The Becoming Kings Podcast

In this episode you’ll learn about… New York Times Best Seller Call Received (1:47) From his sister’s couch to Greatness (3:22) Lewis’ drive prior to healing (6:15) Why you MUST be excited about your work (16:00) Seeking wholeness (22:50) Creating Win-Win relationships (32:20) Challenges and surprises during COVID (38:40) Strategies to increase confidence (49:00) Impact focus while being unattache...

In this episode you’ll learn about… You say jump. I say how high? (1:23) Sunny side up or over easy? (3:15) Getting SOOO high (6:00) Teeter tottering on greatness (8:50) The boys in blue (12:10) Scott free? Not so fast (15:20) Displeasement? (16:35) Memory lane (18:25)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus (0:53) The intimacy cycle of a man (1:18) When a man DOESN’T pull away (3:47) Common symptoms of not pulling away (5:22) Obstructions from childhood (7:05) Some men don’t know how to get close (8:15) Why men become passive and lose their passion (9:11) Too much intimacy = kryptonite (12:15)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Mispronouncing MacHamer (0:35) Saddle up buckaroo (4:20) Crucifying his ego (10:30) The birth of Men’s Denver Serve (15:00) Doing “The Work” (22:50) What makes a man, a man (33:02) Awakening from the Matrix (39:00) The great importance of having a vision (46:02)

In this episode you’ll learn about… The Power of Presence (1:20) Story time of a marriage healed (3:09) Secret of gold (6:26) Secret revealed (8:28) Why isn’t this taught by older men? (10:56) A challenge to my brothers out there (13:38)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Lessons learned on vulnerability (1:03) The power of vulnerability at my mom’s funeral (3:35) My mom should be a saint (8:27) My coach challenging me on sharing intimately (13:05) My deepest fear (16:36) Settling for “good enough” in love isn’t what I’m made for (18:43)

In this episode you’ll learn about… A little disclaimer (0:38) The back story (1:08) Hitting the trailhead at 3:30 am (6:40) Tragedy strikes (8:34) How our brain wants to make meaning (15:50) Leaving a buddy behind (17:50) Healing from PTSD (22:55) Surrendering the unfairness of life (24:35)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Setting the “stage” (0:55) My big pet peeve (1:56) You’re f#&$’in special! (3:23) Story: the spider & the clock (5:30) Even if you’re a newbie, shine baby shine! (7:50) My threat if you don’t believe in yourself ;) (9:45)

In this episode you’ll learn about… “Try to pick up that chair” (1:19) The importance of eliminating “trying” (3:00) What happens when your brain believes in “trying” (4:10) How you’re using “trying” as a way to lie to yourself (5:18) Thanks for “Chooning In” (6:06)

In this episode you’ll learn about… What to do when life kicks you when you’re down (2:16) Lessons from Mr. Miyagi (6:11) What to do when you’re at a fork in the road (8:45) The recipe for progress (11:26) Exercise: Questions to ask yourself (13:43)

In this episode you’ll learn about… How to combat boredom in life (1:00) The importance of celebrating (3:58) The science vs the art (6:00) The secret to true wealth (10:40) The loneliest place on earth (13:15) What makes YOU happy? (15:57)

In this episode you’ll learn about… How to avoid overwhelm (1:30) Why motive matters (3:17) Lessons from The Biggest Losers (5:40) Exercise: Questions to ask yourself (8:31) My why for remaining fit & healthy (11:50)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Wisdom from Simon Sinek (3:05) Both sides of the coin (12:00) Stepping up as surrogate father (20:00) Primary questioning (35:03) Getting clear on what “Masculinity” is (43:38) Answers are often counterintuitive (56:20) A trip down memory lane (1:07:30)

In this episode you’ll learn about… It all begins in 6th grade (1:15) “Get to the CHOPPAH!” (3:15) Shame grows in secrecy (6:42) What men fear most (8:55) Three tips on how to talk with men (10:56)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Why Do We Do What We Do? (1:00) The Needs of the Primal Human (3:36) The Needs of the Spirit (10:06) The one need that must NOT be atop your list (12:17) How addictions are formed (14:30) 6 Human Needs Overview (16:18)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Quick & dirty overview (1:44) Childhood upbringing (4:28) Lessons learned from Jiu-Jitsu (12:06) Traver’s life mission (23:15) Defining modern masculinity (24:00) “Is that really true?” (34:30) Traver’s commitment to growth (45:58) The human experience (50:50) Connect with Traver HERE!

In this episode you’ll learn about… Wisdom from the Bishop (1:38) Why we don’t forgive (3:13) The fork in the road (6:11) Being a victim or forgiving (7:53) The gift of forgiveness (10:52)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Lessons learned (1:51) The 2 keys to a legendary relationship (4:32) Focus & language (8:53) Making up meaning within relationships (12:51) My needs are your needs (17:20)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Humble beginnings (2:35) Suicide attempt (8:43) Taekwondo foundation (16:15) Life as a high-functioning addict (23:17) The masks men wear & archetypes (29:15) Reigniting the spark (42:03) What to do when you’re triggered (53:36) The genius in each of us (1:00:38)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Lessons from John Wooden (4:31) Step One: Vision & Clarity (6:25)  Step Two: Win the Evening (10:55) Step Three: Own Your Morning (13:22) Step Four: Plan & Execute (14:04) Step Five: Create Massive Leverage (14:44) Bonus: The Power of Accountability (16:31)

In this episode you’ll learn about… The battle against perfectionism (0:53) The 100% Rule (2:15) How to give it your all (4:46) Why do some succeed while others don’t? (7:10) Also mentioned in the show… The 100% Rule Article  

In this episode you’ll learn about… Johnny shares his greatest fears (0:43) Excerpt from Wild at Heart (1:33) An extremely valuable life lesson (4:16) The key to getting something you’ve never had (8:27)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Easy to see when people are playing the victim (2:15) Defining playing “Below the Line” (3:12) Defining playing “Above the Line” (8:29) The importance of taking responsibility (11:56) Taking action exercise from this episode (16:35)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Origins of the energy behind the term “Toxic Masculinity” (1:27) Rick’s example of how to process anger (15:23) Reframing Rick’s role as a husband & father (22:19) The power of asking for what you want in a relationship (25:44) Lessons learned from 50 Shades of Grey (37:44) The power of intentional questioning (53:11)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Stepping into understanding the Imposter Syndrome (0:39) The root of my own Imposter Syndrome (2:04) Lessons learned from a “wanna-be Bobby Knight” (5:11) The roof of YOUR own Imposter Syndrome (9:20) How to break free and find your own self-worth (11:27)