The Art of The Ask

What if pitching wasn't about sending more emails — but about making more friends? Today, I sit down with Ashley B. Jones — Mentor, Artist, Philosopher, Psychic, and neurodivergent habit architect — to talk about what happens when you stop pitching for clout and start pitching for soulmate connections. We get into how Ashley sold out her program on TikTok in a week to fund joining Pitch Perfec...

Are you a dinner party person or a house party person? The reason I ask? It shows you a LOT about how you relate to pitching and visibility. 👀 Today, I sit down with Ximena , everyone's favorite eco-philosopher, to discuss the power of human relationships and how it 10X your visibility, how to reframe pitching when it feels icky, and why it's completely okay to pitch more intimately and f...

So many of us hold ourselves back from pitching because we don't have a massive social media following, digital presence or booming online audience. This imaginary math that your following = more bookings is costing you serious opportunities, from both a visibility AND financial standpoint. But what you offer, your lens, and your PRESENCE are worth gold compared to an IG following. Your cinematic...

The biggest myth around increasing your visibility is thinking it's about VOLUME: blasting out 100 emails per week, nonstop appearances, and jumping on as many platforms as you possibly can squeeze into your schedule. But you're not an octopus with nine brains and eight arms. Also, you're not a clout-chaser. Giana Cesaria , anthrophilosopher and teacher of systems, conditioning and rew...

If you find pitching to be worse than the chores your parents gave you when you were eight years old and fantasize about outsourcing it to a glamorous PR agency, thinking you'll get featured in Forbes or Vogue, become famous, and stack cold-hard cash simply from your newfound visibility...come sit. We need to talk. Abbi Miller from WorkWomb joins us today to share why becoming her own PR agent...

Your fave pop-up podcast is BACK for Season 2! Kicking off today with an update on everything I've asked for, including: an extended payment plan from my tax team (and the unexpected surprise they hit me with) cash from someone I barely knew an indie bookstore to buy my books from me a few more requests that resulted in huge wins At some point, it was admirable to do everything alone, right? B...

What if you could just... ask someone to be your client? I'm so serious. Put down the automated funnels. Say goodbye to the free webinars. Break up with the 14-email nurture sequence. In this episode, I'm walking you through how I slid in someone's DMs that turned into a 2 year partnership and over $60K invested, and used the same strategy to have my biggest launch of Pitch Perfect eve...

Let's address the elephant in this visibility glow-up room: imposter syndrome. In this episode, I'm breaking down what an imposter actually is (spoiler: unless you're actively scamming people out of their life savings or the Tinder Swindler, you're fine) and why feeling intimidated just means you're expanding. I'll walk you through the real mindset shifts and practical move...

Your most requested episode is here: HOW TO ASK FOR MONEY! How do you make such a big, bold, audacious ask?! In today's ep, I'm breaking down why money is such an anxiety-inducing topic, and the different ways to ask for money, including asking for a raise, a family investment into your biz, a refund from an airline and more! PLUS, I spill the tea on the time I was in Australia and BROKE A...

This episode is a full on MASTERCLASS on how ask for something and position yourself when you have nothing to show for it. I'm talking no shiny analytics, no experience, no previous work... how on EARTH do you shoot your shot when it feels like you have nothing to offer?! I break it down in the most Virgo-Moon detail possible, including: how I landed podcast sponsors, brand deals and massive d...

Remember when every coach told you to "post consistently", "show up" and "provide value" on social media? Somatic Depth Coach Antonia Dolhaine did that for YEARS. She created insane viral graphics, wrote endless carousels, and dealt with the classic entrepreneur nightmare: hours spent on Canva graphics leading to tons of inquiries from people who weren't actually...

This week, I get into the number one thing that holds people back from asking for what they want: fear of rejection. I'll share the psychology around the fear of rejection and why building up a tolerance to get rejected is the fastest way to build meaningful connections, ironically! Episode snippets: Most people aren't sitting around dissecting your asks in group chats (that's your ins...

In this kickoff episode of "The Art of the Ask," a limited series podcast all about the power of asking for what you ACTUALLY want—whether in business, life, or relationships, I share how I've SHOT MY SHOT and gotten exactly what I wanted (and of course, how you can too)! This episode starts with a definition of what "asking" actually means (you know my Virgo Moon/Rising lo...