The Abuse Stops Here Podcast

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we examine how influencers like Charlie Kirk use their platforms to spread misinformation, exploit fear, and normalize abusive power dynamics under the guise of influence or leadership. We’ll unpack how this type of manipulation mirrors the same tactics used by abusers—gaslighting, control, and emotional coercion—only on a larger, societal scale. W...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we unpack the clergy–penitent privilege debate - a legal protection that often allows religious leaders to withhold information about abuse disclosed in confession or counseling. While many see this privilege as sacred, it has also been used to shield abusers and silence survivors. We’ll explore the history of this law, the harm it continues to cau...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we’re diving into the often-blurred lines between child abuse and healthy parenting . We’ll unpack what the law still allows that can be harmful, how cultural and generational norms have shaped our ideas of discipline, and what safe, respectful parenting actually looks like. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or survivor reflecting on your own upb...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we’re honoring Women’s History Month by highlighting the powerful role women have played in abuse prevention and advocacy. Women have long led the fight for safety, justice, and change. This episode is a tribute to their resilience and a reminder that every voice matters in breaking the cycle of abuse. Women matter! CONSULTATION CALL: https://calen...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we’re breaking down coercion —a form of manipulation that pressures, guilt-trips, or intimidates someone into saying “yes” when they don’t truly have a choice. We’ll explore how coercion shows up in different settings and why it’s a key tactic used by abusers. Most importantly, we’ll discuss how to recognize coercion, set firm boundaries, and recla...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we’re exposing the manipulative tactics of grooming —how abusers build trust, break down boundaries, and create a false sense of security before harm occurs. We’ll break down the red flags and how grooming happens in both personal and institutional settings. Most importantly, we’ll discuss how to recognize and prevent grooming, so you can protect y...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we’re diving into gaslighting —one of the most insidious forms of manipulation used to make survivors doubt their own reality. We’ll break down how gaslighting works, why abusers use it, and the deep impact it has on self-trust and confidence. Most importantly, we’ll share practical strategies to recognize, resist, and recover from gaslighting so y...

Happy Black History Month! In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we explore the deep connections between Black history and abuse prevention , highlighting the resilience and leadership of Black advocates who have long fought for justice. From civil rights leaders to modern-day activists, Black pioneers have challenged systemic oppression, pushed for legal protections, and created vital...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast, we dive deep into the hidden ways abuse is normalized in families, faith communities, workplaces, and elsewhere. Many of us want to stop abuse, yet without realizing it, we've been taught beliefs that protect abusers and dismiss victims. From "boys will be boys" to "just forgive and forget", society is full of biases that excuse harmful behavior and...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we break down the Pyramid of Abuse —a powerful framework that reveals how seemingly small behaviors create the foundation for more severe harm. From everyday micro-aggressions to systemic power imbalances, we’ll explore how these patterns enable abuse to thrive and what we can do to disrupt them. Through personal experiences and real-world examples...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , I open up about my personal healing journey—what it really took to move from survival mode to true healing. I’ll share the methods that helped me reclaim my confidence, process trauma, and build a life rooted in authenticity and self-trust. Whether you’re just beginning your own healing or looking for new ways to grow, this episode offers insight,...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we dive into the complex question: Why do abusers become abusers? We’ll unpack the cycle of harm, exploring how childhood trauma, societal conditioning, and unchecked power contribute to abusive behavior. Understanding these patterns isn’t about excusing abusers—it’s about breaking the cycle and preventing it from starting. Join us as we discuss ho...

In this bonus episode of The Abuse Stops Here , we explore the intersection of MLK Day, a second Trump presidency, and what these moments mean for abuse prevention and hope. We reflect on Dr. King’s vision of justice and equality, examining how it inspires action in today’s divisive climate. Join us for a powerful discussion on finding strength and creating change, even in challenging times. RESOU...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here , we discuss how the feminist movement has played a crucial role in abuse prevention by challenging harmful power dynamics and advocating for equality. We'll explore the ways feminism empowers individuals to recognize and reject abuse while fostering a culture of accountability and respect. Join us as we connect the dots between advocacy, equality, and creat...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here , we discuss the courage it takes to speak up and report abuse—and why it’s one of the most powerful ways to create change. We’ll explore common fears and challenges about reporting, while offering practical tips to navigate the process. Whether you’re considering speaking out for yourself or someone else, this episode will empower you to take the first step...

In this episode of The Abuse Stops Here Podcast , we dive into the critical topic of recognizing red flags and early signs of abuse. Many survivors share that they noticed small, unsettling behaviors long before the abuse escalated—but they weren’t sure what to make of them. Together, we’ll unpack what these warning signs can look like, from subtle manipulation to overt control tactics, and explor...

In the first episode of The Abuse Stops Here , we explore what it truly means to be an abuse prevention advocate and why this work is so vital. Discover how advocacy empowers survivors, raises awareness, and helps break the cycle of abuse. Whether you’re just beginning your journey or looking to deepen your impact, this episode will inspire and guide you. RESOURCE GUIDE: https://stan.store/merialh...