Teaching Self-Government Podcast

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how to create and raise emotionally resilient children, no matter what they’ve gone through. Do you worry about your children being influenced by every emotional whim they encounter? Or, alternatively, do you struggle with a child who “paves their own path” and doesn’t listen to any advice or direction from anyone? Listen in for tips, skills, and advice...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the controversial topic of when a young person should get a phone of their own. Have you wondered this same thing? Are you trying to protect your children, but afraid of them "not fitting in" or not having a way to contact you when they're not home? Listen in for their thoughts and for guiding principles on deciding when your child might b...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the struggles of navigating the parenting of bossy children, teens and younger children alike. Do you have a child who "rules the roost" by telling everyone else what to do without shame? Or do you have someone who quietly delegates and demands on the down-low? Listen in for insights as to how children end up being bossy and how you can teach...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some principles to remember while crafting the memories and experiences for your family as you and they both grow and live. Do you feel like your parenting expectations are creating negative moments for your family? Do you wish you could’ve created better environments for past experiences? Listen in for stories on how Nicholeen and Paije have been worki...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss “no” answers and the beautiful intricacies of forgiveness and the positive impact it has on relationships, individual and worldwide. Has there ever been a time when you felt someone wronged you and there was a wedge in the relationship? Did you go through all of the feelings, then decide to forgive them and move on? How did it go? Listen in to hear pers...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss teaching children to be resilient and to bounce back from hardships. Have you or your children ever struggled with accepting a difficult situation and felt like some extra skills and structure were needed? Has your adaptability been challenged? Listen in for some great insights into helping ourselves and our children bounce back and “drop the subject”!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije have a discussion with certified TSG mentor, Sharee Jones, talking about family vision and principles of family identity. Sharee has had so many experiences in her life that brought her to Teaching Self-Government and she’s such a dedicated mentor. She brings a new perspective to self-government and loves how it positively impacts her family and ties into her b...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss how Teaching Self-Government began and dive into some of Nicholeen’s childhood and early motherhood experiences. Have you ever wondered how Nicholeen got into all of this in the first place? Curious about the inspiration behind TSG? Listen in for some great stories and experiences!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the differences between coddling and comforting children. Do you know toddlers that “rule the roost”? Or teens who feel entitled to an easy-going life? Listen in for more insight on this topic and tips for how to overcome it!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some of the things that happen when people are so busy with so many things that they get burnt out. Do you have lots of things going on that all need to be balanced and are high priority? Do you struggle feeling like each thing is getting the attention it needs? Listen in to find out how to use TSG skills and principles to better manage your busy life!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the not-as-common family dynamic where grandparents take on the roles of parents in the lives of their grandchildren. Have you taken on the role of parent for a second time, even though you thought you were done parenting? Are you struggling to keep your energy up with your rambunctious charges? Listen in for some insight into and tips for taking up act...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the impact of one-on-one mentor meetings on children and families. Are you wanting to connect with your child more, but not sure where to start? Wishing you had more influence in your child’s life? Listen in for great tips and insight on better connection with your child!

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the value of Mom and Grandma and the ins and outs of how the world views motherhood. Do you feel like your service to your family is underestimated and underappreciated? Do you think that Mother  could  be replaced? Listen in for the insights of a mother and grandmother!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss some of the intricacies of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), how challenging and frustrating it can be, and how TSG can address behaviors that are common with this diagnosis. Do you feel like your child is oddly distant? Do you wish they desired a better connection with you like you do with them? Listen in for great tips and insights on improving your...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije go to the comments of Nicholeen’s YouTube channel and address a situation posed by a nanny, wondering how to navigate the complexities of “handling” other people’s children who don’t know the TSG skills. Are you a nanny or a teacher of some sort that spends a bit of time with other people’s children and struggle keeping them “in line” while they are in your car...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces D.D. Black , who shares about her experiences as one of TSG's earliest mentors, her family's growth and increased unity, and her thoughts and insights on free...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss seven signs that indicate emotions being stuffed or shoved down. Comments have been made that TSG is all about keeping emotions at bay, but that simply isn’t true! Do you sometimes feel like you struggle to process your emotions or don’t even realize you’re getting stuck in them until it’s too late? You’re not alone. Listen in for these seven signs and...

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije have some deeper discussion about pessimism and optimism, what they really mean, and how they affect us. Do you struggle seeing the “silver lining” in your daily situations? Are your children struggling with happiness? Listen in for some great insight and for a plan to become more optimistic!

In this podcast episode, Nicholeen and Paije go to the comments of Nicholeen’s YouTube channel and address a situation posed by a worried mother about conflict between her teen son and husband, wanting to know how to mend the relationship. Listen in to hear what Nicholeen and Paije have to say!

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces  David Eggertsen , who shares about his experiences as one of the first TSG mentors and Nicholeen’s right-hand man in the business, having TSG keep his marriage toget...

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces  Shilo Lindstrom , who shares about her family, her experiences as a parent, and her perspective on tone in the home and how important it is to keep calm and stay con...

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces  Natalie Fluckiger , who shares about her family, her experiences as a parent, and her knowledge of roles and how to use them to help us advocate for and analyze with...

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces  Monica Isaacson , who shares about her self-government journey, the things that have impacted her family and community the most, and how you can set your family up f...

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije continue the “Meet the Mentors” mini series. Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces  Sariah Schmickrath , who shares about her family travels and experiences, teaching about keeping families together, even with tension present, and increasing emotion...

In this podcast, Nicholeen and Paije begin a new mini series! Teaching Self-Government has so many amazing certified mentors and we wanted you to get to know them and learn from them. “Meet the Mentors” introduces Bryony Wilde, who shares about her experiences with families all over the globe and shares three key principles for successful parenting, no matter where you fall on the success scale. L...