That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss: Amanda’s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, and disciplinarian Why dominance is a skill How to explore kink without pretending to be someone...

Shame around queer desire does not disappear just because you want it to. If you were raised in the church and are now trying to explore dating women for the first time, this episode gives you a practical way to untangle what was taught to you from what you actually want. Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, answers a listener question from a woman in her early 30s who feels stuck between curi...

Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure. Emma challenges...

Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant , shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection. From...

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist , where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Anonymous questi...

Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation k...

In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than people give it credit for. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want...

Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners — even when we know better? In this episode of That’s Orgasmic, Emily sits down with psychotherapist and professor Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown to unpack the unconscious patterns that draw us toward emotionally unavailable relationships, familiar chaos, and unresolved wounds. Together, they explore the idea of an “erotic emotional map,...

Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed. The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn. We'll explore: • Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someon...

This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?" Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.se...

In this episode, Emily discusses a recent scary experience of a man asking for her number in public. Emily also discusses the different ways men have approached her in public, from the ok to the bad.   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous questi...

There is no new episode this week, instead, enjoy this revisit to episode 134 How to eat pussy.  In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.  Emily and Jordana...

Emily a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the most common behaviours that contribute to a bad sex life...they're more common than you'd think. Get the  Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10 FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Intere...

Apologies for the error in uploading the same episode for both part one and two of 'how to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips. Get the  Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10 FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in t...

This episode is part one of two episodes - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10 FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbs...

Low desire? Disconnected from your body? Struggle to experience pleasure? This practical episode explores daily practices to connect to your sexuality.  Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code thatsorgasmic10 FOLLOW US on Instagram  @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com...

This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products ? Use code: thatsorgasmic10   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@t...

Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Workbook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation bundle Ebook + Workbook Emotional Bank Account Podcast episode FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call  HERE with Emily at The Sexual We...

This episode explores the emotional bank account. A concept often discussed in therapy to determine the health of your relationship and how you can improve it. Get your copy of  The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call  HERE with Emily...

Overcome your erectile difficulties with my online self-paced course  Overcoming Erectile Difficulties Program: How to obtain and maintain an erection Get your copy of  The Art of Initiation Ebook (How to initiate sex) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp...

This episode explores 5 things Emily always says as a sex therapist to her clients during their therapy sessions. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call  HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre   See omnystudio....

This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist. Emily and Coby discussed: What is Kink and BDSM Development of kinks Common practices Difference between a kink and a fetish How to explore kink and BDSM safely Communication How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore Aftercare FOLLOW US on Instagram  @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories t...

This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her cl...

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.   We discuss: What is cheating Why do people cheat? Is an affair the symptom...

This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S. Emily and Maria discuss: Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it How Menopa...