The Break Up Break Down
The Break Up Break Down
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.
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The Break Up Break Down
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Jul 7, 2026
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Episodes
When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5Replay 19.11.2024 49:39
On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling. - This week we're raising awar...
S6: Break Down Bonus: What I've learned about narcissism and serial cheating after doing this podcast for 3 years 14.11.2024 19:43
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZc...
S6 Ep17: When an amber alert led to her ex getting exposed.... - S6E17 12.11.2024 42:17
Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising...
S6: Break Down Bonus: Embracing the uncomfortable in dating & relationships w/ @thelibertyshultz 07.11.2024 28:46
Liberty Shultz, best known for documenting her 50 first dates on social media, joins Abby to talk about how to be more comfortable being uncomfortable in dating and relationships. - Liberty Shultz: https://www.instagram.com/thelibertyschultz/?hl=en - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Fol...
S6 Ep16: When she said her husband got her bestie pregnant.... - S6E16 05.11.2024 27:02
Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising...
S6: Break Down Bonus: How to communicate effectively w/ men ft. Kate Mansfield 31.10.2024 35:50
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to explain how men communicate differently than women do in relationships. - Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ -...
S6: Break Down Bonus: How to 'manifest' your person into your life w/ Nelly 31.10.2024 41:20
Nelly, the #1 Dating Coach for High-Value Women & Men joins Abby on the podcast to talk about manifesting your dream relationship...and even drops some personalized advice for her on how to land her next relationship. - Nelly: https://katemansfield.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://www.nellysudri.com/about - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W...
S6: Break Down Bonus: The test you need to avoid getting love bombed w/ Kate Mansfield 24.10.2024 19:19
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to tell you how you can tell if your new boo just really likes you....or if you're getting love bombed. - Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.in...
S6 Ep15: When she got pregnant, engaged, and broken up with in a matter of months.... - S6E15 22.10.2024 28:45
First comes love, then comes baby, then comes marriage...maybe? This week's interviewee says all three almost all happened within a few months. However, when tragedy strikes this budding family, things change for the worst. How did this all come to an end in less than one years time? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for YWCA in Nashville:...
S6: Break Down Bonus: How religious trauma shows up in relationships w/ Suzanne Goodwin 17.10.2024 21:36
Suzanne Goodwin, from Parkside Psychotherapy joins me on the podcast this week to talk about how your religious upbringing impacts how you view your romantic relationships - Suzanne's practice's contact info: Parksidepsychotherapy.com / 404-914-0279 - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - F...
S6 Ep14: When she said her ex got on the no-fly list.... - S6E14 15.10.2024 47:12
When you've been with the same person since you were teens, it's hard to notice when someone isn't the same person as when you met them. This week's interviewee said she was fighting to stay in a relationship, but couldn't ignore the red flags once the FBI got involved. We'll find out what happens when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for WINGS in Chicago: ht...
S2: Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships? 10.10.2024 16:14
Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story. - This episode originally aired in season 2 of the podcast - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms....
When she was driving the getaway car.... S2Replay 08.10.2024 34:50
This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3...
S6: Break Down Bonus: Healing from a long-term relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin 03.10.2024 21:40
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZc...
S6 Ep13: When coworkers broke up and literally couldn't avoid each other.... - S6E13 01.10.2024 39:31
Dating your coworker sounds like a good idea in theory, you know, if everything goes right. So when your coworker and BF of three years breaks up with you on a random Tuesday...keep in mind the worst case scenario: a post-break up work trip in a foreign country. We'll get the details when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Women's Resource Center in Atl...
S6: Break Down Bonus: When domestic violence isn't necessarily physical w/ Dr. Gail Patin 26.09.2024 24:30
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit...
S6 Ep12: When a WAG felt trapped in her marriage.... - S6E12 24.09.2024 33:11
If you've ever dreamed of becoming a WAG for a star MLB, NBA, NFL, NHL, etc.player...this ones for you. Behind this former WAG's picture perfect relationship was a life that was anything but. We'll find out how she got the courage to leave her ex when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Favorhouse in Pensacola, FL: https://www.favorhouse.org/ - LISTEN TO THE...
S6: Break Down Bonus: Why do I keep choosing the same type of partner if they're not good for me? w/ Rachel McLelland 19.09.2024 20:47
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Restorative Atlanta: https://www.restorativeatlanta.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breaku...
S6 Ep11: When her ex-husband started dating her friend.... - S6E11 17.09.2024 33:04
She and her ex husband split up before their wedding photos even got released...and now two years later she says they're friends...and he's dating someone she's close with! How did our interviewee from S3E7 end up there and how did she end up in another relationship worthy of a BUBD episode? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for The Spring...
S6: Break Down Bonus: Your relationship's impact on your kids w/ Marissa Mundy, LPC 12.09.2024 22:42
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Restorative Atlanta: https://www.restorativeatlanta.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breaku...
S6 Ep10: When she divorced him over his farts.... - S6E10 10.09.2024 40:38
'Better out, than in' might be a better suited to talking about your husband when he can't control his flatulence around you. What seemed like a harmless joke at first quickly turned into a marriage-ending factor for these two. Why could a simple bodily function contribute to the end of relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Sa...
S6: Break Down Bonus Episode: Understanding popular reasons people cheat 29.08.2024 15:47
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZc...
S6 Ep9: When he transitioned after their divorce.... - S6E9 27.08.2024 27:32
The only thing lonelier than singleness is feeling alone in your marriage. When this week's interviewee said she felt her husband pulling away, she thought it was just because they were growing apart. It wasn't until after the divorce that she found out the distance between them ran much deeper than personality differences. We'll hear about the shocking call between the ex-wife and the new GF, whe...
S6: Break Down Bonus: F*ckboys are boring: A Gay Man's Guide to Dating w/ Ryan Sheldon 22.08.2024 26:11
Brawny model and eating disorder advocate, Ryan Sheldon bares it all on his escapades as a gay man looking for love in the digital swipe culture hellscape that is modern dating. F*ckboys Are Boring is a raw, hilarious dating guidebook for everyone. - Pre-order "F*ckboys are Boring: The Gay Man's Guide to Dating Everyone": https://www.amazon.com/ckboys-Are-Boring-Dating-Everyone/dp/1959524038 - R...
S6 Ep8: When he said his boyfriend cheated with 50 people.... - S6E8 20.08.2024 23:32
Getting cheated on isn't good. Getting cheated on with 50 or so people is really not good. Getting cheated on by someone who knows they're putting your health at risk.....you know the rest. - This week we're raising awareness for Clackamas Women's Services in Portland, OR: https://www.cwsor.org/about-us/ - LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break u...
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