Tea and Takes

If you’re the person everyone calls, checks in with, leans on, or depends on, this episode is for you. Helping people is a beautiful thing, but constantly pouring into others comes at a cost. What’s even more painful is realizing that the very people you’ve consistently shown up for can eventually start to feel irritated by your presence, misread your intentions, or see your support as condescensi...

In this episode, we talk about the danger of taking people’s grace for granted. When someone finally sees the patterns of disrespect, manipulation, or neglect, they’re not just grieving one moment… they’re processing every overlooked moment all at once. That pressure-cooked hurt can burn so deeply that the relationship is never the same, and sometimes neither are they. This conversation is about t...

I’m back, friends! First and foremost.. Happy New Yearrrrrrrrr... After being MIA because of work, On this week's episode, I wanted to hop on and talk about something that’s been on my mind: why we shouldn’t joke about someone’s quirks or sensitive traits—even if we mean it in a loving way. From friends who are autistic, have ADHD, or just talk a lot, to people with habits or styles the world call...

In this episode, I’m unpacking the quiet cognitive dissonance many of us live with every day. It’s that tension between wanting to stay positive, hopeful, soft, and open to love, while also knowing the world isn’t always kind, safe, or fair. It’s the balance between protecting your mind and guarding your life. This episode is about finding that middle ground where you can stay optimistic without b...

In this episode, I celebrate my 30th birthday by sharing 30 lessons life has taught me so far. From learning to love my own company and protecting my boundaries, to building confidence, navigating relationships, and chasing financial stability these are the truths that shaped me and the wisdom I hope can inspire anyone figuring out how to live fully and wisely.

In this episode of Tea and Takes, we dive into a question a friend recently asked and kindly gave permission for us to unpack on the podcast: Are friendships easier when two people are similar, or can totally different personalities still build something strong? We explore compatibility, the role of emotional maturity, and whether differences create friction or balance. It’s a gentle, honest conve...

In this episode of Tea and Takes, I continue the conversation about relationship red flags from last week. We go deeper into the behaviors that really matter and separate them from context-dependent quirks and minor annoyances that people often mistake for dealbreakers. From critical comments about appearance to unusual texting habits, I share more real-life examples and explore what they reveal a...

In this episode of Tea and Takes, I scoured the internet and thought it would be fun to explore real-life relationship red flags, especially since I’m dating. Not all red flags are created equal, so we break down the valid warning signs, the context-dependent behaviors, and the nitpicky annoyances people often mistake for dealbreakers. From overly critical comments about appearance to quirky texti...

In this episode of Tea and Takes, we turn the mirror inward and ask a hard but healing question: Could I be the one making someone else lonely? It’s easy to focus on how others make us feel unseen, but sometimes, without realizing it, our own silence, distraction, or absence creates the very distance we fear. We’ll explore why self-evaluation matters, how actions speak louder than intentions, and...

Being alone doesn’t always mean being lonely, and being with someone doesn’t always mean feeling connected. In this episode of Tea and Takes, we unpack what it means when presence feels like absence, how nonchalance erodes intimacy, and why protecting your emotional cup matters. From love to friendships to family, we explore how to tell if you’re truly lonely or simply at peace in your own company...

What if the secret to happiness isn’t in the big wins, but in noticing the little things? In this episode, we explore how gratitude for simple, everyday moments can shift our perspective and bring lasting joy. From savoring small pleasures to appreciating overlooked blessings, you’ll discover how the practice of gratitude becomes the true hack to happiness. By the end, you’ll be inspired to find j...

When we think of mentors, we often imagine CEOs, industry leaders, or people miles ahead of us. But the truth is, some of the best mentors are right beside us: friends, colleagues, or people just one step further on the journey. In this episode of Tea and Takes with Simi, we dive into the idea that mentorship isn’t only about status or position. We discuss why wisdom can come from unexpected place...

In this episode, we dive into the subtle ways we gaslight ourselves, downplaying our feelings, doubting our experiences, and silencing our own truths. We’ll explore how self-gaslighting shows up in everyday life, why it can be so damaging, and practical steps to break the cycle. This is your reminder to trust your voice, honor your emotions, and give yourself the same compassion you extend to othe...

In this episode of Tea and Takes, I dive into the heated reactions around Toke Makinwa’s decision to have a baby on her own. We talk about why women making bold choices outside of tradition shakes people up, and how religion often gets twisted into a tool for control. This episode is an honest take on why straying from the norm shouldn’t be treated like a sin.

In this first episode of Tea and Takes, I open up about what this space will be about and why I decided to finally begin. I talk about embracing imperfect starts, letting go of the obsession with everything being perfect, and giving yourself permission to just begin. If you’ve been waiting for the “right time,” this one’s for you…sometimes the best way to start is simply to start.