The Annoyed Adult

In this episode, Howard Kam tackles three burning questions that perfectly capture the chaos of modern adolescence and adulthood. First, he goes off on why saying “excuse me” and “thank you” has somehow become advanced-level etiquette, and why parents need to stop acting shocked when their manners-less kids behave exactly like them. Then he dives into the age-old bathroom-hotbox crisis in high sch...

This episode swings through three real-life panic buttons: a high school senior terrified they’re not cut out to be an English teacher, a teacher in November already mentally on fire and ready to throw a desk, and an adult trying to figure out how the hell you actually build new friendships after ditching the toxic circus. We dig into whether teaching is actually worth it or if it’s just masochism...

A short episode where a student gives a nonsense "I can't study" response. Here is what I did.

In this episode of The Annoyed Adult , Howard tackles three burning (and sometimes stinky) questions. First, should you warn parents your kid is in your class, or just teach like a pro and let them figure it out? Then, the absolute insanity of a principal banning staff from taking a dump in the office bathroom—yes, really. Finally, a young adult wants to escape Dad’s full-blown NSA-level phone tra...

In this episode of The Annoyed Adult , we’re serving up a triple-decker sandwich of hard truths: first, a 20-year-old wants to get married without ever having paid a utility bill—adorable. Then, a listener's friend with a drug habit comes asking for two grand like it’s a GoFundMe for bad choices. And finally, a high school senior with ADHD and undiagnosed dyslexia asks for actual help—and blows ha...

In this episode of The Annoyed Adult Podcast , Howard Kam dives headfirst into the hormonal hot tub of teenage glow-ups, attention span genocide, and emotionally intelligent parenting (without turning into a Hallmark card). From a former fat kid turned Greek god trying to decode hot girl intentions, to students whose brains have been rewired by Minecraft parkour clips, to a dad trying to support h...

In this unfiltered episode of The Annoyed Adult , Howard Kam rips into three modern disasters: first, the delusional parents turning childhood into a performance review with back-to-back extracurriculars like they’re raising a LinkedIn influencer. Next up, it’s open season on pseudoscience — healing crystals, magnetic wristbands, aura cleanses, and all the overpriced snake oil you slap on your bod...

In this episode, we tackle five real-life dilemmas with zero sugarcoating and a heavy dose of tough love. From refusing to fund a friend’s sketchy coffee startup to dealing with an unmotivated, Roblox-addicted 20-year-old nephew, we explore where personal responsibility, boundaries, and blunt honesty collide. We also unpack why strangers might give you the stink eye (hint: it's probably not hygien...

Ever feel like you're surrounded by absurdities and just want to scream? Welcome to "The Annoyed Adult," the podcast that fearlessly tackles life's most frustrating dilemmas. Join your host, Howard Kim, as he dishes out no-holds-barred opinions on everything from incompetent parenting and the necessity of homework to navigating family drama and moving on from past relationships . If you're looking...

Your favorite teacher podcast is officially back after a brief (and eventful!) hiatus! In this June 2025 Q&A, we're tackling real-world teacher problems submitted by you. Get ready for a frank discussion on those "niche" issues like battling a noisy weightlifting class above you and the baffling inefficiency of old-school prom payments. We also dive into handling spousal jealousy over summer b...

Life's a buffet, but which side are you on? Indulge in the chocolate fountain of pleasure or embrace the stoic bowl of self-discipline? Join us as we explore the age-old philosophies of hedonism and stoicism, dissecting their modern-day relevance and helping you find the perfect balance in your life. Expect laughs, insights, and maybe even a philosophical crisis or two.

Why do parents disrespect teachers? What is currently being done about it? What does Howard Kam do in his classroom that's different?

In this episode students talk trash about other students and teachers!

Thanks to the Kiana and Chance for allowing me to be on your podcast 2 Girls, 1 Boy. You can find their show here https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/2-girls-1-boy. We're talking parenting styles from different generations.

In this episode host Howard Kam explores the stark contrasts between affluent and rundown neighborhoods, analyzing the impact of resources, education, and social structures on community well-being. He delves into the concept of the "youth bulge," where a large population of young people in struggling areas contributes to social issues like crime and gang violence. Howard also stresses the importan...

Entitled student that blames everyone else for his problems and a kid that blocks the gym equipment.

Howard and Taylor discuss the differences between Korea, Japan, and the U.S. education system. Along the way we talk shit about other people.

Ever wonder why teens insist on wearing sweaters in the blazing sun? Us too! In this hilariously bewildered episode of The Annoyed Adult, we dive into the perplexing world of teenage fashion choices. Join us as we sweat it out trying to understand the logic behind this trend. But that’s not all! We’ll also tackle the daily nightmare of traffic jams – because nothing says "fun" like being stuck in...

In this bittersweet episode, The Annoyed Adult sits down with some of his amazing graduating seniors, the very same group he's guided for the past four years. We'll reminisce about favorite memories from freshman year jitters to senior year triumphs. We'll hear from students about their lives and their plans for the future. Laughter, maybe a few tears, and a whole lot of heart will fil...

Grab a drink (and maybe some earplugs for the easily offended) and pull up a chair as Howard Kam and his crew gather around the table. This week, it's a free-for-all as they unleash a barrage of off-color jokes, relive the horrors of bad high school presentations, dissect the wild world of esports, and dive deep into some questionable human behaviors. Be warned: this episode is raw, uncensored...

In this eye-opening episode of "The Annoyed Adult," host Howard Kam delves into the contentious topic of tipping culture in America and its alarming parallels to modern-day wage slavery. From its origins in feudal Europe to its prevalence in post-Civil War America, tipping has evolved into a customary practice that perpetuates inequality and exploitation within the service industry. Draw...

In this episode I cover questions of "Is being a substitute worth it?", "How do I remember all the kids names", "Do teachers do anything about self-harm scars?", "School wide discipline", "Burnout", and "Are other professionals as emotionally involved as teachers?"

Have you ever wondered what goes through a high school teacher's mind? Well, hold on tight because Howard Kam, the tell-it-like-it-is educator, dives headfirst into student and teacher dilemmas straight from Reddit! This is part one of an unfiltered, thought-provoking journey where Howard tackles real questions about homework struggles, classroom dynamics, and everything in between. Be prepare...

Featuring Julia Shintaku from the Top 10 Podcast. We delve into the world of teenage etiquette or the lack thereof. Join Julia and I on a candid exploration of manners, or the apparent absence of them, among today's youth.

Ever wonder what it's like to have an AI as your cohost? Join me as I team up with ChatGPT, the cutting-edge chatbot. Are we living in an episode of Black Mirror, or is this the dawn of a new era of collaborative content creation? Tune in and find out!