TBO | Two Becoming One

Cultural Myths (Part 5 of 5): Is there really one perfect person for you or does God invite us into covenant love Pastor Jake exposes the cultural myth of The One and shows how it quietly shapes dating, anxiety, and even Christian expectations. He unpacks two roots of the myth compatibility and the idea that attraction cannot change then contrasts both with a gospel vision of covenant commitment t...

Cultural Myths (Part 4 of 5): Does a great marriage require perfect compatibility or something deeper Pastor John tackles the compatibility myth and shows why covenant faithfulness outlasts personality tests and percentages. He walks through sin and change, a vivid sculptor image for spiritual formation, and why Jesus at the center is the only compatibility that ultimately holds couples together....

Cultural Myths (Part 3 of 5): Is marriage really 50 50 or are we turning a covenant into a competition Pastor Warren names the 50 50 myth, shows how scorekeeping erodes unity, and contrasts it with the gospel pattern of giving yourself fully. He grounds the shift in Scripture Joshua’s encounter with the commander of the Lord’s army and God’s unilateral covenant with Abraham and then lands it with...

Cultural Myths (Part 2 of 5): Does sacrifice in marriage make you “lose yourself”? Carrie Vaughn tackles a powerful cultural script, “put yourself first or walk away,” and contrasts it with Christ’s call to mutual service and Spirit-formed identity. With empathy for real harm and nuance for everyday exhaustion, this talk reframes chores, disappointments, and daily fidelity as the very places God g...

Try this this weekName your story: What narrative are you bringing into a current disagreement? Switch the goal: Ask your spouse, “What am I not understanding yet?” Pray your feelings: Bring them to God; ask for wisdom before the next talk

What do we actually do with the mixed messages we learned about intimacy? How does the gospel reshape it in marriage? 🎧 Episode Summary: Our pastors and their spouses get honest about purity-culture baggage, early exposure to explicit content, secrecy and shame, and why modeling everyday affection gives kids security. We also talk God’s purpose for intimacy (delight, covenantal oneness, fruitfuln...

🎧 Episode Summary:In this honest and challenging conversation, Pastors Ryan, Warren , and Jake dive deep into one of the most misunderstood aspects of modern relationships: sex and its role within marriage. Drawing from Scripture, cultural critique, and personal experience, the trio unpacks the competing narratives shaping how we think about sex, identity, and covenant. If you’ve ever wondered wh...

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