The Art & Skill of Coaching: Get any client any result using trauma-informed coaching strategies

Episode 105: Coach Series w/ Shelby Kurz   Description: Life is going to continue to happen- Do you choose to view this as an invitation to bounce or double down? Today's guest chose the latter and went from a $27k coaching business to a million dollar company in just 3 years. Not to mention doing so while birthing two children, having a husband with military orders, and facing open heart surgery...

Description: The life you want tomorrow starts with decisions you make today. And HOW you make decisions will determine your results. Tune into this interview with life coach Lindsey Mango to learn how she stopped living the 'perfect' life for others and created the beautiful life she secretly dreamed of through coaching herself and others.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_c...

Description: You can do 'the work', but if you're lacking results, you might not be going deep enough. Marsha found herself in a hospital bed before she discovered the modality that would change her life and health. Tune into today's coach interview to learn about NLP and the power deep coaching can have in both your life and your client's lives.   ----------  Free Resources:   Blocks to Owning Yo...

Description: Blending a doctorate in psychology with almost a decade of experience in the health/fitness industry, Kasey breaks down the core of coaching- bridging the gap using science between knowing what we should do and actually making lasting behavioral change.  ----------    Free Resources:   Retrain Your Brain: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in 7 Weeks: A Workbook for Managing Depression and...

Description: Tune into today's interview with business strategist Emily to learn how to become a multi-faceted coach who has sustainable energy and systems for a meaningful business.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com Application Call: www.chatwithjess.com   Emily Cassel's IG: @emilycasselofficial @wmnup   

Description: My journey into coaching was far from linear. Tune into today's episode to hear how I found my way into coaching and what it looked like behind the scenes to find my purpose and build my business.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com Application Call: www.chatwithjess.com    

Description: Stories don't need to be interpreted, therefore they are more readily accepted by clients on an unconscious level. These stories can offer inspiration, hope, lessons and encourage consideration without clients even being aware of it. And in this episode, I teach you the simple steps to creating an intentional story that is relevant and symbolic to your coaching client to help them mak...

Description: Enrollment for the next round of The Art & Skill of Coaching training program is now open. And in today's episode, I interviewed a coach who graduated from this training last year. Katie shares openly about her coaching journey, experience coaching with me, and how ASC helped her and her business.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicadem...

Description: 2023 was a tough year for me- full of loss and challenges (both personal and professional). I learned a lot and shared my top lessons from this year.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com  

Description: As the coach, your job is to pay attention to what is being said and not being said, what is being seen and felt, and what you can teach and allow. In today's episode I break down the invisible but tangible energetics of coaching and how they can take your coaching deeper with clients.  ----------  Free Resources:   A Shift in Being- The Art and Practices of Deep Transformational Coac...

Description: There is a difference between optimism that moves a client forward and positivity that shuts them down. In today's episode, I break down the difference, discuss the harms of toxic positivity, and teach you what to do/say instead on your coaching calls.  ----------  Free Resources:   Toxic Positivity: Why It's Harmful, What to Say Instead (verywellmind.com) ----------  Stay Connected ...

Description: Group coaching can be mutually beneficial for both the coach and the client AND has its own set of challenges. In today's episode I am going to go over all things group coaching including what it is, the pros and cons of it, the key ingredients to a great group, group stages, problematic members, and so much more. This is a must listen if you are in the coaching space!  ----------  Fr...

Adding structure to a coaching session can be an effective way to add to the success of a call. In today's episode, I share a simple format that is backed by science to create cohesiveness, focus and change for a client.  ----------    Free Resources:   Coaching Questions: A Coach's Guide to Powerful Asking Skills by Tony Stoltzfus   ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching...

Description: Good coaching focuses on actions. However, if you want the client's new results from changed behavior to stay and/or continue, great coaching incorporates working on the thought level too. Because you can't outwork a belief. Tune into today's episode to learn my table technique used to break down beliefs holding you back and build new ones that will move you forward.    ----------   ...

Description: As a coach, you are not your client's friend. Coaching is more than being a supportive listener; it is a skilled professional trained to help a client create different results. Tune into today's episode to learn what coaching is and what it is not.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com  

There is a form of questioning that is subtle but powerful in helping clients build awareness, breakthrough, and create empowering beliefs that will set the foundation for their uplevel. The best part?! It is scientifically proven and easy. Tune into today's episode to learn about and how to use Socratic Questioning.  ----------    Free Resources:   Socratic Questioning in Psychology: Examples and...

There is a science to change and coaching, but there is also an art form and wisdom that takes it to the next level. In today's episode, I discuss what the energetics of coaching are, why it is important and share a few tips to take your coaching practice deeper for yourself and clients.    ----------    Free Resources:   A Shift in Being by Leon Vanderpol    ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram:...

Breakups are hard- whether they are with family, friends or romantic partners. But there are tools that can help you navigate those difficult transitions and associate emotions that I share with you in today's episode.    ----------    Free Resources:   How Not to Die Alone by Logan Ury Soul Broken by Stephanie Sarazin The Mastery of Love by Miguel Ruiz Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser ---------- ...

Sometimes overwhelm by either the big picture or the small details can keep you stuck. Today, I am teaching a simple concept to help you move through thought barriers and into clarity.  ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com  

Everyone's growth journey is different, but most clients will work their way through six stages. Tune into today's episode to learn about a concept called the hero's journey and how it can help take your coaching to the next level.  ----------    Free Resources:   The Hero's Journey: Step-By-Step Guide with Examples (prowritingaid.com) hero's journey - Bing images The Hero's Journey according to J...

The coaching industry has been throwing around some clinical terms that are concerning: narcissistic, depressed, traumatized, etc. These labels can be stigmatizing and over/misused online. Coaches are not qualified to diagnose and need to be mindful of their language with clients to prevent operating outside of their scope. Tune into today's episode to hear why even as a licensed therapist, I proc...

Most humans engage in thought patterns that distort their reality and negatively impact their experience. And in today's episode, I am sharing three common thinking errors you and/or your coaching clients are likely to experience as well as how to disrupt them.  ----------    Free Resources:     Cognitive Distortions: 22 Examples & Worksheets (& PDF) (positivepsychology.com)   ----------  Stay Con...

Today, I talk about the most common mistake I see life coaches make… caring too much. Too much of anything can cause problems, and that is true with caring as well. When left unchecked, caring can result in trying to rush, fix, or lead a client through their growth versus guiding them through their work. Tune in to hear my three tips for managing the shadow side of caring as a coach.  ---------- ...

You all got to ask me anything about my business & I answered your questions in real time. Tune in to today's episode to hear about how I got started in the coaching industry, what type of coaching I personally invest in as well as some behind the scenes to my business. ----------  Free Resources:   N/A ----------  Stay Connected  Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.c...

The subconscious speaks in pictures, sounds, and feelings not words. So, when goal setting neglects these specifics, we are only using 5% of our brain power to help us hit goals. Tune into today's episode to learn a NLP technique called outcome statements to integrate your subconscious into your change work for yourself and coaching clients.  ----------    Free Resources:   N/A ----------  Stay Co...