The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma Recovery

Mr Jay speaks to us about betrayal in episode 130. We speak overcoming betrayal and understanding it's different forms. Mr Jay shares his own personal experiences with betrayal and what he learned from it. We also discuss how comparing yourself to others will make you feel a sense of betrayal within. Our early forms of betrayal often occurs at a young age with family and close friends being the cu...

Portia joins us to speak about sharing inspirational people with the world. In episode 129, Portia shares her vision of overcoming obstacles in her life and building up the next generation. She had 2 spouses that passed away and has continued forward with her journey. We discuss how she found  the strength to help others during her moments of pain. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-d...

In episode 128, Courtney speaks to us about learning from our past and past generations. She highlights the importance of accurately portraying our family members. We discuss misrepresentation within families, communities, and throughout the world. Sharing the history of Juneteenth, Courtney shares why the celebration is important to her. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all ep...

We speaking about living a religious life while being homosexual. In episode 127, Taleya shares her experiences with us about growing up bisexual and becoming comfortable with her sexuality. From an early age, there was an identity crisis as Taleya tried to be everything everyone else wanted her to be. Her adulthood is where she discovered herself and her purpose free from the eyes of others. Reme...

In episode 126, Yolunda returns to continue to inspire us. Yolunda is working to help the generation avoid some of her struggles as a recovered alcoholic. She shares living life sober and how she was able to turn it all around. We speak what can lead all of us to addiction and not being able to recognize ourselves. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes.

Jenn joins us in episode 125 to speak about what she has learned growing up. She also shares her experiences as wisdom for the next generation looking for success. In reflection, Jenn speaks about what she could have done more of and why. It was good to speak with another host about what we have learned since starting our show. I asked how her life was before and after starting her show. Remember...

The month long celebration of Season 3 finishes with returning guest Amanda L in in episode 124. We speak about the impact of our family. Amanda shares how family members can be toxic and what we can do. We discuss how a stranger will show more compassion or love than a friend or family member. Amanda learn this difficult lesson when her grandmother passed away. Remember to share and follow to kee...

Episode 123 in Season 3 and we speak about the health of your heart. Sandahl joins us to speak about heart health awareness and it's impacts. Sandahl lost her father to heart complications and she wants to ensure no one loses a parent like that. We discuss what we can do to improve our awareness and health of the heart. She also shares how she started her journey and where it will take her. Rememb...

Welcome to Season 3 and episode 122, Jerry speaks about his difficult childhood and having to grow up quickly at the age of 6. From stealing food to survive to life on the streets, Jerry shares it all. We discussed both of our difficult childhoods and how it doesn't define us but it empowers us. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes.

Holiday season with episode 121. Amanda joins us to speak about her family and the difficulty of a traumatic childhood. She shares how her priorities were not focused. It is also discussed the pain she felt when she lost her father. Death in a family is always hard and Amanda shares what she experienced during this time.  Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes.

Jase returns in episode 120 to discuss the changes his life has taken. From expecting a newborn to changing the direction his life is taking. Jase discusses his passion of old and new which includes Spartan Races. It was good to share Jase's celebration in starting a new family and new chapter in his life Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes

In episode 119, Alejandra returns to share the experiences of dating from a woman's perspective. Men and women view relationships differently but both perspectives are necessary. We discuss the passive behavior in relationships and how it prevents many from achieving what they want. Knowing what we want and going out is what we discuss to assist others truly find genuine connections. Remember to s...

We have a returning guest in Sonia to speak the difficulties of dating. In episode 118. We discuss finding love within ourselves to share with a special person. From 18 to 80, this is a conversation that helps prepare us all for love. Sonia shares why identifying triggers is an important step to becoming a better potential lover. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes

In episode 117. We speak with Rachel about sexual abuse trends occurring in the world. She shares how we can protect ourselves and that life can continue forward despite the trauma. Rachel's return to the show was filled with hope and inspiration. She is continuing to help women through a retreat and other forms of assistance. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes

In episode 116. Lisa returns and we talk about a range of topics. From losing her ability to walk to regaining her passion in life. Jane Fonda yoga pants to finding your will to keep yourself happy, we catch up with all the recent changes in the world. Lisa provides context to all the ways she is helping people over the last few years stay active and happy. Remember to share and follow to keep up-...

We have a returning guest for episode 115. Genesis joins us to speak about the importance of accepting each other. Over the last few years we have seen the differences between each other amplified in polarizing ways. Genesis and I discuss the impacts of this and how we all can continue to do better. She shares her experiences as well as some of the "forgotten" history of our countries. Remember to...

In episode 114, one day you can walk and the next day you are unable to get out of bed. Edmund shares an impressive journey. One day everything was going well and then all of a sudden he wasn't able to do many of his day to day tasks. As scary as that seems, Edmund was determined to identify and resolve this new and different way of living. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all...

With episode 113, Paul speaks about being born with cerebral palsy. It was a difficult childhood for Paul. From not fitting in to being bullied, he had to always be strong and determined. His Life took a different turn when he was told he wouldn't be able to live a successful life by someone. Paul was motivated and he shares that motivation with others. Paul leads a wonderful and has found success...

In episode 112, we speak with Simon an unknown medical condition that turned his life upside down. One day Simon was unable to walk and experienced difficulty breathing. He shares his experience going through this as well as how life was before this happened. Times like these you truly find out who is with you in support. We share the sometimes difficult nature of asking and receiving help. Rememb...

Finding a relationship for you in episode 111. Jeanell joins us to share her story about finding success in her 2nd marriage. We discuss about not getting discouraged if a relationship ends. Jeanell shares what she learned about herself and her contributions when her 1st marriage ended. It was a life changing experience as admissions were made which created a path forward. Jeanell happily remarrie...

Back again with episode 110. Daisy shares her story of a terminal illness and how she is living her life to the fullest. With a husband and children, she speaks how her medical condition is impacting her family and inspiring others. We discussed the early stages of her finding out about her condition to how she is using it to help others make a difference. Remember to share and follow to keep up-t...

We speak about positivity in episode 109. Himanish joins us to speak about the different chakras and how we can unlock them. We explore the history of the chakras and the benefits of each of them. It was a good lesson in focusing on the positivity in life and leaving negativity from the past behind. Discussions like these are helpful as it shows how we have the power to control many aspects of our...

We talk about divorce and still searching for a successful relationship in episode 108. Marie speaks about being divorced 3 times and the impact each of them had on her life. She was a different person during each marriage and continues to grow. The lessons learned has helped Marie to want to assist others with similar situations. She uses her experiences so guide women to do and obtain better. De...

Stomach health is the conversation in episode 107. Trish shares her own personal struggle with stomach health and how it impacted her life. We speak about the importance of healthy food and healthy digestion. Trish highlights what we can do to improve health in a number of ways. Also, I share a story with Trish to get her guidance and recommendation. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date...

It's a deep conversation in episode 106. Marissa joins us to speak about her experience with partner abuse and sexual assault. We discuss the need for awareness and support during the abuse period. She details her experiences and how she was able to overcome it. Marissa is beacon of hope for those who have experienced it. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. Marissa's...