The Add Tax Podcast

Heyyyy divas I’m SO excited to share this episode with you!! I really hit a flow state. In this final installment of the  Breaking Out of the Matrix  series, I’m talking about why I no longer romanticize marriage and how women are brainwashed from childhood to center relationships and male validation as the ultimate accomplishment. We’re unpacking marriage/relationship pressure, identity outside o...

Heyyy divas! I've been SO excited to share this episode with you!! Last year, I flipped the bird to the church and started breaking out of The Matrix of religious indoctrination. So, this week on The Add Tax Podcast, I’m sharing why I left Christianity and what I've realized during my deconstruction journey so far. I talk about how religion shaped my mindset: from fear and anxiety around h...

Heyyy divas, let’s get into it. Today, I’m talking about why I genuinely LOVE being CHILDFREEEEE and how I came to that decision for my own life. From the cost of raising a child, to the state of the world, and the reality of motherhood…we’re snatching the veil OFF of the picture-perfect vision of motherhood. Not all of us are meant to be mothers, and that’s okay. This is about giving yourself per...

Giving up on my podcast? Never that. In this episode, I’m getting real about healing perfectionism and learning how to actually enjoy my life again…because I was doing the most for no reason. I open up about being overwhelmed, detaching from what was no longer aligned, and choosing myself in a way I hadn’t before. If you’ve been struggling with perfectionism, burnout, or missing having fun, this c...

From Add Tax Studios: Welcome to The Add Tax Podcast! Hosted by Jasmine. Credits: Animations: Eric Martin Entertainment Music: PDub the Producer

Trigger Warning: Mentions of mental health topics including depression, eating disorders, and suicidal ideation. Viewer discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is in crisis, please seek help: National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Dial 988 Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 Your wellbeing matters. Please listen with care. This week’s episode is the beginning of a 4-episode ins...

In this week's episode, I’m sharing a story I’ve never told before...about how my ex got revenge for the first time I told him no. It’s messy, it’s personal, and it’s proof that some men will hold onto rejection like a grudge. I’m breaking down how ignoring my intuition and giving him another chance led to one of the most toxic relationships of my life, and why you should NEVER let a man you r...

In this mini pop culture case study, I’m breaking down Ice Spice and Latto’s new collab “Gyatt”. On the surface, it’s a fun, body-focused track that went instantly viral. But what does it really say about the music industry, beauty standards, and who gets to control the narrative around women in rap? In this episode, I break down what I call “the hamster wheel”. It’s the cycle of men’s lust fuelin...

In this mini pop culture case study, I unpack the recent buzz around Mariah the Scientist and Young Thug - but through a different lens. This isn’t about gossip or drama. It’s about looking deeper at the patterns, the conditioning, and the choices women are often expected to make in relationships. Let’s talk about what this moment reveals about choosing men over ourselves, and why so many of us ha...

Sometimes the only way to take off the rose-colored glasses is to sit down and write it all out. In this episode, I begin sharing a few things from my personal list of “100 Things I Hate About My Ex” - a raw, unfiltered exercise in clarity and healing. We often get stuck ruminating on the good memories, but abusers rely on that nostalgia to keep us hooked. This isn’t about bitterness, it’s about f...

Toxic relationships don’t start with screaming…they start with subtle comments, dismissive tones, and words that chip away at you piece by piece. In this episode, I share how I’ve learned to catch those red flags early, why I chose to fly solo, and how affirmations helped me rebuild my self-image after years of verbal abuse from relationships. If you’ve ever doubted your worth because of someone e...

Welcome to The Add Tax Podcast, where healing isn’t pretty but it’s personal. Hosted by Jasmine and Patience, two women thriving on the other side of toxic relationships, family dysfunction, and emotional chaos - who decided to stop shrinking and start telling the truth. In this week's episode, Jasmine and Patience dive into the hellscape known as "struggle love" - what it is, why it...

Welcome to The Add Tax Podcast, where healing isn’t pretty but it’s personal. Hosted by Jasmine and Patience, two women thriving on the other side of toxic relationships, family dysfunction, and emotional chaos - who decided to stop shrinking and start telling the truth. In this week's episode, Jasmine and Patience share their iconic list of TOP 10 red flags to look out for when it comes to a...

Welcome to The Add Tax Podcast, where healing isn’t pretty but it’s personal. Hosted by Jasmine and Patience, two women thriving on the other side of toxic relationships, family dysfunction, and emotional chaos - who decided to stop shrinking and start telling the truth. In this week's episode, Jasmine and Patience share their wild story from Cabo and take a dissect the inner workings of super...

Welcome to The Add Tax Podcast, where healing isn’t pretty but it’s personal. Hosted by Jasmine and Patience, two women thriving on the other side of toxic relationships, family dysfunction, and emotional chaos - who decided to stop shrinking and start telling the truth. In part 2 of our inaugural episode, Patience shares her story of being emotionally entrapped by a narcissist and how she found a...

Welcome to The Add Tax Podcast, where healing isn’t pretty but it’s personal. Hosted by Jasmine and Patience, two women thriving on the other side of toxic relationships, family dysfunction, and emotional chaos - who decided to stop shrinking and start telling the truth. In our inaugural episode, Jasmine shares her story of being emotionally manipulated by someone she trusted and how she found her...