THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST

At 50 years old, I still feel physically sick when I hear these two words. My throat closes up, my chest tightens, and I'm instantly transported back to being that confused, overwhelmed neurodivergent kid who could never seem to get things right. Those words? "Should be." In this vulnerable and eye-opening episode, I share how "should be" thinking is accidentally creating mental health crises in o...

Welcome to The Autism ADHD Podcast. I'm glad you joined me today because my guest, Reid Miles, host of "Inside the Asperger's Studio," and I are talking about why it's so hard to move outside our comfort zone. We are also discussing how to move outside the zone with more comfort and confidence. Some of the topics we are covering are:  Why forcing neurodivergent kids out of their comfort zone backf...

I'm honored to interview Jan Stewart, author of "Hold on Tight." In today's episode, she shares her powerful journey raising two neurodivergent children and provides five essential tips that every parent of ADHD and autistic kids needs to hear. Jan's wisdom comes from decades of advocacy, partnership-building, and learning to trust her instincts while navigating systems that often misunderstand ou...

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Kate Moryoussef, host of the award-winning ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, to discuss the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent mothers. Both diagnosed in their 40s, Kate and I share authentic insights about self-acceptance, burnout prevention, and how to be the calm anchor for our families. Key Topics Discussed The grief and relief that comes wit...

In this powerful episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I sits down with social worker, educator, and author Stephanie Malia Krauss to explore how our society's obsession with productivity can be dangerous for the mental and physical health of neurodivergent children. The good news is that Stephanie and I walk you through practical strategies that make a BIG impact! Don't miss it! Sincerely, Holly Bl...

In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Harry Psaros, author of the Amazon bestseller "From Struggle to Strength: A Father's Journey with Autism and the Power of Hope and Positivity." Harry shares his personal journey of initially denying his son Gus's autism diagnosis and how he eventually became a passionate advocate in the community. He discusses the challenges fathers face in accepting thei...

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I explore how mothers of neurodivergent children can embrace their authentic selves—quirks, sensitivities, and all—and why this is so powerful for modeling self-acceptance. I chat about the pressure to conform to the "good mom" ideal, the costs of masking, and practical strategies for living more authentically. Most importantly, you'll hear about how you...

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, we explore how the nervous system's survival responses (Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn) shape the experiences of neurodivergent children—and ourselves as parents, educators, and therapists. Learn how recognizing these responses can transform challenging behaviors into opportunities for connection and growth. What You'll Learn Why neurodivergent individu...

I'm excited to welcome Dr. Catherine Mutti-Driscoll back to The Autism ADHD Podcast for this special rebroadcast! We are chatting about neurodivergent children and their experience with self-critcism and how this is impacted by social differences, learning needs and executive functioning. Catherine and I also talk about how to move forward with self-compassion.  In This Episode You'll Learn: What...

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, join Dr. Adrian Wood, co-author of the new book "Autism Out Loud" and me, as we dive into anxiety, emotional regulation, and redefining success. We also discuss the significance of flexibility and compassion in parenting, the role of siblings, and the importance of raising awareness and understanding of neurodiversity. Don't miss this episode!  Sincerely...

In this groundbreaking episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I dive deep into Polyvagal Theory and the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) with Dr. Stephen Porges, and Karen Onderko. Learn how understanding our nervous system can transform therapeutic approaches for neurodivergent individuals. Episode Highlights: Dr. Porges explains how Polyvagal Theory helps us understand the neurobiological foundation o...

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I'm excited to welcome Catherine Mutti-Driscoll, Director of Executive Function Coaching at Hallowell Todaro ADHD & Behavioral Health Center, back to discuss Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). We dive into how RSD significantly impacts neurodivergent children and teens and strategies to help them manage these intense emotional experiences. We cover so...

In this powerful episode, Holly welcomes back Kirk Martin, founder of CelebrateCalm.com, to discuss a topic that weighs heavily on many parents' minds: anxiety about their neurodivergent child's future. Join us for this reassuring conversation that will help you embrace your child's unique journey and feel confident about their future, even when it looks different from what you expected. Don't mis...

In this powerful episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I welcome Dr. Devon Price, social psychologist, professor, author, and proud autistic person, to discuss why neurodivergent individuals mask their true selves, the serious mental health consequences of long-term masking, and practical guidance for parents and professionals who want to support authentic expression. Key topics covered: Different m...

Welcome to the Autism ADHD podcast! I'm thrilled you are joining Amanda Morin and I for this important rebroadcast.  We are exploring the challenging but essential concepts of self-regulation and co-regulation. We dive deep into how emotional self-awareness and modeling can empower children and teens. Amanda shares powerful strategies like the '4P' method—Pause, Process, Plan, Proceed—and highligh...

Thanks for joining me today as we revisit how to support self-advocacy in key areas! Why is self-advocacy so important for neurodivergent kids? I'll be answering this question and more so tune:)  ❤️ Holly- The Mom/Psychologist Who Gets It CLICK HERE for Holly's ONE STOP RESOURCE - Social Success Guide, Behavior Guide, and MORE! Learn more about Holly's private practice in North Carolina Learn more...

This episode is for adults only. Take care while listening. This episode of the Autism ADHD podcast features guest Amy Lang, a sexual health educator with over 27 years of experience and founder of Birds and Bees and Kids. In this episode, Amy and I chat about the importance providing sex education to neurodivergent kids. We dive into the "how", "when" plus we provide practical strategies and reso...

You've got to hear this episode! It's all about the dangers of internalized ableism. It happens all the time, and it chips away at our children's mental health. I'm bringing this episode back because it's one we need to revisit often. Join me as I talk about signs of internalized ableism and how we can better support Autistic and ADHD children. I also provide examples and practical strategies! Ple...

Have you ever told a child, "It's not a big deal" or "You're overreacting"? Many of us grew up hearing these phrases, and without realizing it, we may now be saying the same things to the children we support. But what if minimizing a child's emotions does more harm than good—especially for neurodivergent kids? In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I dive into why problem sizing the struggles...

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I sit down with Jan Stewart, mental health and neurodiversity advocate, speaker, and author of the award-winning book Hold On Tight. Jan shares her top five game-changing insights that every parent of a neurodivergent child needs to hear—wisdom gained from raising her own children and years of advocacy work. These lessons will help you trust your instinc...

How we talk to our neurodivergent kids shapes how they see themselves and handle challenges—at home, school, and out in the world. In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I break down the three main ways we give feedback: ✅ Person-focused feedback – Why telling a child they're "smart" or "lazy" can create pressure, anxiety, and shame. ✅ Outcome-focused feedback – How focusing on results (lik...

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I'm joined by Kyle and Sara Wester, licensed professional counselors and parenting coaches - Together, we dig deep into the patterns and beliefs we carry with us—and how to make intentional changes that foster growth, connection, and independence in our kids. Don't miss out! Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist P.S., Don't miss o...

Get ready because you will LOVE this episode of The Autism ADHD podcast. Join Dr. Destiny Huff, Neurodivergent Therapist, and me as we dive into simple and effective ways to support neurodivergent learners and how to create a more neurodiversity-affirming support plan. This episode is packed with practical tips for parents, educators, and therapists, aiming to create a more inclusive and understan...

In this episode of the Autism ADHD Podcast, I share my personal experience growing up with sensory differences and the impact they've had on my life as a neurodivergent individual. I dive into the importance of sensory support and understanding and how this affects mental health. Thank you for taking the time to listen:)  Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist P.S., Don't mi...

🎙️ New Episode Alert! 🎙️ In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I'm chatting with Dr. Ben Miraglia a dental expert with over 30 years of experience, about something that might not be on your radar: mouth breathing and how it affects neurodivergent kids. We dive into: 😴 How mouth breathing can lead to sleep problems and emotional dysregulation 🦷 Key signs to look for, like teeth grinding and...