The Art of Validation

In this video, I share how I healed my anxious attachment using real psychology, nervous system work, and honest storytelling, not just “stop overthinking” advice. We’ll walk through 5 signs of anxious attachment, why it often starts in childhood wounds, and how it shows up in modern relationships, especially if you grew up around unpredictable love. You’ll learn practical tools to move from anxio...

The struggle, the pressure and the " making it picture perfect" are some of the common things when you're in your 20s. But let me remind you, sometimes being lost means you're doing it right, let this episode be a reminder of what you really are. And it's not always about their timeline but yours alone.

Ever wonder why sometimes you feel like more burned out than excited? Especially on those things you felt passionate about before. Let this episode remind you what you deserve. What you really do deserve.

In this episode, let me tell you how to finally walk away. Walk away from things that cause you so much pain, let me walk you through a way to the things that you deserve. Because you are so much more.

Sa episode na 'to ng The Art of Validation , real talk tayo. Tama na ang pag-romanticize ng red flags. Tama na rin ang pag-aaccept ng bare minimum. Hindi ka mahirap mahalin—baka lang mali yung taong pinipilit mong umintindi sa'yo. Kung gusto ka talaga, may gawa. Hindi puro salita. Kasi totoo naman: "If you wanted to, you would." Pag-usapan natin kung bakit tayo kumakapit sa konting effort at paano...

Emotional intelligence should be a basic requirement—especially for those serious about personal growth. Listen to this podcast if you want to improve one of the most important traits you can have. Strengthening your emotional intelligence helps you build better relationships with friends, partners, and everyone around you. It’s about understanding different personalities and managing emotions—bot...

Not everything is a personal attack. Not every side comment is a red flag. And nope, that awkward moment from 3 days ago? No one’s thinking about it except you 😩 This week, we’re calling ourselves out —because why do we take everything so seriously? From passive-aggressive chats to TikTok-level overthinking, let’s figure out how to stop spiraling and start actually living.

We all carry silent struggles—fears, doubts, and hardships that we rarely put into words. In this episode, we dive into the unseen battles we fight every day, from self-doubt and loneliness to financial stress and imposter syndrome. Why do we keep these struggles to ourselves? And what happens when we finally open up? Join us as we explore real stories, deep reflections, and the power of vulnerabi...

These are the major SIGNS that someone you're talking to or dating wastes your time

Ano nga ba ang mga sign para malaman na siya na yung "The One"? Meron nga bang ibibigay ang universe? Lagi yang ang tanong ng lahat but bihira mapag usapan ang kabaliktaran nito, so let me tell you the signs na hindi talaga kayo meant to be, kahit ipilit mo, kahit mag adjust ka pa. Ready your emotion, open your mind cause this episode is the Real Sign. Don't miss our fresh new episodes every Monda...

Does online dating sucks? People tend to choose dating online, kasi minsan dahil they are being shy to talk to someone in public and that is the easiest way to get to know someone, but minsan naiisip natin na is it really possible na magwork ang online dating? Ano nga ba ang down fall din nito? Let's talk about why online dating sucks.

Paano nga ba maging productive kapag sobrang heart broken ka,? Wala kang gana, masakit, but may choice ba tayo? I guess oo, ang magpatuloy kahit mahirap, bumangon kahit ang bigat. In this new episode, let me help you deal with this thing, I might share some tips para makaahon ka. Kasi at the end of the day? Natuto ka

Let's discuss the truth behind each trending relationship metaphor, theory, and Psychological concept and what interesting lectures we can get from popularizing these internet discussions. Moreso, what does it say about our current generation? Leaving the Restaurant, Orange People Theory, Taxi Cab Theory, Iceberg Theory of Personality, and Roman Empire.

Finally, we all deserve distance. A moment to put ourselves first. Detachment is a sincere commitment to yourself when people around you are overwhelming. Some forms of detachment were already embedded in us since our childhood years. It might become a form of trauma response from all the toxic attachments we have around people. Learning to channel detachment not just a trauma response, but a form...

Growing up I have this tendency to get sadder. I've been through series of obstacles and delimmas, I strongly fear that it may not get any better in the future. It's in my nature to interpret things with much more depth to them. Change, aging, graduation, breakups, and fallout. I'm the most sensitive person in the room. I process these things longer than the people I know which has always made me...

Part of my healing process is knowing my flawed behaviors and irrational ways of thinking. Some behaviors unfortunately persist because they were modeled to us, or because of their unconscious nature —we don't have the complete awareness. In this episode, I discussed how I unlearned some behaviors that I thought were alright, and In this process, I developed a more rounded well-being. Why do we ov...

A breakdown of notes and lessons I have from my long-term friendships. What made me categorize my friends according to the degree of our interaction, what makes a friendship SOOO good? Green flags , and some of intruiging questions being asked to friends. What are the reasons why we outgrow some of our friends? Stories and unavoidable truth for sticking around the people you trust and honor. Some...

There is a Psychological perspective as to why Falling Out of Love happen even in long-term relationships. Let us unpack the dynamic of the relationship when one partner is starting to fall out of love, and reasons why they are slowly fading away. Does Falling out of Love always lead to a breakup? Listen to what you can do when the relationship is starting to fall out.

One of the MOST requested Topics. This episode highlights how people with specific attachment style operate in the relationship and the misconceptions that arise in knowing our attachment style. This gives advices as to how you can assess yourself in the relationship with your specific attachment style. Attachment is the bond we develop with someone (Caregiver or a Partner) who provides us the nee...

Welcome! To the first episode of the Art of Validation Podcast. How do childhood experiences affect our Adult Personality? In this episode we are going to tackle Theories of Personality specifically the Psychology behind early life experiences which shape Adult Personality. Disclaimer: Virtual Kuya is a not a practicing or a licensed therapist. He has a degree in Psychology, and has adequate exper...

What it means to be Validated? One way to discover the truth about human psyche is through besting information. Let’s dissect the science of human behavior to explain our pain, struggle, and relationships. This show will highlight the practicality of psychological concepts, lesson, and research to explain this generation’s dilemmas and perverse situations. Disclaimer: The host of this show is not...