The Ars Amorata Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Episode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women ___________________________________________________ The realization of ‘the power of now’ and truly ‘being in the present moment’ are incredibly useful tools that a man can use to get much more out of life, and access an entirely hidden realm of the Land of Women.  Indeed, ‘getting present’ is often an important–and necessar...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women ____________________________________________________ The way in which your ‘state’ is affected by a woman you’re attracted to is the tell-tale sign, signifying your chances of having her be attracted back to you or not. Men who have abundance simply don’t get anxious, nervous or feel ashamed when they come across a gi...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women ____________________________________________________ In today’s episode, Zan unpacks a powerful distinction between two energies of masculinity: the ‘upper energy’ we’re all used to—conversation, empathy, charm—and the ‘lower energy’ that creates a truly transformative connection. Consider that your body...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 10 – Mystique and Vulnerability ____________________________________________________ Cultivating a quality of vulnerability is vital for men seeking fulfilling experiences with women. “But surely I can’t look weak in her eyes”, some men will say–“she won’t want to be around me”. They posture. Others, seeking a deep, heart-to-heart connection, venture into heavy territory t...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction ____________________________________________________ In the movie Scarface, Al Pacino’s character famously lays out a ‘blueprint for getting women’: first you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the woman. It’s a paradigm that many men buy into. And to a degree, it’s true. However, if you’re here, then you’re probably...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 8 – Perspective and Choosing Curiosity ____________________________________________________ Any true seeker—and if you're reading this, then you probably are one—will go through life in a series of phases. Jordan is currently embarking on a new chapter himself. In today’s episode, he shares how he actually lost sight of the original intentions for his big life change...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 7 – Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth ____________________________________________________ Many men come to Ars Amorata to overcome a lingering feeling of deficiency in their life force. They want to meet women, but when they go out, they hit a wall. Or, they engage with a woman, but as things get physical, they somehow lose her. In today’s episode, Zan gives us a r...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols ____________________________________________________ Many of you have been asking… so here it is: Today, Jordan helps us discover the pearl of great price: exactly what Zan does to keep himself youthful, vibrant and energized–not just in body, but in spirit! It is well-known that Zan keeps himself up-to-date with technology, and his dedication...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship ____________________________________________________ Last week, Zan and Jordan discussed how a relationship can be a powerful vehicle for growth, and looked at some of the ways that we might draw inspiration from tradition and the sacred to create relationships that ground us in what matters most. In today’s conversa...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’ _____________________________________________ A viewer asked for our thoughts on relationships and the ‘evolution of consciousness’. I have never heard Zan mention these words, so I was curious to get his take. On my side of things, an ‘evolutionary relationship’ – a way of framing intimacy with my woman as a place whe...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past) ____________________________________________________ At some point, every man on this journey has to ask himself: do I truly like women? Even the most ardent lover has a place in his heart where he’s been wounded and thus closes off. And if, on the whole, you don’t really like women all that much, it will be...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation (Or, how to always know what your lover will do next) ____________________________________________________ Many of our listeners have asked over the years, how do I see another person more deeply? How can I understand how a particular dating or social dynamic is going to unfold? These are good questio...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave ____________________________________________________ You heard that right... Friend Zone Pro Just like the iPhone Pro: a bigger, more complex, and more expensive form of friend-zone, with extra applications to keep you locked in. As we get older, the nuances of the ‘friend zone’ start changing...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation ____...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!  In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation ___...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love ________...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _______...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _______...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Six of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _________...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love ________...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Three of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _______...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _________...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _________...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love _________...

Send us Fan Mail A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion . Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Women ______...