Tha Reality Is

On this episode of the podcast, Frank and Artesia join Anthony for a candid conversation about life's unexpected lessons, personal growth, and navigating a world that doesn't always play fair. The trio discusses how some of life's greatest blessings arrive in packages we never expected, why finding mentorship becomes more challenging as we get older, and the importance of embracing sec...

On this episode of the podcast, Frank and Artesia join Anthony for a lively conversation covering leadership, relationships, respect, and the expectations we place on one another. The trio explores why leadership isn't for the faint of heart, how a mindset of service can create opportunities, and the difference between respect that's earned through action versus respect that's expected...

After several memorable appearances on  Tha Reality Is , Lex finally turns the tables and puts host Anthony Roberts in the hot seat. In this candid and engaging conversation, Anthony opens up about the realities of life behind the microphone, sharing how he navigates loneliness, maintains meaningful connections while constantly traveling as a project manager, and balances the demands of a career t...

Lex in the Box returns to the podcast, showing love to the voices behind the show and reflecting on her recent interactions with students during media day at both her and Anthony’s alma maters. Artesia and Frank keep things light by clowning Anthony for playing church music in previous episodes, proving once again that no one is safe from jokes on  Tha Reality Is . The conversation takes a sharper...

Merry Christmas Realist! On this episode, Artesia returns to the podcast after being away for the past few months, and Anthony is focused on closing out the year in true  Tha Reality Is  fashion—unfiltered, unapologetic, with more cursing, jokes, and witty banter. Frank opens up about why he chose not to watch the Diddy documentary, leading into a broader discussion about media, and Bad Boys in th...

Continuing the conversation from the last episode, Anthony is once again joined by  Timber — visiting from Cincinnati by way of Atlanta —  as the dialogue deepens into growth, accountability, and uncomfortable truths. What begins as a reflection on the idea that sometimes  “it’s a relief that it’s broken”  opens into a deeper discussion about past dating experiences, family relationships, and the...

In this reflective and wide-ranging episode, Anthony sits down with  Timber — joining from Cincinnati by way of Atlanta —  for a conversation that moves effortlessly between humor, truth, and hard-earned perspective. What starts with a candid breakdown of  knowing when not to wear out your welcome  quickly evolves into a deeper reflection on  timing, maturity, and recognizing when you’ve truly ent...

In this powerful episode, Anthony opens up about one of the most defining chapters of his life —  reconciling with his father . What begins as a personal story quickly unfolds into a deeper conversation about  healing, identity, and the legacy of our parents’ mistakes  — and how facing them can shape the kind of man, partner, and father we strive to become. But that’s just the beginning. The conve...

On this episode, we’re joined by comedian  Overton Spence  — a man who swapped government paperwork for punchlines. After clocking out of bureaucratic life, Overton’s been clocking laughs around the globe — from the U.S. to Colombia to Africa — proving that storytelling and stand-up truly speak a universal language. But this isn’t just jokes and jet lag —  Tha Realist  crew goes deep too. We’re un...

“I have the nerve to walk my own way, however hard, in my search for reality, rather than climb upon the rattling wagon of wishful illusions.” —  Zora Neale Hurston TBT Intro 10,000 Hours The Jealousy That Comes With A Two Parent Home A Father Shared I Thought I Could Move Like A Man Fun Fact: In 1968, Diahann Carroll became the first Black woman to star in her own television series in a non-stere...

"Your diet is more than what you eat, it's what you watch, listen to, read and I'm very mindful of what I ingest." - Saul Williams Mind Your Diet Leading Beyond Privilege Ability vs DISSability Therapy Is No Longer Taboo Couples Therapy Swinging Fun Fact: Black men have been at the forefront of innovation in countless fields—often unsung. For example,  Garrett Morgan , a Black in...

“The measure of any society is how it treats its women and girls.” - Michelle Obama TOPICS: High school Graduation Ryan Clark vs RGIII You Have a Responsibility ( a perspective when dating interracially) A Level of Intimacy No Digital Leashes * Fun Fact: The voice of Siri—the original one in the U.S.—was recorded by a Black woman named Susan Bennett in 2005. She didn’t even know she was going to b...

In an age of filters and facades, honesty is the boldest form of rebellion. TOPICS: Since we've been gone (Intro) Age Gap Relationships Saying NO comes with age Karmelo Anthony Self Awareness in Relationships * Fun Fact: ​Rhode Island is served by a single area code:  401 . Established in 1947, it is one of the original area codes in the North American Numbering Plan and continues to cover the...

"Count the people because the people count." - Pastor Roberts, Social Dallas Church Topics: When You Tell God... Superstitions A Good Transition It's Not The End Musical Intellect: Madvillain x The Carters Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is' is powered by Roberts Media Group. For more programming and advertisement opportunities, please visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

"Everything to be said has already been said." - Andre Gide Topics: What does the #400 mean Teacher/Student Relationships Sex With Your Eyes Closed What's Next *Ep. 400 | The End Pt. II (drops next Sunday)* Musical Intellect: Kanye x Benny The Butcher Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is' is powered by Roberts Media Group. For more programming and advert...

“The capacity for friendship is God's way of apologizing for our families.” ― Jay McInerney,  The Last of the Savages "I've gained a lot of experience in my life, but I lack the experience of family through blood." - SRP Topics: Do Rideshares Get Tickets TRUMP Is An Entertainer Don't Discredit Your Wins No One Wants A Regular Girl Anymore Death In The Family Doesn't Equat...

"Always in a rush to believe in something, we will create saints and faiths out of nothing." - Robert Greene, The 48 Laws of Power Topics: Cancer Treatment Should Be Free I'm a Coon Happy Birthday Gemini How do you fill the unfulfilled My life as a Notre Dame fan Musical Intellect: Tory Lanez x Future x Lil Yachty Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is' is...

"If you are far away from yourself, how could you ever be close to another?" - Young Pueblo Topics: (Continuation from Ep. 395) Becoming a Handywoman A life unfulfilled Family Matters Not too much left for me in Dallas You Know You're Healed When... Musical Intellect: Jason Ferg x Timbaland & Magoo Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is' is powered by...

“So early in my life, I had learned that if you want something, you had better make some noise.” ― Malcolm X,  The Autobiography of Malcolm Topics: The Housing Market Black People Deserve Soft Lives Spend Time w/Those Who Really Know You Texas Porn Ban This Message Is For White People Musical Intellect: Junior Mafia x Nipsey Hussle Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is&#39...

“When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.” ―  Confucius Topics: The Eclipse Who are pronouns really for him or her Quick vs Vera (Harlem Nights) Money & Resources Parenthood Musical Intellect: 4batz x J. Cole Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is' is powered by Roberts Media Group...

Destination Disease casues a person to always search for happiness somewhere in the future, causing discontentment in their daily life. Topics Chilvary Ain't Dead (5 min) Destination Disease (17min) Discovering Your Human Design (32 min) If Your Mom Is Still Here, You're Blessed (46min) Technological Advances (1:00:00 min) Musical Intellect: Future x Yung Smoody x Freddie Gibbs Recorded in...

"Going out and playing with matter, with the fabric of life is what changes us." - Jenna Zoe Topics Necessary Endings (4m) We're Apart of the Programming (18m) 40 and Adulting (35m) Living In Your Gift (50m) Musical Intellect : Kendrick Lamar x Young Thug x Sabrina Claudio Recorded in Dallas, TX @robertsmediagroup ⁣'Tha Reality Is' is powered by Roberts Media Group. For more...

"Sometimes when I'm alone, I sit on my hand and wait till it gets numb and masturbate, they call that a stranger. Have you ever given yourself a stranger?" - Dave Chappelle (The Internet & Moment In The Life of Lil Jon S2.E6 of Chappelle's Show) Topics Masturbation Situation (Intro) Women Don't Know How To Flirt Friends...Don't Ever Live Together We're At The Heig...

“Our culture has become hooked on the quick-fix, the life hack, efficiency. Everyone is on the hunt for that simple action algorithm that nets maximum profit with the least amount of effort. There’s no denying this attitude may get you some of the trappings of success, if you’re lucky, but it will not lead to a calloused mind or self-mastery." ― David Goggins,  Can't Hurt Me: Master Your...

“I shall look at you out of the corner of my eye, and you will say nothing. Words are the source of misunderstandings.” ― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry Topics Team speaks to why they removed the poly episode (intro) Not all fathers deserve credit (6:00) From Politics to Church (21:00) How does it feel to be me (36:30) Are there any romantic holidays for men (52:00) Musical Intellect: Kanye x Drake Reco...