"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour

Send a text Turning points often arrive when we least expect them. As I celebrate my 36th birthday this week, I found myself at a crossroads with this podcast - something I've poured my heart into creating for nearly 200 episodes. The realization hit me like a lightning bolt: I've never given any single creative pursuit 100% of my focus and energy. My music, my performances, my writing –...

Send a text What happens when two performers step back from the relentless grind of the entertainment industry to ask: "Why am I doing this?" This conversation with Abby Vatterot traces our parallel journeys from theater school through Chicago, LA, and back to our Midwest roots, revealing how our creative purposes have evolved along the way. Remember when success meant constant performin...

Send a text Everyone's talking about the little things you say How I could be the one and where we're gonna stay Funny how we could be on the same damn page When All of these things I heard was never said to me Linked, By nature and Spirit Body and mind Unexplainable chemistry  How did we dream that our love would never bloom Why would we curse ourselves into unnecessary gloom Maybe the...

Send a text Ever wondered what musicians do when they're freed from the constraints of playing songs exactly as recorded? Step into the electric atmosphere of Atl's JB Jazz Jam with host Dom L’Amour as he pulls back the curtain on this monthly musical playground. The wedding band singer who must perform "Fly Me to the Moon" exactly like Sinatra night after night finally gets to...

Send a text The unexpected peace that comes with slowing down sits at the heart of this deeply personal episode. Dom opens up about his mental journey navigating the end of wedding season—traditionally a time when performance gaps left him anxious and frustrated. But something's different this year. Through candid reflection, Dom shares how organizing his life last year and embracing discipli...

Send a text Garden wisdom, friendship, and life's little surprises bloom in this delightful conversation between Dom L'Amour and his dear friend Mattie Jo "MJ" Graham. What begins with a quirky gardening tip about lime pellets for award-winning eggplants quickly blossoms into a wide-ranging exploration of how we connect to our food, our heritage, and each other. MJ, once known...

Send a text What happens when a professional musician suddenly can't play? In this deeply reflective conversation, saxophonist Scott Box joins Dom Lamore to explore the unexpected journey of his recent hand injury and the profound questions it's raised about identity, purpose, and faith. Scott shares his raw emotional response to being sidelined from performing – the initial depression,...

Send a text "Song bird singing in the night. Hoping that the lyrics will make everything right. People are cheering, people are moving. Everyone is surrounded by the song birds light. Song bird does this three times a week. Always excited but ends the night weak. Tired body, tired voice, tire of the normal life outside. Outside is the truth, but the stage is just a phase. No one could make th...

Send a text "Will you go away with me I never thought about the simple things Smiling in sync , feeling the wind I want to do this again and again  Will you go away with me My curiousity is loudly pleading Wondering do you see what I see Can you see you and me Every day is another day Seeing folks just past my way But today I stop and turn to you My truth Green grass will change it's sha...

Send a text "My favorite part of a camp fire is when the wood begins to glow It's things like this that I think about more each day that I grow older The calm, the crackle. The smell, the smile on my face. It's magical.  When I was younger I didn't look out the window and see. I saw a bunch of nothing. Now I see the trees, the sky, the water, the life that's happening in f...

Send a text "Time. 6/27/24 12:49pm. Location Poem was written. Sharpsburg GA. Home, Saint Louis Doesn’t matter where I live in the world! Chicago. My home is saint louis. Los Angeles. My home in saint Louis No matter where I visit in the world Nassau. My home is Saint Louis Dublin. My home is saint louis. It doesn’t matter. Will you support the Atlanta braves? If the cardinals aren’t playing…...

Send a text Have you ever wondered if our hyper-connected world is actually making us more disconnected from what truly matters? In this profoundly human conversation, host Dom L'Amour sits down with musician Jacob Zengerling to explore the spaces between digital noise and genuine human connection. The pair navigate through deceptively simple questions with far-reaching implications: Why do w...

Send a text When happiness breaks through anxiety, do you grab it with both hands? That precious moment of joy becomes something to savor, especially when the mind constantly works against you. In this soulful conversation, Shane Murphy opens up about the internal battle between finding creative fulfillment and maintaining financial security. Shane's journey from self-described loner to partn...

Send a text "When kids draw to you, they see your heart." This simple but profound observation sets the tone for a rich conversation between Dom L’Amour and his best friend Chris Bates about what truly matters in our relationships with family, work, and ourselves. The episode begins with Chris sharing his unexpected joy in working from home while raising his daughter Jaide. Rather than f...

Send a text Take a seat and get ready to test your knowledge alongside Dom and Bates as they face off in an electrifying game of Black Jeopardy on this special episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast. What starts with a simple rock-paper-scissors showdown quickly evolves into a riveting battle of wits across five categories: Black TV shows, music, pop culture, Black history, and movie qu...

Send a text "If you weren't so damn nice, you'd be successful." These words, spoken to Dom L’Amour years ago, sparked a profound journey of self-discovery that unfolds throughout this intimate conversation with Cleveland Jones.  For artists navigating the music industry, establishing your value doesn't come with a handbook. Cleveland openly shares the moment someone told h...

Send a text When everything feels overwhelming—from global conflicts to personal struggles—how do we find clarity and peace? This raw mental check-in episode explores the powerful intersection between worldwide chaos and individual challenges that many of us are silently navigating. Sharing my personal journey toward an 8.5/10 mental state, I reveal how removing social media apps from my phone tra...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Christopher Shank  about  our creative process, being more organized, working on ourselves and so much more. What if the secret to creativity isn't waiting for inspiration to strike, but simply showing up consistently? In this thoughtful conversation with screenwriter and friend of the show Christopher Shank, we dive deep into the mechanics of the crea...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with my girl Maria Bartolotta about Her 10 years of being sober, struggles with moving, Relationships with family and friends, and so much more. Grateful drunks never drink." These six words have carried Maria Bartolotta through a decade of sobriety—a journey that began in a world almost unrecognizable from today. Think: Blockbuster stores still open, Netfl...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Larry Rodriguez aka @larryrodgram about Expectations around the holidays, GNX, The State of Cinema and so much more! "Why are these girls twerking? Why do I see movies everywhere? Why is it constantly showing me stuff I show no interest in?" These aren't just random questions—they're part of a deeper reflection on how we consume digital...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show of the show Ryan O'fallon AKA @Ofallonryan about going to college in Cape Girardeau, Life in the Air force and Growth. Dive into an engaging exploration of relationships, personal growth, and life lessons woven seamlessly into the experiences shared through the years at Southeast Missouri State University and the vibrant culture of C...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show Jon Chester about his New Marriage and his final thoughts before getting married, and the meaning behind Working Smarter not Harder. Discover the intricate balance of wedding planning and emotional connection! This episode emphasizes the need to prioritize moments that truly matter, pushing against the chaos often associated with organizi...

Send a text Amid the chaos of the music industry, how does one find the perfect equilibrium between self-care and discipline? Join me and my good friend, musician Michael Harvey, as we unravel this balancing act on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast. We explore the crucial role of self-care practices like journaling, therapy, and meditation while emphasizing the importance of setting boundarie...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Jacob Buckenmyer (@jabucke) about Drinking, The California Fires, Education and so much more! What happens when you mix the heart of Los Angeles with an exploration of emotions, food, and culture? I'm joined by my friend Jacob Buckenmyer to unpack the myths surrounding LA’s identity, especially in the face of the California fires, and to challenge the...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show J Boogie AKA Jon Butts AKA @jonbuttsishere! Can Kendrick Lamar's lyrical genius outshine Drake's chart-topping dominance? Join us on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as we navigate this intricate rivalry with our insightful guest, Jon Butts. We'll revisit the explosive moment Kendrick's "control" verse...