The B H.O.T. Podcast

Join us as we delve into the world of dating and what that looks like when you have children and when you don't have children. A spirited conversation that spans the spectrum of dating others with children, those dating with children, what's acceptable, what't not and how to navigate as best you can.

Just reviewing the year and some highlights from it

Faith has always been something spoken about or referenced, however to understand it and get it for yourself is something completely different.  It has been a journey and a beneficial one that I am constantly learning and growing from and in.  

There is no destination, there is no reward, there is no finish line. It’s a constant process, where it’s very much a rollercoaster at times. However, in the process there is happiness, there is a release that happens if you allow it 

Intimacy is often thought of as a physical and emotional, however there is so much more to intimacy and being intimate. 

Living life and growing, maturing, evolving or however you want to phrase it is done in simpler terms as versions or chapters.  How different each chapter looks is totally up to you 

Everything is not meant to be shared to the world.  Some things are just for you and your close circle, not for public consumption.  

Sometimes she just sees more in you than you see in yourself.  She is not controlling you or forcing you to do anything, she just wants more for you.  It takes a level of self work and self awareness to not take offense and to process and then make the adjustment if you choose too.  

The holidays can be tough for a lot us and navigating the season is not an easy task, so this is just a reminder to be attentive, thoughtful and aware of those you may not being feeling as cheerful during this time of the year.  

Emotions can turn into moods, moods can affect emotions, and feelings are how we interpret our emotions

Self-love is not about thinking you’re perfect.  It’s about knowing that you’re good enough even if you aren’t perfect.   

Living life on purpose and intentionally seemingly makes life easier, to focus on the important things and put forth full attention on those things is life altering. So be intentional in every aspect of life and see what happens.  #podcast #podcasts #podcaster #podcastlove #podcasthost #podcasting #podcastlife #podcastshows #podcasthosts #podcastlistening #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #blackpodca...

Vulnerability is a scary thing, a necessary thing though and everyone doesn’t deserve yours and shouldn’t have it. However, tapping into your emotions and being open to being vulnerable you are able to have deeper relationships that thrive and flourish. 

We all wanted to be accepted, we all want to be validated. Society has made us this way, we all want to be liked and for what, our feelings not to be hurt. However, when you know who you are and whose you are and understand your purpose and walk in that. Acceptance and validation from society and the world, don’t really matter so lets discover ourselves and our purpose and be accepted and validate...

Knowledge is facts and information  Understanding is to perceive the intended meaning  Wisdom is applied knowledge  Knowledge + Understanding = Wisdom Until you start applying the knowledge you know, it means nothing 

Life is a journey and sometimes we have to sit down and sit with God and get an understanding of what we need to do.  Dani has been through ups and downs, however through a period of being attentive she gained clarity and her plan B became her plan A and she stepped out on faith.    Dani’s Info: 312.752.9004      eat@greedygutcollection.com   www.pinterest.com/greedygutcollection   client intake f...

Take time to yourself, get to know yourself, before relationship, after relationship get to know yourself - take time to reconnect and find you and understand you, lessons learned and how to move forward - connect with God, heal yourself  Staying who you are vs evolving, accepting yourself and ensuring that those around you accept you for you and not trying to change you but meet you where you are...

Suicide/Crisis can touch anyone, anywhere, and at any time. But it is not inevitable. There is hope. National Suicide Prevention Week: Sun, Sep 10, 2023 – Sat, Sep 16, 2023 Talk to someone you can trust through the  988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline . Call or text  988  or chat the lifeline. ( https://www.samhsa.gov/suicide) #BeThe1To is the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline’s message for National...

From the vault: Have children they say, you will love it they say lol.  Who is they?  Parenting is not a simple nor easy undertaking yet it is very rewarding and a blessing, consistent learning and growing for both parent and child. 

My guy, Stevo stops by and we talking about a lil bit of everything from work, to life, to relationships, sports and navigating this thing we call life. 

It’s hard out here, we just couldn’t wait until we grew up lol.  Now we just tryna make it and win at this adulting thing 

Matt speaks on his journey of stepping up and fighting for his children and the lessons he has learned along the way. Also, what it looks like to not only leave a legacy for your children but for those around you as well and how you can be a father figure for those around you.

Understanding her journey from middle school teacher to motherhood to the ultimate achievement of becoming a doctor and how through sacrifice on various fronts led to achieving her goals.  

Ange(Lina) stops by and shares her journey into being a fitness model and how she got started.  Then the ultimate task of becoming a mother for the first time and navigating the ups and downs of motherhood while still pursuing her goals as a fitness model.

Shaquanna stops by and shares her journey from college to corporate America and into full-time entrepreneurship.  Noting along the way that we may think things will turn out one way but God has another plan and realizing that, when one door closes God opens another that pushes you into your purpose.  Website:  www.shaquannachappelle.com Wardrobe Styling Services:  https://www.shaquannachappelle.co...