The 15-Minute Advocate

Your child understands the material, participates in class, and seems bright—so why are they failing? In this episode of The 15-Minute Advocate , we explain why intelligence isn't always enough for school success. Learn how executive functioning affects grades, homework, organization, and assignment completion, and discover what parents should be asking for at IEP meetings.

When the problem isn't ability—it's the brain's management system. Does your child forget assignments, lose papers, struggle with organization, or have difficulty getting started on tasks? In this episode of " The 15-Minute Advocate ," we explain executive functioning, how it impacts school performance, and what parents should be asking for in an IEP or 504 Plan. Learn practi...

In this episode of "The 15-Minute Advocate", we begin a new series exploring different disabilities and how they impact students in school. The first topic: dyslexia. What exactly is dyslexia? What does it look like in the classroom and at home? What kinds of services, accommodations, and reading instruction should parents be advocating for in an IEP? This episode breaks down: Common signs of dysl...

Transitioning to a new school? Don’t let paperwork trip you up. If your child is moving from elementary → middle or middle → high school, there’s one rule you need to remember: 👉 If it’s not in writing… it doesn’t exist. In this episode of The 15-Minute Advocate , I break down: ✔️ The MUST-have paperwork before a transition ✔️ What schools don’t automatically carry over ✔️ The biggest mistakes pa...

From confusion to clarity: unlocking disability support. In this episode, the 15-Minute Advocate breaks down the wide range of disability services available to individuals and families—especially here in Massachusetts. From early intervention and Special Education supports to adult services like job coaching, housing assistance, and independent living programs, we walk through what’s out there and...

“Graduation ends school—not the need for support.” Graduation is supposed to be the finish line… but for families of students with disabilities, it can feel more like being dropped into the middle of a maze with no map. In this episode, I break down what really happens after high school ends. What changes legally? What supports disappear—and which ones don’t? What does college look like, and does...

Because ‘I disagree’ is not the end of the conversation. Disagreeing with an IEP can feel intimidating—but parents have more power than they realize. In this episode, Arlene Velleman breaks down what it actually means to reject all or part of an IEP, the steps parents can take after saying “no,” and how dispute options like the BSEA fit into the process. Whether you’re feeling pressured to sign or...

Advocate or lawyer—how do you know which one you actually need? In this episode, Arlene Velleman, the 15-Minute Advocate, breaks down the real differences between a Special Education advocate and a Special Education attorney, what each role looks like in the IEP process, and how to decide which support makes sense for your situation. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck, this episode wi...

Because ‘just sign it’ is not a strategy. A new IEP shouldn’t feel like a pop quiz you didn’t study for. In this episode, I break down exactly how to review a new IEP, where schools tend to gloss over details, and how parents can spot problems before they become bigger issues. This is practical, no-nonsense guidance every special education parent needs.

Graduation is coming… but is the IEP actually preparing your child for adulthood? Turning 18 changes everything — especially in Special Education. In this episode, we break down IEP transition planning, what should be happening before graduation, and how the Age of Majority impacts decision-making, consent, and parental rights. If you want to avoid last-minute surprises and protect your student’s...

Turning IEP progress reports into real progress. In this episode, I break down IEP progress reports — what they should tell you, what they often don’t , and how to read them in a way that actually gives you clarity. I’ll walk you through what to look for, how to spot red flags, and what steps to take when the data just isn’t matching your child’s reality. If your child’s progress report feels vagu...

“Walk into that IEP meeting like you run the place.” Step inside the IEP room without the stress. In this episode, I break down exactly what happens during an actual IEP meeting—who’s at the table, what gets discussed, what parents should watch for, and how to stay in the driver’s seat. If the process feels overwhelming, this walkthrough will clear the fog and give you the confidence to show up in...

“Because progress should be proven, not promised.” Not all goals are created equal. In this episode, I break down what makes an IEP goal measurable —and why that matters. Learn how clear, data-driven goals can track progress, hold schools accountable, and actually move a student forward instead of just filling a page.

The 504 Plan and the IEP....knowing the difference changes everything. 504 or IEP? Parents hear these terms all the time, but few really know the difference — and that difference matters. In this episode, I lay it out plain and simple: who qualifies, what supports each plan provides, and how to make sure your child gets what they’re entitled to.

PRS: Holding schools accountable, one finding at a time. Ever wonder what keeps schools in check when it comes to special education compliance? Meet Massachusetts’ not-so-secret weapon — the Program Review System (PRS) . In this episode, I unpack how the PRS holds districts accountable, what happens when parents file concerns, and how the process can spark real change for students. Whether you’re...

Think your child’s school evaluation missed something? An Independent Educational Evaluation might be the game-changer you need. Confused about Independent Educational Evaluations (IEEs)? You’re not alone. In this episode, I break down what an IEE is, when to request one, and what parents can expect during the process. If you’ve ever wondered how an IEE can support your child’s education plan, thi...

Eligibility is just the starting line — here’s how to win the race. So your student’s been found eligible for Special Ed — now what? In this episode, we cut through the IEP clutter: accommodations vs. modifications (and why you should care), making sense of service delivery, grabbing ESY when it counts, decoding the bullying statement, and owning that sneaky Additional Information page. Parents —...

From paperwork panic to advocacy confidence — in one binder. Feeling buried in IEPs, testing reports, and school emails? In this episode of The 15-Minute Advocate , I walk you step-by-step through setting up a Parent Special Education Binder. You’ll learn how to organize IEPs, evaluations, progress reports, communication logs, and more — all in one place. With tips on what to include, how to keep...

Because you’re not "just the parent"—you’re the expert. In this episode, I break down the very first steps of an IEP meeting — from introductions to reviewing test results to walking through the eligibility flowchart. You’ll learn what questions to ask, how to spot red flags like predetermination, and the exact phrases you can use to make sure your voice is heard. This episode is all abo...

Breaking down Special Ed jargon so parents can speak the language of advocacy. In this episode, we continue breaking down the alphabet soup of Special Education. I unpack common terms like related services, consultation, direct services, ADA, 504 Plans, and give a quick refresher on IDEA and FAPE. We also tackle something equally important: language. Words matter. I explain why it’s best to say ha...

IEP lingo—decoded, de-jargonized, de-stressed. Ever feel like you need a secret decoder ring for IEP meetings? This episode is your guide to cracking the code: FAPE, IDEA, LRE, inclusion, and more—explained without the jargon headache. Say goodbye to alphabet soup and hello to parent power.

Feeling Ready: Last Steps Before Your IEP Meeting Getting ready for an IEP meeting can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to go in stressed. In this episode of The 15-Minute Advocate , I walk you through those last-minute steps to prepare, what usually happens during the meeting, and how the process tends to flow. My goal is to help you feel calmer, more confident, and ready to speak up for you...

Understanding begins with access—make your voice heard in any language. If English is not your first language, this episode is a must-listen. I explain how you can request school documents in your native language and ensure a qualified interpreter is present for your IEP or Special Education meetings. You'll also learn what stepsto take—and how to file a complaint—if your school district fails...

Preparing for the IEP During the Evaluation Period Your voice matters—start preparing now. In this episode of The 15-Minute Advocate , we focus on how parents can make the most of the 30-school-day evaluation period by preparing for the upcoming IEP meeting. I walk you through 6 key questions to reflect on—including your child’s strengths, your concerns, and what supports might help. This thoughtf...

Episode 2: Understanding the Permission to Test Process In this episode of The 15-Minute Advocate , we break down what happens after you submit a written request for special education testing. Learn what to expect from the school district, including the "permission to test" form and the packet of information that must be sent within five school days. I’ll walk you through what these docu...