The 10 Year Marriage

Send a text The Raw Truth About Relationships, Intimacy, and Personal Growth In this candid and heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the complexities of relationships and personal growth. We start by addressing viewer comments and questions, focusing initially on the idea of having sex before a date and how intimacy and anticipation play out in long-term relationships. We then discuss the importan...

Send a text 🎙 Episode 35: The Fall of Marriage — Why Love Quietly Dies & How To Save It We used to think marriages ended with a big, explosive moment — yelling, betrayal, or someone walking out.  But what we’ve learned is that most marriages don’t end that way.  They die quietly. They fade in the small spaces: in the silence between sentences, the quick “I’m fine,” or the decision to roll over...

Send a text Everyone online seems to be talking about “Trad Wives”—traditional marriage roles, submission, dominance, and what it means to be a “good” husband or wife. But behind the clickbait is a deeper conversation: what actually works for your relationship? In this episode, we unpack the “Trad Wife” trend, what it stirs up in us, and how we define partnership, leadership, and balance in our ow...

Send a text We all get triggered.  Sometimes it’s a tone, a look, or a comment that lands harder than it should. But those moments usually have less to do with what’s happening right now—and everything to do with something deeper. In this episode, we open up about the times we’ve been triggered in our marriage and what those moments have taught us about ourselves. It’s not easy to talk about, but...

Send a text “Division, Media & Marriage: Why We Need a Reset” 📖 Description (from Dave & Angie): Everywhere we look, the world feels divided—politics, media, even our closest relationships. In this episode, we unpack how all that noise seeps into marriage, family, and our sense of purpose… and what it looks like to reset. We talk about:  ⚡ Why the media thrives on division—and how not to...

Send a text Discovering Unconditional Love through Equine Assisted Coaching: A Deep Dive In this episode of the 'Wild and Wacky Adventures of Dave and Angie,' we explore the transformative experience of equine assisted coaching. We delve into what equine coaching entails and how the interaction between the facilitator, the horse, and the client can lead to breakthrough moments that might...

Send a text In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of 'marriage identity' and how it evolves with our individual growth. We explore how our personal journeys and transitions, such as career changes and material pursuits, shape our collective identity as a couple. We discuss the importance of aligning individual identities with the collective identity of the marriage and the chall...

Send a text “We’re On the Same Team—Even When We Forget” In this episode, we get real about what it takes to shift from me vs. you into us vs. the problem —and why “Same Team Energy” might just save your marriage. We talk about:  🤝 What “Same Team Energy” actually means in day-to-day marriage  💬 How small misunderstandings spiral when you forget you’re on the same side  🧠 Mindset shifts that he...

Send a text Embracing Change and Overcoming Obstacles: Our Journey Towards Personal and Relational Growth In this episode, we explore the importance of responding to life's callings and stepping outside of our comfort zones. We share our experiences traveling to Tennessee, and reflecting on our personal and relational growth. We discuss the importance of recognizing old patterns, the concept...

Send a text What if you could completely restart your marriage with the person you love - burning away all the past baggage and creating something entirely new? As we approach our 15-year anniversary, we're about to do something radical: completely burn down our current marriage to rebuild it from scratch. In this raw and vulnerable episode, we reveal Phase One of our revolutionary three-phas...

Send a text Cheating isn’t always about sex. In this brutally honest episode, we break down the uncomfortable truths around infidelity—from emotional affairs to unresolved insecurities, unmet needs, and the real reasons people cheat. We explore why cheating is often a self-betrayal before it’s ever a partner betrayal , the role emotional disconnection plays in long-term relationships, and why trut...

Send a text Dave and Angie share a deeply personal story about Dave's return to his Long Island hometown after 13 years—and the profound realization that changed everything. What started as a trip to show their kids where Dave came from became a powerful lesson about growth, identity, and why you can't go back to who you used to be. In This Episode Dave's emotional journey returning...

Send a text Exploring Trust, Surrender, and Growth Through Equine Therapy In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of equine therapy and its impact on both personal development and relationships. Sharing a recent experience at an equine therapy retreat in Oregon, we discuss how horses can mirror our emotions and behaviors, leading to profound insights and shifts. From the initial co...

Send a text Lessons from a Teenager: Insights into Marriage and Personal Growth What can a 13-year-old’s breakup teach us about emotional maturity, identity, and intimacy in adult relationships? In this deeply reflective episode, Dave and Angie Tina open up about watching their daughter navigate her first heartbreak—and how it mirrored patterns many adults still struggle with in dating, love, and...

Send a text Thriving as a Couple: How Clarity In Our Roles Unlocks Our Risk-Taking Abilities In this episode, we delve into the dynamics of our relationship, emphasizing the importance of identifying the right roles in marriage and teamwork. We share personal anecdotes about our impulsive decisions, including leasing a Mustang horse, traveling to unfamiliar places, and transforming property invest...

Send a text Reimagining the American Dream: Living with Purpose and Breaking Free from Societal Norms The Midlife Awakening... In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of purpose and alignment in life and relationships. Reflecting on the sudden death of a well-loved dentist, we explore the fleeting nature of life and question conventional ideas of success and the American Dream...

Send a text Maintaining Intimacy in Marriage: Avoiding the Roommate Trap. Is your marriage starting to feel more like a roommate situation than a romantic partnership? In this raw and honest conversation, Dave and Angie dive deep into what it really takes to create a fulfilling relationship—one built on intimacy, honest communication, and intentional time together. In this episode, we delve into t...

Send a text Risking It All: The Path to True Growth and Unapologetic Living In this episode, we dive into why we continually risk comfort and certainty in both business and marriage to pursue true growth and fulfillment. We explore the idea of triggering conversations on our podcast, discuss the personal growth journey that comes from vulnerability and communication, and contemplate the importance...

Send a text Exploring Intimacy and Sex Life in Modern Relationships How often are you having sex? Do you wish it was more often? In this episode, we dive deep into discussions around intimacy, sexual frequency, and the impact of modern distractions on relationships. We explore how often couples are really having sex, the truth behind these numbers, and what it means for the health of a relationshi...

Send a text Navigating Jealousy and Insecurities in Relationships In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of jealousy and insecurities within relationships. We discuss personal experiences of feeling trapped and the fear of being hurt, addressing how past relationships and family dynamics contribute to these emotions. By exploring the difference between jealousy and being territorial,...

Send a text Revolutionizing Education: Why Traditional Schooling is Failing Our Kids and What Options Do We Have? In this episode, we dive into the pressing issues with the current education system. We discuss why today's schooling might not be preparing our children for real-world success, arguing that much of what is taught can easily be looked up online. Instead, we focus on what schools a...

Send a text The Importance of Vacation for Relationship Connection and Personal Reset In this episode, we discuss the profound impact of vacations on relationships and personal well-being. We dive into how stepping out of the everyday routine can break the monotony of marriage, improve connection with your partner, and even enhance your sex life. We share personal stories about how vacations have...

Send a text Exploring the 10-Year Marriage Contract: Commitment, Freedom, and Rebirth in Relationships Diving Into YOUR Comments In this episode of the 10 Year Marriage Podcast, Dave and Angie Tina discuss the concept of a 10-year marriage contract, inspired by the idea that marriage can evolve and transform over time. They dive into how setting potential end dates can create a richer and more com...

Send a text Navigating the Rollercoaster of Mental Health in Life and Relationships In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of mental health impacts on relationships and personal well-being. We start with an analogy of life as a rollercoaster, emphasizing the importance of emotional health checks in coaching. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing mental health, especially whe...

Send a text Navigating Financial Trust in Marriage | The 10 Year Marriage Podcast In this episode of the 10-Year Marriage Podcast, hosts Dave and Angie Tina explore the concept of treating marriage like a 10-year contract. They delve into the significance of trust and shared finances in a marriage, recounting personal experiences and the transformative power of an abundance mindset. The Tinas shar...