The Break Up Break Down

The Break Up Break Down

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends.  We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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The Break Up Break Down

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Latest episode

Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

S6: Break Down Bonus: He joined the show to get back at his ex?! w/ Coworker Jackson 15.08.2024

LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZc...

S6 Ep7: When both exes showed up at his job and confronted him.... - S6E7 13.08.2024

You know what they say...those that break up together...show up at their mutual exes' job and confront him together. Right? This Bonnie & Clyde duo plotted to make a scene after finding out they were being played and of course nothing goes to plan. Let's get the details when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Safe Havens in Boston: http://www.interfaith...

Break Down Bonus: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker 08.08.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information...

When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5Replay 06.08.2024

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - This episode originally aired in Season 5 - We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce! - This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org...

S6: Break Down Bonus: She used an oatmeal bath to try and cure her STD?!?! 01.08.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - S1E2: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd037 - S1E9: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd02f - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break...

S6 Ep6: When his google search history blew his cover.... - S6E6 30.07.2024

If you've decided to open up your bf's phone, you already know something is up....but what exactly? When a mutual friend sends you sus screenshots from an app you never thought you'd see your man on, you decide to do some digging and end up finding information that could change your life entirely. We got all the deets when we broke down this week's break up! - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT...

S6: Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris 25.07.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information...

S6 Ep5: When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5 23.07.2024

No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonu...

S6: Break Down Bonus: How do I get closure after a relationship w/ Weezie Haley, MS 18.07.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Weezie Haley, MS: https://amyrobbinscounseling.com/weezie-haley/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPy...

S6 Ep4: When LinkedIn Gave Him Closure on the Break Up Years Later.... - S6E4 16.07.2024

Our very first male interview returns for an update on answers he found on why his relationship ended. In season 2 episode 16, he was grappling for a reason why his relationship of 4 years abruptly came to an end. Two years later, he says he may have found the reason why she left him all those years ago. - Catch up on his original episode, S2E16: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/epi...

S6: Break Down Bonus: Is it intuition or my anxiety? 11.07.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - 'When she was catfished for 8 years' live episode for purchase: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedba...

S6 Ep3: When he took off after eight years.... - S6E3 09.07.2024

After eight years, the least your boyfriend can do it break up with you properly. So why did this guy ditch his lady at a gas station for another woman seemingly out of nowhere? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - This Week We're Raising Awareness for WEAVE in Sacramento: https://www.weaveinc.org/who-...

S6: Break Down Bonus: Should you bend your relationship "wants" for the right person? w/ ExCoworker Justin 04.07.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information...

S6 Ep2: When the betrayal was revealed after the divorce.... - S6E2 02.07.2024

If your friends are telling you to hire a PI to look into your husband, chances are he's doing something shady. So why did this marriage officially end over a disagreement over having kids and not...something else? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Genesis Women's Shelter in Dallas: https://www.genesisshelter.org/ - Submit a break up st...

S6: Break Down Bonus: Self-Esteem, Power Dynamics, "Daddy Issues", and First Loves w/ Tricia Schwartz LMHC 01.07.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information...

S6 Ep1: When she said he cheated on her w/ his sister.... - S6E1 25.06.2024

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - When you feel like your partner is cheating on you, you usually have an idea as to who that person is, so how do you not feel crazy when you think they're stepping out on you...with their sibling? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - This Week We're Raising Awareness for...

When she was catfished for 8 years.... - Live Event Trailer 18.06.2024

'When she was catfished for 8 years' live episode for purchase: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedba...

S4: Break Down Bonus: The Struggles being LGBTQ+ in the Christian Community w/ The Christian Closet 13.06.2024

Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedba...

S4 Ep11: When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4Replay 11.06.2024

The BUBD Live Podcast Recording release has been postponed- will be available June 18th, 2024 - This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the...

Break Down Bonus: How to identify intimate partner violence in relationships w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW 06.06.2024

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship. - Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW...

When he had her arrested.... - S3Replay 04.06.2024

[SCROLL FOR CW]  - This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023. - This week we're bringing awareness to Bridges Domestic Violence Center near Nashville, TN: https://www.bridgesdvc.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbr...

S5 Ep20: When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale 28.05.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:05): Submission...

S5: Break Down Bonus: Is this sugar baby thing legit?! w/ ExCoworker Justin 23.05.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information...

When she got a ransom note from her 'sugar daddy'.... - S5E19 21.05.2024

Your sugar daddy of 3ish months goes MIA right before your big vacation...when all of a sudden you get a ransom note from his # asking for 500k. Obviously a scam right?! This week's guest got way more than she bargained for when he finally came back into her life....and revealed the months long investigation he as a part of. What went down?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up....

S5: Break Down Bonus: Help- I feel like I'm my partner's mother!!!! w/ Dr. PsychMom 16.05.2024

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow Dr. Psych Mom!: https://www.drpsychmom.com/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted...

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