 2023 into 2024, after being set up on an amazing date and then quickly seeing God “eliminate” that connection through her “illuminate, eliminate” prayer, Jayme experiences one dating opportunity after another, turning her quiet sea...

In Episode 9 of Christian Bachelorette, host Jayme opens up about the “quiet season” after nearly a year of dating—40 first dates—and realizing that the hardest part wasn’t indecision, but having no one to even be indecisive about. After taking time to heal, grieve, and reset, she finds no aligned matches on the apps, no new options at church, and no one for friends to set her up with, leaving her...

Christian Bachelorette – Episode 8: Illuminate or Eliminate (The 90-Day Protection Prayer)In Episode 8 of The Christian Bachelorette, host Jayme shares how she navigated dating three strong options after a season of ghosting by praying, “God, would you illuminate or would you eliminate?” With guy #1, she sensed something off about money, prayed, and received a voice memo the next day confirming he...

Christian Bachelorette – Episode 7: Ghosting (Become a Ghostbuster)In Episode 7 of Christian Bachelorette, host Jamie defines ghosting as disappearing and not following through, then shares a recurring “match, date, ghost” pattern she experienced after great first dates and big compliments—only to never hear back. Challenged by the Heart of Dating idea to “leave every person better off,” she decid...

Christian Bachelorette – Episode 6: Perseverance (Get Back in the Boat)In this episode of Christian Bachelorette, host Jamie shares a message on perseverance and how it connects to rejection. After dating 15 men and putting all her hope in “Mr. Peter Pan,” she ends up with no one on the roster three months later and feels confused, discouraged, and even mad at the Lord. She relates her season to L...

Christian Bachelorette – Episode 5: Rejection (God as Your Bodyguard) In Episode 5 of Christian Bachelorette , host Jayme Vainer opens up about one of her deepest core wounds: rejection . For years, the fear of rejecting others—and being rejected herself—kept her from dating multiple people. But when she felt God prompting her to step into dating differently, she discovered something surprising: r...

Episode 4: Peter Pan — Romance Without ResponsibilityIn Episode 4 of Christian Bachelorette, host Jayme tackles the “Peter Pan” type—someone who deeply struggles with responsibility, commitment, and decision-making—and explains why Peter Pans and anxious attachment often attract each other. Jayme shares from her own dating journey how Peter Pans can offer romance but not responsibility, and how sh...

In Episode 3 of Christian Bachelorette , Jayme shares how dating multiple people unexpectedly triggered her anxious attachment , revealing she wasn’t as healed as she thought. She opens up about: Craving attention from men who gave her very little Abandoning herself through performing, pleasing, and proving Slipping into a masculine posture — offering to pay for dinners and trying to “make it happ...

Christian Bachelorette Ep. 2 – Dating Multiple People: Integrity, Healing, and Keeping Hope AliveWelcome back to episode two of Christian Bachelorette, hosted by Jayme Vainer. In this episode, Jayme shares how she came to embrace dating multiple people after years of doing things her way—an approach that led to repeated heartbreak. As someone who feared rejection and struggled with people-pleasing...

Christian Bachelorette Ep. 1 – The Unexpected Journey: Keeping Hope Alive in Dating Welcome to episode one of Christian Bachelorette , hosted by Jayme Vainer (@thechristianbachelorette). In this faith-filled premiere, Jayme introduces the heart behind the podcast and shares her unexpected dating journey—told for God’s glory, with honesty, hope, and a little humor. She opens with Psalm 37:7 (Passio...

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