The Business of Pleasure

Sometimes the hardest relationship to rebuild… is the one you have with yourself. In this heartfelt episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash sits down with Pegasus for an honest conversation about identity, heartbreak, healing, and what it really means to come home to yourself after life changes you. Together, they explore how endings often become invitations for growth, why the right rel...

🎙️ Nasty Work Gets Me Off! | Episode 62 Featuring Ericka Hart This Masturbation May Intersecting with the Pride of June 🏳️‍🌈 we’re celebrating all the things that get us off… and for Ericka Hart, pleasure is far bigger than what happens in the bedroom. In Episode 62 of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash sits down with acclaimed sex educator, author, activist, and pleasure advocate Ericka Hart...

What really gets people off once a relationship evolves? In this deeply honest and surprisingly funny episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash and Chris sit down to unpack the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of masturbation, intimacy, and long-term connection. This conversation goes far beyond “self pleasure.” Chris opens up about the first time he discovered masturbation as...

Featuring Chris aka @big_black_supervillain What really gets people off once a relationship evolves? In this deeply honest and surprisingly funny episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash and Chris sit down to unpack the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of masturbation, intimacy, and long-term connection. This conversation goes far beyond “self pleasure.” Chris opens up about t...

POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off. Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically. In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway...

POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off. Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically. In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway...

For the first time ever, we’re bringing you a LIVE recording from the Bedroom Kandi 2023 Social Affair… hosted by Your Sexologist Bestie Kash. This wasn’t just an event… it was an experience. With hundreds in attendance, the Social Affair brought together community, conversation, and connection around pleasure, intimacy, and empowerment. Guests had the opportunity to explore Bedroom Kandi products...

In the continuation of this episode, Kash sits down with two BK consultants Jchemela Holmes IBCLC and Dr. Perquida Payne for a real conversation about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, through both professional expertise and lived experience. From navigating a rare pregnancy experience with superfetation, to laboring during COVID, to advocating for her body and her choices, Kash shares what it rea...

In this Women’s History Month episode, Kash sits down with two BK consultants Jchemela Holmes IBCLC and Dr. Perquida Payne for a real conversation about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, through both professional expertise and lived experience. From navigating a rare pregnancy experience with superfetation, to laboring during COVID, to advocating for her body and her choices, Kash shares what it r...

All episodes featured are linked below. In this Women’s History Month special, The Business of Pleasure Podcast highlights powerful moments from past conversations with women across the pleasure, wellness, and entrepreneurship space. This episode brings together founders, educators, clinical professionals, influencers, and top-performing leaders from the Bedroom Kandi consultant field who are help...

Featuring Esmerlin “Esmy V” Valdez As we step into Women’s History Month, this episode of Business of Pleasure is a celebration of feminine power, presence, and unapologetic authenticity. Esmerlin “Esmy V” Valdez joins me for a deeply layered conversation about what it means to be a woman who takes up space boldly. With her bright personality, magnetic energy, and evolving sense of self, Esmy open...

As we close out Black History Month, we shine a necessary spotlight on a living legend whose name deserves to be spoken with the same weight as the breakthroughs he helped create. Dr. Arthur Burnett is a world-renowned urologist whose groundbreaking research around nitric oxide pathways helped lay the scientific foundation for medications like Viagra and Cialis. His work changed the landscape of m...

Part 2 is where Ladies’ Night officially turns into a pleasure party. What starts as a Galentine’s-style hangout with Tai, Yo-Yo, and MJ naturally flows into playful, honest conversations about pleasure, curiosity, confidence, and connection… exactly how it happens when women feel safe to be themselves. We move from bathroom to bedroom energy, breaking down foreplay, self-love, partner play, and i...

This episode was meant to be a conversation… but just like a real girls’ night, it turned into laughter, honesty, vulnerability, and deep connection. In this Galentine’s Day special, @YourSexologistBestie sat down with Yo-Yo, MJ, and Tai for an intimate, no-pressure, all-love conversation about womanhood, identity, self-expression, pleasure, and what it looks like to truly know yourself. What star...

In Part 2 of The Gift of Presence, Kash and Chris move from conversation into recalibration. This episode goes deeper into how everyday life, work stress, parenting, fatigue, and the pressures of adulting can quietly shift how couples show up for each other. What starts as a reflection becomes a moment of mutual awareness. Kash names how her physical touch had unintentionally reduced. Chris acknow...

Featuring Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) & Chris (@Big_Black_Supervillain) (@TheSoftAndTheStrong) In The Gift Of Presence, Kash and Chris open a two-part conversation centered on what it truly means to show up for yourself and your partner. Part 1 focuses on emotional safety, intentional care, and the quiet power of presence as the foundation for intimacy, confidence, and connection. This episode ex...

In Part 2 of our Men’s Health Month feature, @_WolfTaylor and @YourSexologistBestie dive further into the intersections of pleasure, sex, religion, and the taboos that shape how men learn to show up in intimacy. The conversation gets honest, insightful, and unexpectedly hilarious when Kash surprises Wolf with a curated set of Bedroom Kandi essentials… and his reactions are priceless. Featured item...

Part 1 took us from the bathroom to the edge of the bedroom… but Part 2? We are diving straight into the bedroom just in time for the launch of Bedroom Kandi’s 12 Days of Christmas celebration. For the next 12 days, a new item drops at 30 percent off every single day and stays on sale until the end of the 12th day. If you want to understand how to use these goodies, what they feel like, and why th...

Part 1 of our Black and Gold Week Kickoff takes us from the bathroom straight into the bedroom as we celebrate 25 percent off all regular priced Bedroom Kandi products. With @yeesssterday and @mrsbellamy.callmecoach, we hosted a full Black and Gold pleasure party packed with wellness, grooming and intimacy gems. Bathroom Essentials Where the glow-up begins: • MANIFEST Foaming Face Wash and MANIFES...

As we step into Men’s Health Month, Wolf Taylor brings a grounded, honest voice to a conversation men rarely get space to have. Wolf, creator of the Halfway Up Podcast, talks about growing up with a strong family and faith foundation while also realizing in adulthood that some tools he needed simply were not passed down. Not out of neglect, but because every generation teaches from what they knew....

PART TWO! Watch the second part of our episode where @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈 From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restr...

This Kinktober, @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈 From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restraint help the body let go of what the...

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, reproductive trauma, and child loss. In this heartfelt and healing episode of The Business of Pleasure, your sexologist bestie Kash sits down with Dannie of Diamond Daddy— jewelry designer, diamond specialist, and survivor — for an intimate conversation on love, loss, and the journey to rediscovery after abuse. Both women...

Touch is more than physical… it’s connection, communication, and one of the most powerful love languages we have. 💆🏽‍♀️💋 In this Pro Touch Month kickoff episode of the Business of Pleasure Podcast, @YourSexologistBestie sits down with Mama Dee — sensual healer, erotic masseuse, and founder of @d.vine.touch — to explore the sacred and sensual side of touch. Together they dive into the emotional,...

As we close out Self-Care September and Mental Health Awareness Month, we sit down with NY Times Best-Selling Author, media personality, and sex-positive pioneer Mandii B (aka @fullcourtpumps) — host of Whoreible Decisions, Decisions, Decisions, Selective Ignorance, and more — for a deeply honest, liberating conversation about breaking free from boxes, owning your voice, and the climb that made it...