The Art of Love With Lucia

The no contact rule is so powerful and effective, it works on both men and women. No one is immune to the power of the no contact rule. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why no contact works on everyone. If you want to get an ex back, the no contact rule is the only rule you should follow.

The #1 fear of people doing no contact is that their ex will move on or has moved on with someone else. So they think that staying in touch instead of doing no contact will prevent their ex from meeting or moving on with someone else. As with many things in dating, this will have the opposite effect and will lower your chances of getting your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why...

Valentine's Day is coming up in a few days. If you've been using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you may be thinking of breaking it to send a card or flowers. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses whether or not you should break the no contact rule and reach out to your ex on February 14.

What should you be doing during no contact, now that you have a lot of extra time. How you choose to this time, is going to affect your future relationships. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do during no contact so that you will have the best chance of either getting back with your ex and having a better relationship.

Does the no contact rule work on women?  Can you use the no contact rule to get your ex girlfriend back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether or not you can use the no contact rule on your girlfriend to get her back.  If you're a woman, and you don't think the no contact rule will work on you, you may change your mind after seeing this video.

If you've been broken up with, no contact is the best way to get your ex back. What about if you were the one who did the breaking up? Can you get your ex back if you broke up with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains under what circumstances the dumper can get their ex back using no contact.

Will time make your ex forget you or miss you? People doing no contact are often worried that their ex will forget them. They also wonder if their ex will miss them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "faded affect bias" and an "open loop" will make it difficult for your ex to forget you and, if their interest level is high enough, they'll also miss you.

This is the podcast you've been waiting for! The one that tells you if and when you can break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the exact time and situation when it will be okay to break no contact and reach out to your ex if you still want them back.

Being dumped can be one of the most devastating things to happen to you. It's very easy to slip into depression when you've been rejected by someone you love. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses why you don't need to be depressed after a break up and what you can do instead.

What is your ex thinking during no contact? Are they thinking about you? Do they regret breaking up with you? Do they wish you'd reach out? Are they wondering why they haven't heard from you? Or are they not thinking about you at all and they've moved on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes into detail to tell you exactly what your ex is thinking during no contact.

One of the biggest fears of people doing no contact is that their ex will think they've moved on if they don't hear from them. So they stay in touch with texts, calls and even meeting up in person, in order to reassure their ex they're still available. They also want to make sure their ex doesn't move on with someone else. They think that staying in their ex's life will stop them from moving on wi...

As the first podcast of the year, we want to inspire you to stick to no contact by hearing about others who've had success with it. This version includes: A woman who didn't respond when her ex texted her during no contact. After running into him at an event, he reached out again and said he'd been a jerk and wanted to get back together. A woman who heard from her ex after 32 days of no contact af...

What is the most effective way for a woman to get her ex-boyfriend back? For this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia interviewed Dr. Duana Welch, who is know for using social science to solve dating and relationship issues. Dr. Welch reveals the best way (according to scientific research) for a woman to get back with a man who dumped her. Buy Duana Welch's books: https://amzn.to/2EfePuy AND h...

Hip hop power couple Cardi B and Offset recently separated after rumors about Offset's infidelity during Cardi B's pregnancy became public. Offset stopped Cardi B's show recently to present her with 2000 roses and an apology. It didn't work and Cardi B kicked him off stage. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why his apology didn't work and what Offset needs to do in order to win back Cardi...

What is the no contact rule? There seems to be a lot of confusion as to what no contact is. Does it mean you don't respond when your ex contacts you? Does it mean you wait 30 days and then contact your ex if you haven't heard from them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia clears up the confusion as to what no contact is and most importantly, what it isn't.

No matter what the specific reason why your ex broke up with you, it's always a secondary reason. There is only one reason why your ex broke up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why attachment styles, childhood trauma and trust issues are not the main reasons why someone ends a relationship and what the #1 reason for breakups is.

If you've done no contact correctly, at some point your ex will reach out and you'll eventually meet up. You've made it to this point, so don't mess it up now! Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives a detailed account from what to wear, where to sit and how to behave when you finally get together with your ex after the breakup.

Is there a way to find out whether someone is interested in you, without asking them? Or should you just ask so you'll know for sure? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 foolproof way to find out how someone really feels about you, without having to ask.

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're probably on the look out for signs that they want you back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the signs which show that your ex may want you back.

If you're trying to get your ex back, you probably think you need to make sure you don't make them angry, or they'll never come back.  This leads to behaving like a doormat and thinking that you have to respond to whatever crumb of attention they give you during no contact.  That's why you think you don't want to make your ex angry. What does it mean if your ex is angry at you?  Does it mean you d...

If you only dated your ex for a short time - a few weeks or a few months - will no contact still work? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the length of the relationship doesn't determine whether no contact will work.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and your ex finally texts you, should you respond? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should respond to your ex texting you and more importantly, when you shouldn't respond.

If you're finding it difficult, if not impossible, to not contact your ex after a break up, you're not alone. It's not your fault. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the biological reason why no contact is so difficult and offers a solution.

You may have heard of the 30 day no contact rule but did you know there is also a 60 day no contact rule? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the 60 day no contact rule is and why it’s more effective than the 30 day rule.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you may eventually run into your ex somewhere. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do and what not to do so you don't mess up the progress you've made up to that point.