The Becoming Kings Podcast

In this episode you’ll learn about… A Poem: Good Timber. (1:08) Life brings challenges, challenges brings growth. (3:10) The cost of being emotionally unfit. (5:47) My 24 hour challenge for you. (8:34) What are you learning from each of life’s challenges? (9:50)

In this episode you’ll learn about… The life of Londell in 120 seconds. (1:57) Healthy emotional release (7:20) Emotional fitness (11:40) What can you do as an individual to create change? (18:09) Londell’s beliefs on Black Amerians being racist (12:25) The vast importance of allies (29:35) Easy to hate from far, difficult to hate up close (34:22)

In this episode you’ll learn about… A journey into the woods. (1:00) Would I do it again? (7:00) Accessing distant memories. (14:31) The sadness of being alone. (22:21) The message from the mess. (30:40) Surrendering to the process. (37:02) The belief that I’m unlovable. (42:45)

In this episode you’ll learn about… 1-Star Review. (1:00) The thing about Global Beliefs is… (6:15) “Online dating sucks!” (9:50) Don’t allow limiting beliefs to dim your light (13:00) “All men are…” “All women are…” (16:20)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Before he was B.lake. (2:30) With so much abundance, why is there so much pain? (8:35) Being vulnerable with thick skin. (16:30) Blake’s battle with depression (22:50) Processing anger. (30:00) Dealing with pressures of celebritiship & seeking love. (36:57)

In this episode you’ll learn about… What is the question men are needing to answer? (1:15) There’s 2 forms of communication (5:10) Careful with what you aim at (9:15) The common thread amongst men (13:26) How powerful can we ALL be when we’re clear? (16:54) You must be willing to be courageous in healing (19:10)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Where are all the men? (2:10) Inflicting the wound (5:45) Taking my question to the woman (13:30) Taking your power back to reign over your own life (16:00) 3 Steps to creating the life you hope and dream for (19:55)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Bridging the gap between knowing and doing (3:35) Results or pivot (14:35) Counterintuitive relationship advice for men (24:13) There are no bad emotions (33:28) No great Kingdom has two Kings (42:22) Overcome or continue making excuses (52:00) You should feel bad when you mess up (58:10)

In this episode you’ll learn about… The goal in life and love is fulfillment. (1:25) Why do we stay in relationships way too long? (4:55) When we start to self-sabotage relationships (8:05) My 90-day “All-in” Challenge (11:45) What lights your partner up? (15:07) What are you teaching future generations? (17:35)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Problems vs Control (1:28) Victim stories (4:28) The analogy of a house plant (7:42) What a plant can teach you about weight loss (9:45) Where you must take responsibility (11:21)

In this episode you’ll learn about… 3 year anniversary of his dognapping (1:12) From night clubs to enlightenment (6:55) Movement towards a healthier masculine (14:48) A question only men can answer (24:34) Primal beings (33:00) The power of men’s groups (41:15)  How can we find the common ground & healing (48:06)

In this episode you’ll learn about… What creates our intimate relationships to break down? (1:10) Depolarization (2:55) Passivity (5:53) The 4 R’s of a deteriorating relationship (9:30) The loss of commitment towards making it work (13:50) Why doing what’s counterintuitive is the solution (16:45) What you resist persists (19:43)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Having the guts to take risk in being an entrepreneur (1:40) Deciding on Certainty or Growth (5:30) The importance of allowing others to know, like & trust you (11:53) Exercise: How to deliver what your customer needs (15:09) Balancing work in your business vs on your business (19:26) The fight for knowing before doing (23:13)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Words go here. (2:00) The culture of masculinity & dominance (10:25) Calling men out vs calling them in (22:47) Deconstructing male & female gender types (33:35) Going all in with The Last Dance (44:38) Staying in your lane vs developing your lane (52:42) Social collective human development (1:02:57)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Setting up the story (1:18) My first foray with PB cookies (3:53) And so it begins (8:37) The funny thing about time (11:30) I want to get off the ride now please! (14:22)  Having a baby moment (15:40) Wise words from Grant Cardone (19:39)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Starting off with nonsense (1:00) Working with Celebrity Chefs (8:15) Not being more manly than your man (18:08) Molly’s dance origins (26:17) The disappearing act (37:10) Making her dreams come true (43:30) Masculine vs Feminine (52:30)

In this episode you’ll learn about… The work never ends (1:30) Why mastering relationships is fundamental to fulfillment (3:40) The Six Positions of a Relationship (5:00) Which position are you really in right now? (11:30) Are you committed to having it all? (14:28)

In this episode you’ll learn about… How I choked (0:50) Feeling the pressure of my ignorance (4:09) My white privilege on full display (6:26) Noticing my biases and prejudices (10:52) This fills me with fury (14:41) Humbled with how much I must educate myself  (18:03) The balance of challenging others while offering compassion (20:55)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Sexual shame (2:02) All in on relationship growth (5:00) Different dialects within Love Languages (8:20) The 5 Love Languages vs Your Erotic Blueprint (10:05) Sexual, Sensual, Energetic, Kinky & Shapeshifter (11:10) Miss Jaiya and the Erotic Blueprint test (15:50) https://missjaiya.com/  

In this episode you’ll learn about… Is there progress being made? (4:50) What is really going on with racism in our country today? (14:25) How can we progress without succumbing to anger & rage? (26:35) Rationalizing away racism (37:40) Forms of privilege (49:53) Asking for help vs taking responsibility for your own education (1:00:15) Being open minded rather than defensive (1:07)

In this episode you’ll learn about… How things typically go (0:52) Johnny’s Ninja Adaptation (5:03) Powerfully Positive Emotional State (5:40) Create an Empowering Story (8:30) Create A Strategy With Certainty (9:15) 30 Days to Physical Mastery Challenge (13:31)

In this episode you’ll learn about… How the Feminine is like a wave (2:00) How the Masculine may react to the wave (5:00) CAUTION: The Feminine does NOT need fixing (7:33) Letting go of expectations that you have any control to fix (10:25) Knowing your responsibilities as the Masculine (12:27)

In this episode you’ll learn about… Why men are like rubber bands (2:00) How women misinterpret men pulling away (3:27) What every woman should know about men (7:05) If a man doesn’t get a change to pull away (9:05) How are you hard wired? (10:18)

In this episode you’ll learn about… The greatest in the world, all have coaches (1:40) What does a coach or mentor bring to the table? (2:33) Who has limiting beliefs? (6:10) The difference between emotionally fit individuals & those who aren’t (9:30) Change your limiting beliefs (12:53) Make the fulfillment target extremely easy to hit (15:20)

In this episode you’ll learn about… What is success? (0:45) Success according to Dean Jackson (2:01) When Dean knows he’s BEING successful (2:55) How to attract success (4:39) A research study on what makes people successful (6:58) What makes the difference in people’s lives? (10:54) A standard of extraordinary success (12:48) Why you may not be feeling like a success (15:50)