Tales From a Sex Store

In this episode of Tales From a Sex Store, hosts Hazel and Billy discuss personal transformations, the vibrant culture of San Francisco, and the importance of community support. They share experiences related to health, body positivity, and the joy of embracing one's identity in a diverse city. Takeaways Transformation through community support Embracing body positivity Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back...

In this episode of Tales From a Sex Store, Hazel shares her personal journey through breast augmentation surgery, detailing her emotional and physical recovery experiences. She discusses the challenges faced during recovery, the importance of informed decision-making, and the various surgical options available for breast reconstruction. Takeaways Emotional recovery is complex Informed choices lead...

In this episode of Tales From a Sex Store, Hazel shares her experiences and insights from her two-week breast augmentation checkup, discussing recovery tools, challenges, and the importance of following medical advice. She emphasizes the significance of self-care during recovery and the emotional journey associated with surgical procedures. Takeaways Importance of following recovery instructions S...

In this episode of Tales From a Sex Store, Hazel shares her personal experiences surrounding her breast augmentation surgery, detailing the pre-operative process, anesthesia, post-operative recovery, and her emotional journey towards self-alignment and embodiment. Takeaways Personal surgery experiences Emotional journey of self-acceptance Chapters 00:00 Surgery Day Experience 05:31 Pre-Operative P...

In this episode of 'Tales From a Sex Store', Hazel shares her personal experiences with various surgeries, emphasizing the importance of preparation and informed decision-making. She discusses her journey towards breast augmentation, the significance of consultations, and practical tips for a comfortable recovery. Takeaways Surgery is a personal journey Preparation is key for recovery Chapters 00:...

In this episode of 'Tales From a Sex Store', Hazel shares her personal journey of preparing for breast augmentation surgery, discussing past physical trauma complications, the complexities of gender dysphoria, and the importance of self-driven research in making informed medical choices. The conversation emphasizes the significance of finding the right healthcare professionals and the emotional as...

The episode delves into the personal journal of the host, exploring themes of transition, gender identity, mental health, and the challenges of navigating societal norms. It also touches on the host's upcoming breast augmentation surgery and the impact of transitioning on their identity and perspective. Takeaways Transitioning as a process of gaining and losing privilege The role of the host as a...

In this episode, Hazel talks about how working at Erotique is a unique experience, characterized by a nurturing and community-oriented environment, diverse hiring practices, and a focus on self-expression and personal investment. She tells us about how the day-to-day work involves customer interactions and product management, as well as personal contributions to the store. She lauds how the team a...

The conversation explores the complex interplay between capitalism and sexuality, delving into the multifaceted impact of capitalism on sexual identity, expression, and behavior. It highlights the interconnectedness of capitalism and sexuality, shedding light on the tension, negotiation, and consent within this relationship. Takeaways Impact of capitalism on sexuality Sexuality and capitalism are...

Hazel reflects on the concept of propriety and the public's response to conversations about sex and sexuality. She shares her experiences of engaging in open discussions and the positive interactions she has had with strangers, encouraging others to speak more freely, find their power, and be open to the play of it all. Takeaways Navigating and normalizing public conversations about sex Encouragin...

The conversation explores the themes of reconnecting with sensuality and eroticism, as well as an expanded definition of sex. It delves into the exploration of eroticism and desire, highlighting the challenges and rewards of embracing vulnerability and sensuality in a desensitized and overstimulated world. Takeaways Reconnecting with sensuality and eroticism Expanded definition of sex Chapters 00:...

Today's special guest is Greg Lam from Future Method! We're talking about butt stuff and Butt Stuff, so get behind it! The conversation covers the topics of sexual health and wellness; exploration and evolution of personal sexuality; the unique story of Future Method; anal douching along with education and unlearning; normalization of sex and sexual health in public discourse; influencers in sexua...

The episode discusses the topic of expanding sexuality, exploring kink, and navigating sexual boundaries and consent. It emphasizes the importance of communication, negotiation, and respect in sexual exploration and provides insights into various acronyms used in the kink scene. Takeaways Importance of communication and negotiation in sexual exploration Understanding and respecting personal bounda...

The conversation explores the late-night visits to the sex store, the importance of spicing up self-pleasure, overcoming hesitation to visit the store, the need for adult playgrounds, building community through shared spaces, and encouraging socialization outside of bars. Takeaways Spicing up self-pleasure is important Encouraging socialization outside of bars is crucial for building healthy commu...

A heartwarming story of an 89-year-old woman who embraced new experiences and encouraged others to do the same. The conversation highlights the importance of embracing change, experiencing a range of emotions, and living life to the fullest. Takeaways Embracing change and new experiences Experiencing a range of emotions is important Chapters 00:00 The Magnetic 89-Year-Old 03:23 Embracing Novel Exp...

Hey friends. For various reasons, we were unable to make an episode this week. We're hoping to be back on track next week, once we've all weathered the various storms we're in. Be well, friends. The Tales From a Sex Store Crew

... Would a kilt by any other name not be as breezy? The story from Miss Kitty's introduces the theme of cultural norms and traditions, and how they impact our choices and behaviors. It also explores the idea of challenging these norms to find more comfortable and meaningful ways of living. The story highlights the importance of self-reflection and curiosity in shaping our perspectives and actions...

The conversation covers the life of José Sarria, the story of Emperor and Empress Norton, gender identity, queer history and activism, and discusses alternative currencies and grassroots economics. They consider the legacy of José Sarria, the historical erasure of the queer community, the fight for LGBTQ+ rights, and the dysphoric nature of drag. It also discusses the preservation and disseminatio...

A discussion on the benefits and myths of masturbation, or self-pleasure, covering the many physical and mental health benefits, debunking myths, and addressing potential risks. The conversation emphasizes the normalcy and importance of self-pleasure in understanding one's body and enhancing relationships. Takeaways Normalcy and importance of self-pleasure Physical and mental health benefits of se...

The conversation attempts to define drag by exploring the history of drag performance and culture. It explores the subversive nature of drag as a challenge to social and cultural norms, and delves into the distinction between gender identity and expression, especially between performance and performativity. The conversation also addresses the legal challenges in and erasure of queer history; the h...

The conversation begins with an introduction and a discussion about Stonewall, highlighting its diversity and the evolution of language. It then transitions into a detailed exploration of the Hanky Code and cruising culture, shedding light on their historical significance and relevance in the queer community. The conversation delves into the contemporary relevance and evolution of the Hanky Code a...

The conversation covers the Pride event in Bozeman, including the booth at Pride-A-Palooza, the partnership with the Oh Hi Collective, and the educational event called Queer Sex Toys with Erotique. It also delves into the challenges of representing a sex store at a family-friendly event, the significance of the Stonewall brick, and the impact of rainbow capitalism. The conversation highlights the...

The hosts reconnect and catch up, discussing social norms in sex stores, toy cleaning and sterilization, attitudes towards sex toys, encounters outside the sex store, dealing with recognized individuals, propositions and uncomfortable encounters, and handling uncomfortable situations. They emphasize the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment for customers and employees, and shar...

The conversation covers the diverse customer base of sex stores, the approachable atmosphere, product exploration, customer interactions, and advice for first-time visitors. It emphasizes the importance of creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for all customers, regardless of their background or experience. Send us your questions and stories to: tfass@erotiquestyle.com Takeaways Diverse C...

The conversation delves into the founding and expansion of the Oh Hi Collective, the cultivation of mental health and authenticity, the negotiation of boundaries and rejection sensitivity, and the importance of embracing expansiveness in communication and consent. It considers embracing the expansive responses "yes and" or "no and" and advocates for a more inclusive and open approach to sexual exp...