The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast

When betrayal first comes to light, it can feel as though the ground has disappeared beneath your feet. In this conversation, Lisa Archinal offers compassionate guidance on navigating those overwhelming first days , reminding listeners that while healing won't happen overnight, there are practical steps to help restore stability, hope, and direction. Drawing from both her personal journey and her...

In this conversation, Jill Pool helps us put words to the often-misunderstood experience of emotional betrayal , offering clarity, validation, and hope to those who have questioned whether their pain is "real enough." Drawing from both her personal journey and professional work, Jill introduces practical definitions that distinguish emotional displacement, emotional neglect, and emotional affairs....

Hope and healing take center stage in this conversation with Clinton and Nikki Mitchell as they share their story of betrayal, disclosure, and the redemptive work God has done in their marriage. After more than 31 years together and decades in ministry, what appeared stable on the outside was hiding deep pain and long-held secrets. Their willingness to share openly offers hope to couples walking t...

In this deeply insightful episode, we are joined by Darrell Brazell, pastor of New Hope Fellowship and Director of New Hope Recovery Ministries, for an important conversation around Dr. Omar Minwalla’s concept of The Secret Sexual Basement . Together, we explore how hidden sexual behaviors, deception, and compartmentalized thinking create profound relational harm and contribute to betrayal trauma....

In this episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast , we sit down with author, speaker, and betrayal-recovery coach Vicki Tiede to discuss the complex and often isolating experience of discovering a spouse’s same-sex attraction . With both professional insight and compassion, Vicki brings clarity to a topic that is frequently misunderstood and emotionally overwhelming for many women. W...

Healing after betrayal is hard enough—but what happens when you’re doing the work alone? In this honest and hope-filled conversation, we sit down with Lyschel Burket , founder of Hope Redefined Ministries , to explore the realities of one-sided healing . Lyschel brings deep compassion, biblical truth, and hard-earned wisdom to a topic many women quietly carry. Together, we unpack why one-sided hea...

Healing after betrayal is not about rushing forward or "getting over it”—it’s about courageously reclaiming yourself, one brave step at a time . In this episode, we welcome back licensed professional counselor, coach, and author Tammy Gustafson for a powerful conversation about what it truly means to move from brokenness to bravery after intimate betrayal. Tammy shares insights from her brand-new...

Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood and emotionally loaded concepts in betrayal recovery. In this episode, Kris sits down with Andrew Arthur , founder of Genesis Christian Mediation , to unpack what forgiveness really means—and what it does not mean—after deep relational betrayal. Together, they explore how forgiveness fits into the healing journey without minimizing pain, bypassing grief...

Divorce after betrayal trauma can feel confusing, isolating, and even more painful than staying. In this conversation, Rae Emmerson from Healing Talks Back joins the podcast to explore why healing after a terminally wounded relationship is uniquely complex—and why the end of a relationship does not automatically bring relief. Rae helps listeners understand the emotional, relational, and identity-l...

Rebuilding safety and intimacy after betrayal begins with understanding how our attachment styles shape the way we connect—and disconnect—with others. In this eye-opening conversation, Dr. Jake Porter , Founder and President of Daring Ventures , returns to the podcast to unpack how attachment wounds form, why they matter in recovery, and how couples can move from fear and self-protection toward tr...

Over 36 years ago , Kris sat in the classroom of her Bible college professor, Paul Marc Goulet , learning lessons that would profoundly shape her understanding of God, cognitive function, and the power of the stories we tell ourselves. Decades later, their paths cross again for a deeply meaningful conversation about how our God concepts —what we believe about who God is—shape every part of our fai...

Stacey Smith , a trusted voice at Daring Ventures , returns to the Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast to unpack the often-hidden topic of spiritual abuse . With deep wisdom and a passion for justice, Stacey helps individuals heal from trauma, reclaim their identity, and walk in the truth of who God created them to be. In this conversation, Stacey joins Kris and Jenn to explore how spiritual...

Gigi Hopkins , Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and Director of Wives Care at Be Broken Ministries , joins us for a candid conversation about how healing from betrayal can produce unexpected gifts. With over 24 years of ministry experience and a passion for walking alongside women in the midst of betrayal trauma, Gigi offers both professional insight and deep personal compassion. She shares her...

In this special episode , we’re joined by Dr. Jake Porter , renowned relational trauma expert, coach, and founder of Daring Ventures . Known for his groundbreaking work helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal and rebuild trust, Jake brings deep insight and compassion to the recovery journey. Together, we explore the transformative power of integrity-centered healing and learning to be c...

How much truth is too much truth? What if you feel ready for disclosure, but your partner doesn't? What’s the actual goal of a therapeutic disclosure—and how do you know when you’re ready? In this episode, we sit down with Dan Drake , a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert in betrayal trauma and sex addiction recovery. Dan unpacks the basics of therapeutic disclosure , a structured pr...

This week on The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast , we’re joined by Amy Elysse—vocal coach , faith-filled encourager, and a radiant light in her community. Amy opens up about her own betrayal story and shares how the human voice , primarily through singing, can become a powerful tool for healing . Whether you’re musically inclined or simply longing to express yourself more fully, Amy bring...

Pornography addiction is one of the most misunderstood struggles in the church today, often shrouded in shame and secrecy. Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education at Covenant Eyes and author of The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It , joins us to share how real freedom comes through accountability, grace, and informed support. Drawing from his journalism...

Dr. Anthony Walker joins us to share how he helps men navigate the healing process after betrayal. He provides insights from Help Her Heal , a workbook by Carol Jergensen Sheets , and discusses how men can develop emotional attunement, overcome resistance, and strengthen their relationships. Key Talking Points: What led Dr. Anthony Walker to Help Her Heal and how he incorporates its strategies in...

In this episode, we welcome Hope Ray , a Licensed Professional Counselor who coined Betrayal Violence . Hope is a leader in the field of betrayal trauma, offering deep insights into the effects of secrecy, deception, and relational power imbalances. She is also the creator of Complex Partner Trauma magazine , available on Amazon, which provides resources and support for betrayed partners. Througho...

We had the privilege of sitting down with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith to discuss the transformative power of the Intimacy Pyramid . With their personal story of betrayal, addiction, and healing as the backdrop, the Raabsmiths shared actionable insights and hope for couples looking to rebuild trust, connection, and relational intimacy. The Raabsmiths are passionate leaders in the field of marriage...

We’re excited to welcome Dr. Laura Sanger back to The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast ! Dr. Sanger’s first episode remains the top fan favorite, and we are thrilled to have her return with another timely and profound message— this time focusing on rest , just in time for the holiday season. Dr. Sanger is a clinical psychologist, author, and the founder of No Longer Enslaved ( www.nolonger...

On today's episode of The BRT Podcast, we welcome the amazing Stacey Smith. She’s the Chief Clinical Officer and a Clinical Therapist at Daring Ventures. With a personal recovery journey from betrayal and "stinkin' thinkin'," Stacey uses her lived experience and professional expertise to guide betrayed partners and those suffering from addiction toward healing. She is certified in EMDR therapy and...

We are thrilled to welcome Elizabeth Abbruzza , the Co-Founder and Clinical Director of the Bellevue Trauma Recovery Center , to the podcast. With a deep focus on relational trauma and betrayal, Elizabeth shares her expertise and details about the impactful Resilience Through Betrayal (RTB) intensives offered at her center. About Elizabeth Abbruzza: Elizabeth holds a Master's degree in Clinical Me...

Introduction: Kris and Jenn sit down with Karen Rellos , founder of Restored Hope Coaching and Redeeming Love Marriage Ministry. Karen, a certified betrayal trauma coach, joins the conversation to shed light on a topic that affects many relationships— Intimacy Deprivation, also known as Intimacy Atrophy (IA). With her extensive background in helping women navigate betrayal trauma, Karen offers val...

In this episode, we welcome Diane Schnickels, founder of Living Waters of Hope and a dedicated advocate for survivors of domestic abuse . Diane brings her extensive experience and compassionate approach to discuss when sex addiction crosses the line into abuse. She has developed crucial resources like the Oasis Bible Study and the Hope Giver Essentials training program, empowering women to heal an...