The Boonie Breakdown

In this Season 14 kickoff of The Boonie Breakdown , we're diving into the ultimate dating dilemma—do actions really speak louder than words? Brian is back, and we're breaking down wild relationship stories, red flags, and the emotional traps that keep people stuck. From a man gifting the same Pandora bracelet to his girlfriend and baby mama (yikes!) to an ex resurfacing after a year with "you're t...

In this lively year-end wrap-up , Boonie teams up with KG for an unforgettable countdown of their Top 5 Favorite Albums of 2024 ! 🎧 From the beats of Afrobeats to underrated gems, we unpack the evolution of music, sharing tracks that hit deep and albums that dominated our playlists. This episode is more than a countdown; it's a celebration of artistry, community, and the joy of sharing music with...

Join Boonie and the homie Shika as we dive into a hilarious and heartfelt chat about last year's  Toronto trip, turning 40, and the holiday season. We share funny travel misadventures, reflections on self-care and personal growth, and the joys of experiences over material gifts. From Mariah Carey's Christmas concert to rants about consumerism and modern relationships, we keep it real while celebra...

I'm back, and this surprise episode is serving December chaos with a side of unfiltered fun! With my birthday coming up and holiday madness in full swing, I'm catching up on all the wild thoughts and vibes from my hiatus. Joined by my problematic fav, Brian, we dive into "recycle bin sex," safe sex essentials (shoutout to World AIDS Day), and why oral skills matter in  every  sense. On the serious...

In the Season 13 finale, Boonie is in an engaging conversation with Nikk of Erotic Boudoir. Nikk delivers insights on maximizing pleasure through innovative use of sex toys, fostering open communication, and exploring new realms of sensuality. From the tantalizing potential of anal orgasms to the importance of consent and boundaries, Nikk shares a wealth of knowledge to enrich your intimate experi...

In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Rue, a pro dominatrix. Delve deep into the psychological landscape of kink as Goddess Rue enlightens us on the intricate art of setting boundaries and honoring individual desires within the BDSM community. From the exhilarating highs to the nuanced challenges, she offers a candid portrayal of her multifaceted professional life, balancing the...

In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack, a certified fertility awareness educator and holistic reproductive health practitioner. The discussion covers topics like PCOS, endometriosis, and the impact of diet on fertility, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's menstrual cycle for reproductive health advocacy. Personal anecdotes and expert insights shed light...

In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic favorite, Brian. We chatted about dating apps, and Boonie discussed the challenges and shared humorous anecdotes about men lying about their height. Boonie and Brian chat more about personal preferences in dating experiences.  A transcript of the full episode is available here. Support for today's episode comes from Dame Products, a brand whose...

In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Honey B, a proud Black feminist and dominant. We explore the world of Black feminism and kinks, including lactation and BDSM. Goddess Honey B shares her experiences as a sex worker and dominant, emphasizing the importance of communication and consent in knife play and all sexual activity. Additionally, we delve into the world of BDSM and powe...

In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika! We do a sh*t that hits differently, featuring the 2001 film "The Brothers." Is it overlooked in the conversation about black classic movies?  We also touch on casual sex and the importance of trust and communication. Shika and Boonie chat further about how trust and communication emerge as crucial factors in maintaining healthy sexual re...

In this episode, Boonie is in an engaging conversation with breast cancer survivor Erica Easter. We chat about Erica maintaining sexual desires during treatment and the ways in which cancer has changed Erica's perspective on life. Erica discusses the importance of embracing desires, the pleasure of physical connections, and the need to prioritize one's own happiness. The conversation touches on va...

In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Vanessa Geffrard of Vagesteem. The conversation starts with BV, also known as bacterial vaginosis, and stresses the importance of seeking medical treatment. We explore the morning-after pill for STIs and the need for comprehensive protection. The conversation then shifts to discussing the morning-after pill for STIs, also known as Doxy-Prep. We explo...

It's the first solo episode of the season! I had to do a Boonie 5 Spot! We dive into the world of vision boards and offer an alternative approach. We discuss organizational content on social media and why Boonie hates it so much! Like, we are really watching people transfer groceries into multiple containers and wonder if there's a hidden meaning behind it or if I'm just missing something.   Also,...

In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic favorite, Brian. We start the conversation by drawing comparisons between Baltimore and Houston and discussing how people in Houston have a better understanding of where to go for fun. We both believe Baltimore has the potential for a vibrant nightlife scene that black Baltimoreans deserve. Shifting gears, Brian discusses the attraction he finds...

In this episode, Boonie and guest KG discuss their favorite albums of 2023. This was a tough year for narrowing down favorite albums, especially in the hip-hop genre. We chat about our favorite songs from the year, including Tyrese's "Don't Think You Ever Loved Me," SZA's "Snooze," and Justin Bieber's "Moments." We also discuss Anais Cardot's "Colors," which we find joy and beauty in despite not u...

In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Sam Smith of New Vintage By Sam. We discuss various aspects of style, including personal style development and the significance of clothing as a form of self-expression. Sam explains the importance of staying true to one's style and not conforming to societal expectations. Sam even shares how to regularly purge closets of items that no longer serve a...

In this episode, Boonie is joined by the podcast's favorite astrologer, Mecca Woods, who has been featured in Bustle ,  Essence ,  xoNecole ,  PopSugar , and  Fusion. Happy birthday to all Sagittarius listeners! T he conversation then moves into discussing Venus's movement through different signs and how it relates to romance and finances. Mecca advises listeners to be mindful of their spending du...

In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic fav Brian. We dive into an interesting listener letter about a rather unusual fetish for belly buttons. Moving on, we explore some misconceptions about sex that are prevalent in our society. We address the infamous topic of penis size and discuss the importance of open communication to ensure that both partners feel satisfied and fulfilled in th...

On this episode, Boonie is joined by a special guest, Ashley Cobb. Ashley is an Atlanta-based sex educator, writer, and HIV activist. She's our favorite friend who loves talking about all things related to sex and is passionate about raising awareness about HIV. With World Aid Day approaching, we discuss important topics regarding black women, unprotected sex, and the growing cases of HIV in this...

In this episode, Boonie speaks with Dr. Clarissa Francis about the importance of unlearning shame, having open discussions about sexual health, pleasure, and consent, and taking responsibility for our actions. We also delve into the politics surrounding women's bodies and reproductive justice. Dr. Francis emphasizes the need for representation of sexually liberated black women as positive role mod...

In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika! We do a sh*t that hits different episode featuring the classic Love Jones. We express our disappointment with the movie, discussing how it lacks the drama we were hoping for. We even mention the poetry snap era and how we're glad we didn't experience it. Later in the discussion, we explain the shift in our mindset towards relationships a...

In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Ainsley Burrows and Laurielle Noel, the dynamic duo behind The Sweet Spot Burlesque. The conversation delves into the growth of the show, with Ainsley's booking skills and Laurielle's business acumen playing a key role. Sweet Spot Nation now has over 30 shows in different cities and a diverse audience made up of people of different races, ages, and LGBTQ...

In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Jax, a pleasure facilitator. Jax is here to talk about exploring pleasure, connection, and consent. We explore the world of professional cuddling, an unconventional way to connect with others. Jax shares their experiences and the importance of creating a safe and trusting environment for these connections. Also, we chat about the concept of different spa...

In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Brian Dwayne of BlkTouch. Brian discusses the creation of BlkTouch, explaining how it evolved from sensual photography to a separate space for explicit content that couldn't be posted on social media. The conversation touches on Brian's role in creating all the content and his efforts to be inclusive in terms of casting. Brian emphasizes the importance o...

In this episode, Boonie is joined with our Problematic Fav Brian! We chat about Homecoming season, why its important to have a hobby when dating, and dating with kids. Check it out! The hashtag for the podcast #TheBoonieBreakdown . Share with others using the hashtag #PodIn. Join Boonie over on Patreon for exclusive content and events here: Patreon.com/TheBoonieBreakdown  Have something to say? Yo...