The Ars Amorata Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Episode 38 — Dating and the Grasp of Technology ____________________________________________________ You’ve probably seen the stats on online dating. In 2019, a Stanford University survey suggested that 39% of new couples, across the US, met online, surpassing any other form of introduction. And you’ve probably experienced, first-hand, that most popular dating sites are—when it co...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 37 — Is There an 80/20 Approach to Seduction? Note: Part 1 of this series called "Return to the Land of Women" premiered here: https://youtu.be/dqMT7HdqioM ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 36 — High or Low: Where are You on the Spectrum? ____________________________________________________ Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD (What Would Zan Do) Live—a full week of immersive, hands-on training with real models. No more dry theory: learn sub-communication to command attention, master magnetic eye contact that sparks unforgettable connections, and explore th...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 35 — Attracting Women’s Attention: Subtle Shifts in Demeanour that Other Men Don’t Know ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 34 — How to Build Community Pt.2 | Leveraging Curiosity ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD (...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 33 — Building Community and Attracting People Into Your Circle ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? Someone who ri...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 32 — How To Access True Power and Thrive ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then r...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 31 — How To Know if You Found a ‘One'? ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, comp...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 30 — Overcome Your Reactivity and Melt Through Her Shell ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 29 — How To Recapture Your Mojo After a Break-up or Divorce ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www. Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves y...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider ____________________________________________________ Zan famously writes in The Alabaster Girl, “Love is symmetrical…The ones you love are the ones who love you”.  Many men (and women) have read and re-read this line, understanding it conceptually, yet fail to *know the experience of being symmetrically i...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 27 — Women Don’t Want a Man of Extremes – They Want Someone Balanced and Integrated ____________________________________________________ In response to last week’s conversation about forging an essence of masculine excellence now, and in the future, one viewer posed a question to our Amorati membership circle that Zan and Jordan attempt to answer this week. “To a cultural...

Send us Fan Mail Epsiode 26 — Build a Vision of Your Masculinity from a Blank Canvas Today’s discussion starts in response to one viewer’s comment on his perception of the use of “re-” in the messaging of last episode’s ideas around men ‘reclaiming’ and ‘restoring’ their masculine essence.  “Spaking in these terms, you’re looking backwards…it’s not forward-creating”, he commented.  Zan tells us th...

Send us Fan Mail The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 25 — Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence ____________________________________________________ Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence Today, Jordan and Zan shed light on one of the most fundamental, core (literally) shortcomings that men who want to be able to turn women on, must...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 24 — Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover  ____________________________________________________ Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover  Today’s episode is a response to the following question from a viewer: “How can I celebrate women, and enjoy my encounters with them, when I’m in my warrior energy, and not lose it?”  Zan and Jordan each bring a unique perspective to the...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 23 — What To Do When She Brings the Storm ____________________________________________________ If you’re in relationship with a woman, you can expect that–at some point or another–she will serve you up a juicy personal dilemma of hers.  Its origin may have nothing to do with you, however, your own sense of well-being, and ultimately the state of your relationship will depe...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 22 — Explore Your Relationship to Women and Step Into What’s Beyond ____________________________________________________ On the heels of gathering in Bucharest for the Spring 2025 Amorati Conference, Jordan and Zan meet this week and reflect on the conversation had, discuss the true value of embracing the Ars Amorata philosophy, and answer the much-asked question, “How do...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 21 — Life Beyond Porn — The Pearl to be Snatched from the Murky Abyss ____________________________________________________ Every mindful man eventually faces this question: how do we navigate our relationship with sexuality in a world saturated with pornographic imagery? If you want to feel masterful with your sexual impulses and desires, porn is a universe, a likely addic...

Send us Fan Mail The Zan and Jordan Show Episode 20 — Semen Retention: Benefits, Usefulness, and Can You Go Too Far? ____________________________________________________ Have you ever gone a few days without ejaculating, and noticed that you felt stronger, more confident, or that people seemed more attracted to you? Could consciously not cumming grant you access to some otherwise-impossible-to-exp...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture ____________________________________________________ What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large. Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, predicting that if they put their best foot forward...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women? ____________________________________________________ Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “ I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to with women, and I don’t want to feel like I fore...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep? ____________________________________________________ Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to? Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?" Or when you...

Send us Fan Mail Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 16 – Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely ____________________________________________________ If you’re reading this, then like Zan and Jordan, you’re probably a seeker of the finest treasures in life–of freedom, truth, love, connection and grace .  And if you’re reading this, then I imagine that sometimes, you feel secretly lonely. This is r...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman?  ____________________________________________________ One astute viewer of the podcast recently commented on a difference he noticed in Zan and Jordan’s overall styles when it comes to engaging with women.  The crux of Zan’s approach lies in honouring the immediate connection he feels with a woman and allowing it to fl...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: how to let go and enjoy the dance with women ____________________________________________________ “How do I stop being so serious and become genuinely more playful?” I find it fascinating that it took 14 episodes of Abundance in the Land Of Women for this question to come up–but I’m not surprised. You see, while the man who asks himself what he’...